how to: BE SELF AWARE 

I totally appreciate the existence of this lady. Such an eye opener you are. Thank you sis

I feel like social media is a major barrier to achieve self awareness because when we spend a lot of time on these apps, we are too focused on what the others are doing / achieving / what they might think of us, and we end up losing or neglecting our most authentic selves or needs in the process. For me, I think being present and go off social media help me achieve self awareness more easily... I am still learning though

Everyday is an opportunity to do more, to be more, and to have more to offer to the World.

It’s important to be able to really be honest with yourself about who you are it’s the key to growth. If you’re not evolving you’re revolving.

"The reason you feel mediocre is because you do not know what you want in life. And people who do not know what they want from life, get anything in life" I haven't heard something this moving in a while. I am a college student, and I have been mediocre for two quarters. I really needed to hear this.. Just watched this before class and cried, but I do feel empowered. At the end of this quarter, I will tell you how I did

“People from your past should not have access to you.” PERIOD !! I can NOT wait for you to make a video on this, please do one soon 😭😭😭🧡

If Breeny EVER takes a trip to the US for a conference, I will be one of the first people to buy a ticket and be present to listen to her speak. I am in awe with how much wisdom this young lady has. May God continue to add more wisdom to you, and give you many more video ideas to share with the world.

I feel like I’ve been living my life on autopilot, Feeling numb, stuck since I’ve been single for two years, crying about my ex and not move on. This video really made me realize that I need to start my soul searching and know who I AM and what I WANT in life so that I can thrive and be happy.

YOU ARE CHANGING SO MANY PEOPLES LIFE, YOU ARE A BLESSING. THAT IS SO POWERFUL, I HOPE GOD MAKES EVERYTHING EASY FOR YOU.

Who am I? A woman still hurt by my childhood trauma. Where am I? On my journey to self-awerness... self love... self mastery. What do I want to do? Inspire, help and raise people but I don't know how yet. Hoping to be my version of you one day Breeny! Thank you so much for what you are doing for us! A french 🇫🇷 in London 🇬🇧

You don’t even understand how excited i get this right here is a detox for me!💫

Hi Breeny , I’m 50 and fabulous, while Im growing, learning and Evolving into the woman I want to be. I was married for 20 years to a gay man. I thought I had the perfect life, but it was the perfect lie. Years later, I entered into a unhealthy relationship because I felt so desperate to be validation as a beautiful and desirable woman. He was the perfect Narcissist. Fast forward, I’ve been single six months and loving it! I’m reinventing myself and preparing myself for the best that is yet to come. As long as someone has breath they have the ability to improve themselves and make their life better! I heard you mention 50 in this video and I wanted to let you know that 50 can be the most beautiful beginning for someone.

You once said that you were doing this, not for the views, but for the people. Even if you only reached one, that would be enough for you. Well you have reached me with your messages and I will be forever thankful. You truly inspire me every day to be better and to get better. I will never be able to thank you enough for that.

Breeny... this video came at the EXACT MOMEMT I finally came to realization that I am a hurt being, who has problems that I can no longer neglect and I just opened up to someone I believe can help and then boom, this video. That’s crazyyy!!! It’s very helpful and so true like wow!!!!

She says “ax me” lol I love this accent! Also great life advice!

I would like you to post everyday i swear. You the best therapist on youtube. Kisses from a senegalese fan💯❤️

Lol. I'm not changing my number. I'm changing my mindset and attitude. People know I don't play. If you're not doing right by me, it's a wrap. I agree with your message always.

breeny you're like the big sister i never had... you're absolutely beautiful inside and out

It feels like I am falling apart and lately I have been allowing myself to feel the way that I feel but I just do not know how to deal with it. I was just about to watch Love and Hip Hop and this video showed up and I think its time for me to do the work. God is dealing with me.

I really needed this I have been questioning my self what I’m doing and why. I feel like I am lost and have a lot of hurt and pain that I haven’t felt with. I see myself as a very strong person but I often feel weak and alone and left behind. Working on getting help and also loving me.

I love this video! I have been single for 3 years, and man the work I have done with myself and becoming self-aware makes me feel so proud! Thank you for making this, you are amazing Breeny!

just on time.......i have been so afraid to let some people go because i am such a people pleaser. i am definetly going to change my number for starters

I haven't watched thevideo yet, but this title feels like it was coming for my throat. Now, I'll be quiet and take the knowledge

My guardian angel just dropped another pearl ❤️

It's a combination of the grace of God upon your life and self awareness - that is why you are wise. being aware of and walking in what He calls you to do and becoming who He created you to be before He put you in your mother's womb. Thanks for all the great content. You are truly a gift from God. I pray that He continues to bless and increase you and your ministry in Jesus' name, Amen. ♥️ Sending you love from Botswana! PS. You look so beautiful.

Like Cornel West explains it, self-examination, self interrogation, then like all good systems teach...self-correction! That's all we're even here to do. Period.

Who I'm I - well I'm a 15 year old girl . Doing her gcse's next year, wanting to make her parents happy - wanting to go to uni and achieve my dream. I don't want to seek validation I want to have a better mindset look at a better view of things and just be happy in life . I've always dreamed of me having my own clothing line or being a singer. But I hope one day I can achieve it and have a better mindset not to compare myself but to who I was yesterday and overcome my fears and be the best person I can be . Okay this was long

I really needed this, im only 20 and i did some terrible shit to the people that truly care for me.. And this was such an eye opener. Thank you so much for this-❤

Self awareness the ability to see yourself from the inside, clearly. To evaluate, to change to be better. How to be a better version of yourself. Being honest with yourself.💎💎💎 Great definition thanks Brenny for making that plain.

Great topic, something that needs to be taught in school 🙌🏼 also, to those who’s struggling with answering “what do you want” - read “Wishcraft” by Barbara Cher, might be veeeeery helpful

I literally just discovered you today and I truly believe this has been the best thing that has happened to me for a while♥️ I appreciate you so much!speak the uncomfortable truth sis!!

Your dresses always suit to the content you come up with !

Breeny I can’t stress how much you helped me when I’m going through a tough time. Your videos are really eye opening and make me feel more empowered than before. I live for your videos 😩

Thank you Breeny. THE EXACT VIDEO I NEEDED. I have been feeling so detached and unmotivated these past few weeks and I think is because I cannot be self aware. I cannot look into myself and I have no goals as of right now. You are a blessing 💕

"Heart how are you?" BEAUTIFUL!!! BRILLIANT!!! 👌🏾💋💋

I've been watching your RU-vid videos for 2 weeks now. In 2 weeks you have completely changed me into a better person for myself. I now look at things differently. I'd rather listen to you now than to music, because you tell such interesting things. My English is super bad. But you always tell it so clearly and forcefully that I understand every word you say. only thing I want to say. Keep it up, you motivate me so much ❤️❤️❤️

Yes, I have been self aware for the last 12 years and done so much work. People tell me the same. Self awareness is KEY. Love your work. Always rooting for you❤️🙏

Sis these chats are everything

I swear I'm gonna end up watching this video like 5 times this week. Legit Soul Food. Thanks again Breeny!🥰🥰

Oh my, I haven’t even clicked this video but this makes me so excited to watch! I was in a discussion about self awareness today, and I was just doing some reflecting. This video came at such a perfect time! I was just thinking I’ve been learning so much about myself lately even some hard truths and it’s so difficult to come to terms with, at times I feel like my self awareness is overwhelming because I just know so much I want to change about myself for the better. I’m going to watch this video now can’t wait to see

Love this ! You give my hope and strength!! Love all your videos! Keep making more! doing no contact almost 3 months in and not stopping. I need to be more self aware and stop living in the moment type attitude.

2:31 EXACTLY! I do as well. I realize it drives people crazy when I do this, but for me it is very therapeutic. It's when I DON'T question something or someone and act on "accept them/it for what it is" that I run into trouble. I am big on journaling, and it is mind-blowing to read how many times when I don't listen to my intuition that it has created problems. I know my gut, and when my gut tells me something about someone or something, I now listen.

I’ve been overthinking for days about certain situations, and this video made me feel so much better. Thank you ✨

I love you Breeny! You have so much wisdom. Thanks for your help. You inspire me every time. Every time when I feel depressed and feel there’s no solution you’re there motivating, encouraging me to be active and work on myself. Please keep posting. You’re doing a great job helping others like me.

love your videos Breeny . I think you really found what you are good at and you are killing it

I am getting addicted to you. You have lifted my spirit from the very low from the first time i came across you here. You are giving clarity to so many stuffs i am stocked with. I am so sticking around your channel. Thank youuuu

Such a great, loving speaker! We share a very similar mentality in my opinion but the way it just pours out of you makes it way easier to relate and take in. Thank you so much for being you 💗

Thanks so much for talking about jealousy and how it’s normal to feel that way sometimes. If you assess your thoughts and why you behave that way, it really gets better, instead of getting defensive about it. 💚

omg this is the first time I'm realizing how important it is to take time and ask questions to myself. wow!!! I've never been to a meet and greet and I pray that maybe one day I will get the chance to meet you!! you have no idea how much you help me and many others on this platform. Love you Breeny!!!!!!

I'm 16 years old and watching just one of your videos has inspired me to unbelievable lengths ... you have taught me how to appreciate myself, how to learn from my mistakes and so much more , you are truly a blessing 💕💕

Ty for this! I needed it. I've been hesitating about speaking to my mother regarding our relationship and how I feel. This video was confirmation. I know it'll be uncomfortable; however, holding in my feelings is no longer an option. I must speak the truth in love.

This helps me become self aware and I realized my worth and I don’t settle for less than the best and I have a lot to accomplish in life

This is a great video about self awareness and how we can get to know ourselves. I feel like I've always been self aware but after watching this I need to get to know myself on a deeper level and definitely sit down to ask myself the questions you mentioned. I would definitely love to hear more about self awareness or anything else that you have to help us on our journeys. You really are a true inspiration Breeny💖

Watching you always reminds me the reason why mental health is important. Thank you for your intentions. For having to prepare yourself to finally sharing with us your wisdom and life lessons. I really do enjoy your inviting healthy energy.

Breeny,you don't know how helpful you're being and helping everybody change so much in them. I personally am a philosophical person and also believe it's important to know life's purpose and self awareness. I think you've answered most of the questions popping in my mind. Thankyou! ❤️

Thank you for what you do. You’re truly helping people

Please never stop posting, this is so valuable

You have reached an enlightened space in your body, soul and mind. You have really awakened and I wanna get there too.

Words can't explain how helpful and important your videos are. They always pop up at the right time. I feel the holy spirit working

yasss. facts. this spoke to my soul.

I have just started watching your videos and I am really happy that you share your wisdom, but also I have to add that you look amazing in this video, goddess

I neeeeeded this video. You don't even understand how much! I haven't been putting my all in things lately. Thank you.

I really love Breeny's preaches and advice. But... One day a guy friend of mine said "anyways you girls only talk about boys when you gather". I got mad but it didn't take long for me to realize he was right. My point is, how about now we put guys to the side (they're trash anyways), or at least stop giving them this much importance (they're trash anyways). Maybe we should start having talks about how to grow and be really good leaders and succeed at work or get the confidence to start a business and empower other women. Just earlier I was speaking to a lady on twitter (we don't even know each other) about how we feel like we're suffocating because our society (we're from West Africa, Senegal) is literally preventing us to spread our wings and ACHIEVE. I feel like we need open discussions and exchanges because ideas can stem from anywhere. I know Breeny covers a lot of other important topics (I really love her, her word has uplifted me countless times). I hope my point gets understood though...

This is so me! I’m always researching and asking questions. I love asking older women for advice to keep myself two steps ahead. The more you know, the more you’ll grow. 🌱✨

Hi! I want to thank you for being such an incredible source of inspiration to me. I discovered you like 6 months ago and I don't know if it was a coincidence, but that was also when I was going through the hardest period of my life. I have a similar perspective upon life as you do and that makes me think ''If it worked for her, it will also work for me. I just have to keep going.''

would love to see a a video on any planners or organizers you use!

I love that you share your thoughts and you help people...I love you!needed this😍😍

And you are the only person that I love watching their long videos please keep them as long as possible its a pleasure

Keep giving it to me straight!!!!!

Brent you are the best , please do create videos for all the topics you mentioned on this video as in ALL OF THEM. You are my weekly mentor . I look forward to all your posts thank you this is therapeutic

Breeny your just the best, thank you for this

Thank you for making this video! You’ve given me so much insight on my life and relationship in only 13 minutes! You have a new subbie! Thank you 🙏🏾

I’m so excited and I haven’t even watched it yet! You look beautiful in the video as well! ❤️🥰💕

Love this so much. Self awareness is the root of self confidence. Soo much truth in one video!

Wow bree! Thank you so much for this ... I hear you loud and clear 👍🏽🙌🏽

You speak truth with love. What a wise women thank you!

you literally give me life! Thank you for sharing to some who are at there most fragile x

I must say, I am finding your videos quite helpful. I am so happy I found your channel and am seriously happy to be on this personal journey from where I was. No boundaries or if I tried to enforce them, I found myself getting accused of having changed. Now I know it was because they didn't like the control being taken away from them. I'll finally be asking myself these questions and writing them down. I know I need to be single for awhile and let the Lord change my heart and help me see myself as He sees me. I'll be watching the rest of your videos. Many blessings to you.

Breeny: uploads new video Me : grabs snack🍿screaming, “BRRRREEEEEEEEEENNNAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYY”

Wow. Like your last part where you say you don't want to complain about your life. I have had that as a motto ever since I turned 18 and it has really done wonders for me. Thanks Breeny.

I feel more self-aware just by watching this video. Thank you for this helpful video, Breeny! ❤️❤️❤️

I cannot express how much I love you and how much you helped me! Best content ever

Amazing points once again by Breeny. I would also love to add that being self aware also helps with filtering criticism. When you see your own weaknesses, and know your strengths, you know whose advice to listen to. Also, knowing self awareness will help see the people who arent, if you can see the green of envy, you can recognise it.

You! Always! Post! Right! On! Time! I hope you know how appreciated you are ✨

Love you breeny, one of my favourite youtubers❤️❤️❤️ literally make me feel so much better everytime you post. 😊

Everytime i watch your videos i feel soo motivated. I love you soo much, thank you!!🙏🏽❤️

Thanks for positive and helpful words God bless you.

Since I started listening to this lady she has helped me a lot

You just gave me homework tonight!!!! Definitely going to be more aware of myself... I know what I want... how I am going to accomplish it is my struggle. Your other video helped me with that as well.

Love this video. Eye opener! Thank you Breeny

I drew close to Breeny in the beginning of quarantine 2020. I believe that at the time, I was supposed to meet someone like her who would help me change my mindset, expel fear and find/accept myself . Fast forward 2021, I am rewatching all her videos and reaffirming my faith, my growth, my success and my value.

You are honestly a blessing 🖤🖤🖤

Love you Breeny! Great advise. It is always good tactic to stop for a while and analyze what is going on and where do I go

Been checking everyday to see if you have posted a new video , love you breeny ❤❤❤

You are so beautiful on the inside and out, it gives my heart hope ♥️

You are such a blessing to to this world!❤❤❤ Thank you so much for having the courage to take the time to love yourself. I feel like I love myself a little bit more after watching your videos. (This one was my favorite)

Gal I have been watching you for a long time..you have encouraged me to start my channel which is at 22 subscribers which is an encouraging channel..may God bless you gal and all of us followers.

Breeny! I’ve been listening to you for a few days now and I knew from the jump you and I were on the same brainwave! I am ALL ABOUT SELF REALIZATION! Yes beautiful woman, teach em…teach us! God be with you always

I used to listen to videos like this all the time and I would be annoyed because I “knew” these were things I needed to do. The problem with me was that thinking that I “knew” got me nowhere fast. I’m finally putting all of these things into practice! I am sensing a great level of self security and awareness that I never thought was possible. Thank you for sharing such important life tips!

I am a new subscriber. This video and recent videos that I have seen of yours has really encouraged me. I am grateful for the time you took out to create them. God bless you sister! I want to add that I was able to receive breakthrough from these videos!