LEARN THIS! | Become Non-Reactive to a Narcissist 

Well said

Cont...like i dont give a crap!!!💩💩💩💩💩 drives him up the freakin wall!! Feels like power!!!💜🙏🏼🤗🙏🏿🎵😁💜💜

I did this yesterday when my ex tried to trigger me in court .. just giving a pokerface works well . He tried so hard to get me to react to his so called new life , I didn't even flinch because I have my happiness.

@@JB-mo8ir it’s called gray 🪨. Be as interesting as a gray rock. No emotions

@@anastasiakemp3430 if he gets a reaction out of you that means he matters in his sick head

If you let them, they surely will. Arming oneself with knowledge about their ways, is one of the best things a person can do. I’ve learned so much about the narcs in my life, and I promise, I have become a great enemy to them. Now, they’ve been avoiding me.😂😂😂

True

Run

Same here

Same here. Best decision ever.

So true keep away

Has anyone had trouble being non reactive to others once they are out of a narcissistic relationship

Good for you stepping back. Strong move. -@Diane continue to react might mean you are wounded and not able to get into the observer mode. Hope you have been able to take time to heal and realize folks aren't making personal attacks against you. Be gentle w you ✨️ 💕 May you heal and be happy!

Exactly.

Nothings wrong with wanting them to change, the problem is, they won’t. And there’s nothing you can do. Let it Go 🌬️

@@dsmusicbird when you’re truly “cured” and free, you will literally not care whether they change or not. You will just get away from everyone like this from now on.

Yes! Amen!

A direct word from God. I so needed that today.

Thank you for sharing those precious words 💕 bless you Do something special for yourself today x

YES!

AMEN!!! ❤

I am with you. It is sooooo draining and I feel that I am at my breaking point.

They're like little demons poking at you with a fork lol my sibling my whole life till this day and we're in our fifties 😆

@@jencaragia 😆 That’s a great way to imagine it! I guess if we can’t change it, it’s best to make light of it! I’m sorry you have a sis who deals with that, I empathize! Why does this to have to exist.. why can’t people just be nice and caring!

@@cianajames55 I’m sorry you deal with this 😞 I have cut ties with many including my ex husband and bf and the ones that I can’t get away from cuz I live with them I have learned that they can’t help themselves. Deep down they are unhappy and empty. They need you to fill themselves up. Keep your focus on God (if you believe). Keep growing and getting stronger and wiser :) Get what you need elsewhere! There are caring and giving people in the world we just have to do a lot of digging to find them.

@@cianajames55 I’m sorry you deal with this 😞 I have cut ties with many including my ex husband and bf and the ones that I can’t get away from cuz I live with them I have learned that they can’t help themselves. Deep down they are unhappy and empty. They need you to fill themselves up. Keep your focus on God (if you believe). Keep growing and getting stronger and wiser :) Get what you need elsewhere! There are caring and giving people in the world we just have to do a lot of digging to find them.

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Can u give me this Jordan Peterson video?

That's amazing. So encouraging. Thank you for sharing 😊

I pray that will happen for me tomorrow. I have mediation with a narc neighbour tomorrow. I am so Shakey inside, cause I know how they lie and twist everything back onto you. 🙏

Yes yes yes

That's a path I wanna be on now, thrown myself under the bus too long

This helps me a lot. Thanks!

Yes! I know this transformation. I was a people-pleaser, but not a push-over. My gut had told me something was off with the Narcissist/OCPD colleague soon after they were hired, but I shrugged it off to maintain peace. Their aloof overstepping of boundaries gradually increased to abusive, entitled interpersonal control issues about my individual rights as a freaking human. Once I learned it might be a personality disorder, I learned to Grey Rock and I haven't stopped. I trust my gut now with every other person that seems off and entitled to my time, and I aloofly ignore them as aloofly as they don't understand normal boundaries.

No longer the LOVING person we were, but learned to loving oneself in a painful way.

narcissistic personality is just a piece of major issue. BPD or Autism can be the bigger picture to Narcissistic personality

@@stingray9126 I agree

I called the police on my brother fours months ago, best thing l ever did! Now l have some peace, he don't bother me as much any more. Now l wish l had of done it 20 years ago!

This lady preys on, violates, steals from, exploits, defames, and enslaves strangers for years to build and maintain her platform. It's definitely hypocrisy, definitely narcissism, definitely fraudulent, abusive, and psychopathy.

My brother was a narc as well. He died in January this year. Alone.

Too bad frauds like Stephanie take it all, exploit it all, destroy it all for years, and have no accountability for any of it.

Yep i am experiencing this for past half year. All of it tipping on my toes and expecting next battle. At the point of asking my self why would I continue doing this … 🙄 It’s just - the person is hurting so much inside… but i just think that and do not react.

Excellent observation! Thank you for sharing. GS

Good stuff..thank you

I have read many of these comments; yours are my favorite! I must always remember, "It's not personal." "It's not about me!" Thank you!

Yes and it’s exhausting

It takes alot of energy and self control.

I think that it is about getting better at doing it over time. I am facing similar challenge in my life. What I see is to reflect on what did go well and what did not go well and get better at it. It is challenging and sometimes I want to give up. However, it is worthwhile effort to get what I want, which is healthier relationship I have with myself and the other person, which leaving the other person is very costly for me and I am not willing to choose that path yet.

Yes but i did it to my husband .thank God i am out

It's over the top exspectations & removing them from our lives in every way possible makes more sense. No way can I stop each harm and attack from them, no matter who you are. Identity theft. Reputation, family & romantic relationships, children being abused, parents, friends, neighbors, doctor & career harm, credit harm ect.... They never end. Them not knowing where or how to show you they can keep it going for their destructive evil trip power is best. Unless legal actions & law suite and serious trust worthy exsposure in writing & video & legal records or criminal records on them delivered to & showed to their job, school, housing management, business, family, friends, neighbors, doctors ect ,is important to help squash their being stable or trustworthy to others & realize they can lose the most from continued attacks & harm toward you. Them going off to another supply to victimize hopefully who will wake up & deliver them a serious cost & results to their evil Narcissist job on them next 👀👁️.

@Alex Atkins I understand what you're saying about your mom. It was just me and my brother in my he was the Golden boy I was the black sheep of the even to this day. I don't know why but everybody always went along with my mom no matter how wrong she was or how bad she acted they always went along with her and treated me the same way she did all because they knew it made her happy. My mom is a narcissist and she would get everybody in the family to follow behind her and treat me the way she did. 55 years later I me to stay in and started standing up for myself and oh gosh things went from really bad to disastrous. I couldn't take it anymore. She's very evil very spiteful I could see this woman literally destroying my name and my reputation and I still allowed her to come around seeing her do that. She never wanted people to like me or have anything to do with me she wanted people to have nothing but bad thoughts of me. She always had the support of my brother. As long as she's alive she'll never let my name rest. I don't understand people that will go along with somebody and be against and mean to another person who doesn't deserve itthe whole family had eyes they could see all these years even as a child they could see but still went along with her outsiders could too. Now I'm trying to recover from it all I'm really angry at myself for allowing myself to be treated this way by her and my family I'm mad at myself for continuing as an adult to be around her when I could see the lies she was telling on me and how she destroyed my name and reputation from the lies she spoke on me. Sorry didn't mean for this to be this long I just wanted to let you know I understand I really do. In my experience I would say distance depending how bad it is permanent distance and go and live your life and don't allow her to destroy it like I let my mom do before I finally stood up. Good luck to you and best wishes

Alex, I'm so sorry but I loled at "what happened to the woman to woman conversation" bit. Advice is so easy to dish out when others don't truly understand till they experience it. Narcissists are soul destroying. It's just a question of how much of you is left when you get out. Narcissistic parents are the absolute worst, because they start on you at your most vulnerable and trusting: childhood. I'm so glad you're handling this. No contact works for me. I ignore their existence. Once I know what you are I don't care about being agreeable to an evil person.

​@@butterflies1675​​I think we must have had the same mom. I understand, more than I can say, what you went through. They are evil beyond belief. It's unreal. Mine is very religious too. Few people can see her for what she is: how poisonous she is. She tried to isolate me back then, trying to destroy my name and reputation to anyone who showed me even a little love, kindness or respect. She wanted darkness in my life. I put a stop to it by leaving, cutting her off for years. I resumed the relationship, but on my terms. I rarely see her. I was eaten up by rage and bitterness, especially since no one really understood what she had done. But I healed. I'm mostly healed but not entirely. I still seek validation and approval from people, the love she denied me. But I'm working on it. I know how much you've been hurt, believe me. I know the evil that was in your life for so long, trying to destroy you, to make you useless to the world. You're strong. She and others like her won't win. I love you. I hope you fully heal.

Butterflies, Horrible people always get everyone else on their side. Other people just Go Along. Put them all on Ignore, and live in happiness and peace. Music! Movies! Decluttering! Reading! Cat!

@@butterflies1675 I am happy for you that you stood up! You did it -well done! Your family must not have known what hit them - it will have registered somewhere in their heads that they misused you & you are not a sheep! Now you are living your life on your terms. Enjoy your life!

I'm truly sorry you had to endure that

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Right, because they’re not Necessarily always going to be there for you see you have to take good care of yourself because you deserve it. I would give away so much energy and it would make me so angry, I’m really going to practice that’s the best I can.

@@sabrinaszabo9355 without you, there will be no you...

@@hadiitiniguez2393 Who am I and who are you?

Word...

Stephanie has preyed on, violated, stolen from, exploited, defamed, and enslaved strangers for years because she has 24/7 access to their lives. There is no overcoming her abuse until she is stopped and held accountable for her actions. She can't talk about people stepping out of victimhood when she is the abuser.

Yes!

I'm hoping to get to a place of engaging from afar. Praying 🙏 for wisdom.

That is a very good way to put it. Remembering to forgive their love them anyway but step out of being a victim. I love that

No, you don't owe sincerity to the insincere or love to those who are incapable of it. They conspire against their own infant children and will expect pity at the funeral of a child that has self cancelled because of the Narcissists behaviour. I watched one go to visit their ex wife dying of liver cancer who they had driven to alcoholism in hospital. As soon as he realised she'd drank all the money and he'd been left nothing he got up and left, as soon as he realised that no one was going to give him sympathy for his dying ex wife it was like she'd never existed. What is it you think you will be loving from afar?

GM, the "spark" they like to see as they try to light YOU on fire.

They are losing interest because you're no longer supplying them with the sense of power and control they so desperately want and need to feel alive.

@@lynnebucher6537 preach!!

Well said!

Totally, the best explanation, I'm remembering this forever!

💯

Sounds like we dated the same guy. 😳 Fortunately, I left my ex-narc almost a year ago. I'm still recovering from this toxic relationship.

Let him and just agree with him.

Good luck!

Bust out laughing when he tells a whopper of a lie like that. Or say "Oh, really?" with a knowing smile.

Thank you!

🙌🏽

This is definitely a. Brilliant video! So helpful. Thank you! 👍🙌

Ow that's horrible. I hope you are alright and safe now.

it was when a lady said to me, you haven't had enough yet, that woke me up to say oh yes I did, it can be done,good luck

That’s it!

I could've written this. I live the exact same situation. How he uses the kids is just sick

Wendy Clark,You are beautiful 🌷,Hope you are not with a narcissist.....

I agree wholeheartedly. 👍 🙏 💯

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Thank you for your kind words!

WARNING. THE STEPHANIE THAT RESPONDED TO YOUR COMMENT IS A SCAMMER. THAT WASN'T THE REAL STEPHANIE.

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