I Can't Stop Obsessing Over My Ex (Attachment Trauma) 

This hit hard

Damn..

Godam

Brilliant, wow

This is gold.

Kk V I can totally relate. How are things now?

Add me let's be friends

ravi bhartia How do you become friends on here ?

You are funny

Lol

Ha this is very true

Wow

Sarah Somebody hi I’m writing this two years later from when you posted but I totally agree with what you said, did it ever for you and did you ever get back with your ex or found a more fulfilling relationship?

Good question

S H thanks for your reply. I’ve remained single and am working on loving myself. My ex lives opposite and will not speak to me so that’s difficult but I’m dealing with it. I now know that I don’t need a man to complete me and I accept things as they are. If I’m meant to fall in love again it will happen if not I’m happy and content with my life sorry for late reply

Hi Sarah! I found this video and saw your post and just wondered how you're doing now since 4 years ago. I was married from 2000-2017 and now remarried but still haunted by previous memories of my ex husband who did not fight to stop the divorce or fight for me. Just curious how you're doing, if you don't mind sharing. Thank you!!! I'm glad I'm not alone in this.

THAT is great, Stacey! Needed that today, thank you. :)

You are so beautiful! Don't worry. Some hot guy will sweep you off your feet before long. You'll be ok ☺

LOL nice

FC l

Hmm😎

Lol 😝

I feel the same way. I just want it stop I don’t want to feel sad anymore.

Same

Same

Same💔

+1

Trannon Goble I

#Truth

Wish there was a pil to wipe my memories clean

Follow up - how are things going for you today?

Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind . Only if !

Nathan Norton How are you doing now? I am now only 1 month in and need HOPE that it gets better!!!

Same here

@@Franzifii how.are.you doing now

@@GMH9765 you doing well now?

@@ngalahansel6066 Well, I would lie to myself if I'd say I have no more feelings for him but I realized I need to move on because it was just too much pain and there were too many problems originating in my non-fulfilled feelings for him, so I decided that I have to put the friendship on hold for a longer period of time, to heal and be a better friend to him at some point, if I can manage to do that in the future, because he's such a wonderful man and he deserves it. He hurt me a few times without wanting to, but he is still one of my favorite humans and a better friend than most other people will ever be, in my oponion. But us being a couple is maybe not meant to be. Fortunately, I can distract myself with a lot of other things at the moment. Building a career, building other quality relationships, interests, and so on. I think I will be ok. What about you?

Toni Smith same!

Not same here, but this is the first time in my life I've obsessed over someone!he ain't even special, but he was the most I've ever felt loved by someone not in my family. And it's been 3 years and I still miss him badly.

@@wanderertatiana2498 I know it may sound crazy, but try this. Can't explain it but this helped me so much. I barely think about him anymore ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-RG6xPO06UtM.html

Look up intermittent reinforcement

@@wanderertatiana2498 how are you now

its never easy bro but we can't bet our important time of life in the dreams which went wrong or did not come true. You guys broke up it is the reality now and deep down u know it too that even if u get her back there's not gonna be the same spark in the relation as it used to. and whtever u did wrong you gotta embrace that it was you who did it and made the choice and if you regret that choice of what you did then you should learn from that mistake and be a better person to build a better relation with a better partner.

Hey guys!! Is there room for one more broken heart? Well thats how i feel about my situation right now.i was married fir twenty two years i have a daughter she is twenty years old Ever since my wife divorced me about a year ago, i feel if my world is coming to an end I feel exactly the same way you guys describe your selfs. I thank Craig for making this video it is amazing. I would appreciate any comments on what’s working for you guys...thanks God bless.

Hi I’m Mathew It would be great too Make some friends 👍🏻

How are things now man?

Same

me neither. My anxious attachment would have me already thinking about when they/new partner would leave! everyone betrays me and leaves for another! why would this seemingly great new partner stay when there have already been others just as great?

How are you now

Yeah

Absolutely.

😫😫😫

@@kellegeez I felt that...😔😔😔🌙

Lol

It sucks...

I relate, man. We gotta build our own good life.

me too 💔

It's been since 2013 & I still feel guilt & remorse

I can totally relate to that! 3yrs 8mo

How are you now

How are you doing now.one year later?

@@ngalahansel6066 That was almost two years ago now. I started on Prozac a little over a year ago and that helped me tremendously. It changed my life. My ex comes to mind every now and again, but it doesn’t affect me one way or the other. I feel free.

@@socalguy97 Awesome! I hope in a year from now I'll also feel free and not have this pang of pain rush through my heart when I picture her with him again

Would love an update four years later lol ❤

I’m here at 3:43 am lol

Maybe. But you are forever part of her life history. That cant be erased. When the chips are down in a relationship, her mind will drift back to you. You may probably never know about. BUT if you go on to find new love, or if you live an exciting passionate life with or without someone, thats gonna sting a bit for her. Plus she carries the burden of knowing she ended it, you didnt. March on, find your best life. Best wishes.

I know right. It might be an evil way of seeing it but... I hope she hates the "new guy" and regrets breaking up with me, but i doubt that will ever happen

@@SpicySoulX it will , human nature craves for new exicements, new life changes , " wanted to be free" but when you get it all in once you feel like you are lost you don't belong here and immedality want to go back , but when you get slowly naturally you fell in love and make bond together like all long term relationships then people got too close they know everyting it becomes "routin" so they sabotage things then cycle returns to new exicements and so on so on, there is 2 choice , one is you will become to master manipulator and learn when to pull back , give attention, dissaper ,and love and hurt at the same time to shake things around and keep them emotional so they don't get bored when you think if i only love her truly she will be "happy" , and second is you will deattach from another human being so you will not be hurt when it is over , but at the end women does not need love , it is just on movies , they need chaos drama attention , they are slaves of their emotions , if you keep them in one emotion they will try to find "new exicetement" , you gonna stir up the waters to keep them interested or you will get abandoned

@@HerbalistGG This is actually not a million miles off the mark. Creating new emotional waves is part of it, basically wanting to say "I am looking for attention"...

@@HerbalistGG yeah, i was the new guy and i didn't know it at the tlme. she was with her bf for two years, dumped him for me then dumped me for him. shit's crazy.

Thanks Chris! I wasn’t aware we had competition 😉

0x007fff - No, you shouldn't. Be grateful you have someone at all. Still an empty bed over here 😕 But it says to me that you didn't grieve that last loss properly. And I hate to say it but the only way to do it is to revisit it...in your mind that is. I wish you luck. ¥

could it just be your guilt? did you cheat on the ex with the new partner?

I’m imagining that’s who my ex girlfriend thinks she has met ..she ditched me by text after 4 years - without any sign of an issue.. I loved her so much

@@bch5758 we deserve someone who deserves us, and that’s hard for me to say based on the fact that I’m working myself day and night to not think about a girl I thought was the one. I keep trying to remind myself that we deserve to be appreciated, and we truly do.

@@bch5758 It's a brutal world. Women are biologically programmed to monkeybranch. I know a guy worth around $10M. His wife left him for a guy worth $200M.

You are SO FUNNY!!! Watching another vid on TV, "how to make your ex miss you" and I have to keep stopping to rewind because I am laughing SO MUCH. And you OBVIOUSLY know what you're talking about. THANK YOU, SIR. If you were an A-hole, like so many therapists, I couldn't listen. WOW, YOU AREN'T FULL OF CACA?! How refreshing. I only wish I'd found you a year ago BEFORE i did EVERYTHING I'm NOT SUPPOSED TO. lmao Okay, 45 mins is enough. I get it. Tell me how to FIX ME, now! ( kidding. sort of... deep end? WHAT deep end? 😝🙃 ) Thanks too, for not making us all feel like half-wits. (Or at least that you've been in our club.) .... "I waited til ALMOST 6 o'clock..." Ouch! Love stinks. 😡🤬🥶🤡 p.s. Do you take Medi-Cal? lololol

LoveMe,com How are doing? Have you and your ex reconciled or have you moved on? I’m 2 months post break up and decided to go no contact this week. I was previously reaching out to him on a limited basis, a couple times a week, and he responded, but never initiated. I’ve been focusing on me and improving myself, but I miss him.

@@staceyswope3438 What happened then stacey?

I believe in Karma! I hope the Same for my ex!!!

me too. Hope he gets it back. He broke my heart big time

I believe in karma as well. She'll pay for what she made me go through.