Also sounds like a lot of places in America. Save somebody's life without permission? Sued. You needed CPR in order to be resuscitated and one of your ribs got bruised? Sued. Somebody drowning and you jump into save them? Sued. smh, people can be so ungrateful. 😶
They can twist it as him not having the qualification nor the equipment needed to catch her (like a firefighter) That's what happens when ppl do first aid and it hurts the person.
This is literally the opening of the first incredibles movie guy saves a person trying to commit suicide then gets blamed for saving them and then losses their job Update the main says this happened last year and incredibles came out over 15 ago so no it did not inspire the incredibles
Actually it's pretty common in China for people to sue someone who tried to help. Like if an old lady falls and someone helps her get up or if someone's hit by a motor bike that drives off another person riding a motor bike stops to help. The thinking is that you wouldn't be helping if you weren't the cause of the accident, only the person who caused the accident would stop to help. It's stupid and most of the time they know the person they're accusing didn't do it, but they're still able to sue and win in the court system, so they do it. It's actually gotten better over the years - ten years ago no one would try to help a stranger for fear of being sued. It's much more common for people to help now that everyone's got cameras to help prove their innocence.
@@AdeleiTeillanaI was seriously just thinking of this! China’s court system is so backwards and inhumane to the innocent, that had the girl’s family actually chosen to sue they likely would’ve won. I’m just glad so many people would still help him out despite it all, and I do hope that young lady gets some help or at least finds peace.
@@AdeleiTeillanaPersonal anecdote: during the pandemic, my parents, two friends of theirs, and I were just walking through a Californian suburban neighborhood. a wheelchair bound man was stuck in the mud of his lawn (it had rained last night) and couldn’t get his chair to reach the ramp to his front door. He asked me for help, so I went immediately to get his chair unstuck. The other adults, all Chinese immigrants, all stood back and did nothing. I was eventually successful and then we all went on our way. Asked about it later, my parents explained that if you did the same thing in China, you’d get sued and burdened with medical bills for the rest of your life. The Cultural Revolution had taught them that strangers in distress can’t be trusted, and kindness is just taken advantage of. The fear of helping others and anything that might go wrong (including possibly catching COVID from this maskless man who was just stuck outside his own home) runs strong to this day for them despite living in America for decades at this point. At least they didn’t stop me though. I was just thinking how bad it would look for 5 ethnic Chinese people to ignore a stranger asking for genuine help at a time when anti-Chinese sentiment was at a high point due to COVID.
It is crazy how many families are like this. I had a roommate in college who was going through some really dark times and he had a crazy family too. I was a friend to him and I stayed up late to listen to him and talk to him. One day he told me his mom hated me and thought I caused all his problems. Turns out they hate nearly everyone who has ever been his friend or had any positive influence on him.
As a security officer myself I can honestly say this man is someone I would always want on my team. We get no appreciation and if/when we get hurt the companies fire us so they don't have to pay workman's comp.
Imagine blaming someone for ONLY injuries instead of death of your child, instead of being eternally grateful that he risked his own life and may be paralyzed for the rest of his life for saving your child. I would be taking care of this man for the rest of his life if that had been my child he saved..❤
i would understand, being in shock from the stress something like that can cause will make some people say some dumb things. some of my family blamed my friend who pulled me out of a car i wrecked because I broke my neck when he undid my seatbelt to get me out of the water.
@@jeremy85well the part of your family that blamed him are jerks, and you are still alive, hope you didn't get permanently paralyzed tho, or drown (but how did you wrek the car, did you silp or crash🤔)
@@lilylunamoonyt it was out of shock and a way of coping, i set them straight when I was able to talk.they are genuinely nice people. i am still paralyzed 12 years later and I did aspirate the dirty water in the culvert so I did technically drown too. even so, i am truly a blessed individual for all that I do have and can do :) i flipped the car after one of the wheels caught some loose gravel and dodging a car that was on the wrong side of the road coming around a curve. never found out who the person in the other car was they didn't stop.
I hope there's a heaven for everybody who lived through this planet for life comes with suffering ever since the birth, with a lot of blood and crying But most likely given the reasoning that we are so small compared to the universe just like bacterias, maybe after death we cease to exist
@Chris___J life comes with suffering but it also comes with goodness. People heard this man's story and jumped at the chance to financially help him. It reminds me of the movie Inside Out. When Joy discovers that the reason that sadness is so important (and not just something to suffer through) is because people show up for sadness. They show up to support and come to the aid of sadness. And it's like that in real life. When I see someone crying my first instinct thought is to ask if they're okay. And I think most people are like that even though not everyone ACTS on that thought. We are very empathetic creatures in that way. So I figure, if we're not just meant to endure suffering but to be able to find joy through support from others then, maybe there is a higher meaning to all of this. Maybe there is a heaven.
That's not how heaven works. Based on research from religions, science, and logic; the Bible is by far the most reliable document to ever exist. That's why it's more reasonable to believe in God in a certain way and it works.
@@Churchill-rAnd that is exactly why religion is bs. What this man did is more courageous and selfless than what 99.9% of those who call themselves religious ever did or will do in their lives, yet we're supposed to believe that if he doesn't believe in that one God in a world that has multiple religions, he will suffer for eternity after death. Do you seriously not see the complete and utter EVIL of god if that's really how the world works? EVIL is the absolute only way to describe it
It makes you wonder why the poor girl jumped. Hopefully the girl herself was grateful. I pray for the young hero's health and longevity. It is heartwarming that people stepped in to help him.
@@unstableisotopeiscool because he's asian. How US see asian males should be portrayed: "not man and china evil, china fake, small pp" They'll find anything negative to say. It's weird but that's the kind of silent racism culture towards asian from US, it's just kept at a subtle non visible level, but it is there and showed up during the pandemic.
This guy was awesome for trying to save a person who obviously is ungrateful for him risking himself getting hurt in the process. Someone who (is self-centered?) that do this are heartless 💔 and don't seem care who they hurt mentally nor physical. Ugh. 😫
This might be a bad example, but it makes me think of the Incredibles. The rescue Mr. Incredible did wasn't an amazing rescue, but the guy he saved didn't want to be saved and wanted to sue Mr. Incredible for saving his life. I guess some people just don't want to be saved and want to do stupid stuff.
How ungrateful those people are. They should be publicly shamed for what they said to that incredibly unselfish, compassionate, brave and heroic young man.
Sick world, but this story just shows there are people that are heartless and evil and than there are humans that are like angels and real heros. I wish for more people like him the world would be a better place.
This poor guy, he just wanted to save someone from dying, risked his own life from the process, and lost his job and got crap from the girl's family, absolutely awful
I think I know what happened. To understand the family anger, I think they wanted her to die to 'dispose' her, but when he saved her, the family didn't want her around, so they got angry. The job is understandable. If you are paralyzed, you cannot work in that, sadly enough.
@@thesupervideogamenerdmore3171 Yeah, the job is understandable (sadly) but the family being angry has no excuse, they're disgusting people no matter what their reason
@Imamotherfreakingavocado The life insurance check was gonna hit different for them if Qu had not saved her, so that's maybe why they were angry, although still highly inmoral and just wrong.
@@AlfarooqAlmenghawi Yup, "No good deed goes unpunished" is a common saying since a long time, it's really common that good people end up being ridiculed, scammed, cheated on and well... Overall punished in some way for doing the right thing.
Unfortunately China doesn't have protection for good Samaritans who try to save someone's life. This is why even in America you rarely see a Chinese coming forward to help. My own relatives even warned me against helping someone in need because and I quote "they will sue you"
People have also been sued here for doing CPR, and the person having injuries because of the CPR. Is insane, because broken ribs is common in CPR, yet, the person won. This is why a lot of people here don't help either because the risk of being sued. What a sad world, when you have to be afraid of losing everything you own and your earnings for the rest of your life because you saved someone else's life and they were an asshole.
@reneecaballero9624 yeah. I heard about that incident from my mom's best friend. It's really sad that we can't even help each other because of fear of being sued.
That is one of the most outrageous things I have ever heard. No wonder people won't help each other, too afraid of being sued. What happened to gratitude???
In addition to the guy, this also speaks tons about the family surrounding that girl. Imagine valuing anything over the life of your child being saved. There’s no good reason why they should have been upset, only selfish ones. That girl likely had no one good supporting her in life :( Praying for her and that hero 🙏
@@everybodysfavoritenobodythats how family works, they force their views on you. her family likely thinks suicide is acceptable and stopping someone from doing it is evil
@lukaswilhelm9290 Google says it's Walter Map's "De nugis curialium" from the 12th century, and the full saying is "left no good deed unpunished, no bad one unrewarded"
You do what you gotta do that you feel is right, even if everyone hates you for it. That's what being a real hero is all about. Even Thanos himself said it better, and he's just another villain! "The hardest of choices requires the strongest of wills." ~ Thanos
THAT'S REALITY. I'm 13 but I know very well that I'll never be recognizable in this corrupted society because it is CORRUPTED WHICH PREVENTS WORLD PEACE.
mrs beast letting kid drink water twitter : die die mrs beast your promoting stereotypes him : so you want these kids to die of dehydration ? twitter : no no I don't know but stop the stereotype let the government do it him : they did nothing for so long twitter : I don't care shut up I hate facts
This actually baffles me, he saved her life and after saving their daughter. They want to sue him? The disrespect is beyond comprehension. I hope he gets better ❤
The family suing is quite common now in China. If people see someone lying on the ground, they don't even stop to see what's wrong. If they do, they will be blamed for the fall and sued.
I think China had to put in a new law to protect people trying to be good samaritans due to people being too scared to help others in case they are sued, but I don't know if it has changed anything
How the hell do you work as a security guard when you're paralyzed? Telekinesis? He made a very heroic act and saved a girls life, but the company isn't legally obligated to pay him lots of money and honor him forever. It sucks, but life is life.
That reminds me of a story where some Japanese or Chinese guy survived the Titanic, and everyone hated him because he didn't give up his place on the lifeboat for a child or a woman... The guy said that he didn't find anyone around and that he just didn't want to die (like any other human being)
I think I've seen this movie He will then be sued and go into hiding for about 20 years before defeating the bad guy by realizing the power of family. It was an incredible movie
Unfortunately this sort of thing happens in China more often than you think.They don't have good Samaritan laws so their have been cases of people saving someone and fhen getting sued for any injuries they sustain (one prominent case being Xu Shoulan v. Peng Yu civil suit).
@@Nagvanshieus care to explain the "law" that stated why you guys prohibited to safe someone from drowning? Because I've seen lot i mean lot of Chinese drowning in public pools, yet no one care to help
How much more ungrateful can people be??!! Like hello I just saved your daughter’s life and then you choose to insult me? Maybe I should just let her fall and see you guys crying. Is that what you want? But like the girls family’s reaction has me furious and I would gladly teach them a lesson if I ever meet them.
In china, if you’re involved for whatever reason, you can be held liable for damages. This encourages people to fake injuries and not help anyone to avoid having to pay or get easy money
He deserves to be treated like royalty for the rest of his life. What a truly selfless and heroic person. Shame on that family for how they treated him!
I read some of the comments and apparently some people who have/ tried saved/ing someone's life have been sued. There aren't good Samaritan laws there. There have been several cases of the one who saved someone being sued. Yeah its messed up..
I agree. some people have no problem being cruel to female family members. but not the male ones if that family don't repent. they won't end in Heaven.
This story makes me lose faith in humanity even more. For all we know, the girl's family could be greedy a-holes who wanted to cash in on the girl's life insurance and hence hated the guy for saving her.
God gives us a choice on whether to invite him in or not. Besides what happened before the great flood was the only time period where he truly wanted to destroy us permanently.
"No good deed goes unpunished", this was said on the 12th century, more than 800 years ago, the world is been fucked since a very long time, being a good citizen rarely pays off.
I live in germany and the thought that he was fired because he got hurt when saving someone's life is crazy and not being able to pay his medical bills is crazy. This would be illegal and his medical injuries also probably payed by insurance 😢 He would have atleast have to get paid sick leave
Apparently this is pretty common in china. You will see video of people lying in the middle of the road. People will pass by without touching them,let alone helping them. Apparently you can be sued if you're the first person to touch an injured person. If you're the first person to touch them, you're considered to be the one who injured them.
Bless this man's heart! He absolutely did the right thing ~~ no matter what anyone said! God bless you Sir and everyone that helps you! Merry Christmas from Texas and Happy New Year to everyone here 🌹🙏✝️❤️🎄🎁
I am glad this hero still does not regret his choice. This man has my respect. Qu, your strength and resolve are felt from the other side of the world.
Reminds me of a similar story , dont remember if it was from China or Japan, where someone was suffering a medical emergency, when someone successfully performed CPR and saved her she got him arrested, I forgot the reason. Since then people just looked away and ignored people in similar situations because they were afraid of getting arrested. It got soo bad that the goverment had to step in to encourage people to not ignore people in danger.
