Polygyny polygamy in Islam with real stories 

وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَى وَثُلاثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَلا تَعُولُوا (النساء 3)

بارك الله فيك اخت ربى وأسأل الله لك الثبات والتوفيق في الدنيا والدرجات العلا في الآخرة

جزاك الله خيرا وبارك الله فيك ونفع بك الامه ومد الله في عمرك على طاعته ومن عليك بالصحة والعافية والسعادة في الدنيا والآخرة اللهم امين وصلي اللهم على حبيبنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم تسليما كثيرا

الحمدلله رب العالمين... اللهم صلِّ وسلم وبارك على عبدك ورسولك محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه الطيبين الطاهرين اجمعين

بارك الله فيك أختي وجعله في ميزان حسناتكم

بارك الله فيك وجزاك الله خيرا جعله الله في ميزان حسناتك

بارك الله فيك وزادك علما وحكمة

Polygyny is a blessing. Men please if you are going to marry another wife please look into the Sunnah and Quran. Respect the women's rights and treat them equally. Allah knows best.

43:41 this sister made alot of sense. Subhanallah

بوركت سيدتي الخلوق الغالية

جزاك الله خير الله يحفظك ويسعدك ويوفقك ويرزقك ويبارك فيك

بارك الله فيك وفي كل ما تقدمينه موفقه باذن الله سبحانه وتعالى

بارك الله فيك

اخت ربى لو انك تترجمي فيديوهاتك الى العربيه ،يساعد في انتشارها وبالتالي نشر فحواها ....!

اللهم أرحم موتانا وموتا المسلمين والمسلمات والمؤمنين والمؤمنات الاحيا منهم والاموات اللهم امين يارب العالمين

الله يحفظك ويسعدك اختي مبين الجواء عندكم مثلج الله يعينكم

جزاك الله خيرا أختي الكريمة

Why do men need so many women especially if it causes difficulty for some people it can stress you mentally , financially, physically, emotionally Why???

MASHALLAH

سبحان الله !!! الغرب يستغرب جدا من الزواج من أكثر أمرأة، ولا يستغرب ولا ينتابه القلق على وقوع الفتاة في الغرب في ريعان شبابها وأوج تألقها في مغامرات عاطفية عديدة ووقوعها في أحضان رجال كثيرين مما يكسر قلبها في كثير من الأحيان أو يشوه أنوثتها ويكسر حاجز الحياء في نفسها، ويلقي بها في بعض الأحيان على رصيف الأنتظار لفرصة أفضل أو على رصيف الرفض بعد أن استنفذت فرصها ومضى بها قطار العمر .. حياة فارغة من أي معنى تختفي وراء قهقهات وهي تحتسي شيئا من الشراب في بار أو ما شابه!!!

Mashallah

سبحان الله الحمدلله ولا اله الا الله والله اكبر

One thing i would like to add to what the brothers was saying Jazakallahu khairan, But i beleive there not enough education out there on how to do Polygyny correctly and for many men it is a free for all with not rules and regulations. I beleive we as men should educate our brother more on this issue so they dont do the wrongs that they are doing and spoil this beautiful institution of Marriage and Polygyny that Allah has made permissible for use. I always say that men should befiore they enter into polygyny go into a self development program to make themselve the best version of themselves then enter into it. The solution is education of both the brothers and the sisters and there is not enough of it

Thanks

I think we have a misconception above the law. the west does not accept Islamic Marriage in the first place. The nikah is not acceted as a legal marriage. If you have made nikah only and you want to bring you spouse into the country Nikah certifcate alone is not sufficient you still need to do civil marriage. So the fact that they dont recognise Nikah in the first place , we in front of Allah Nikah is binding not civil marriage. So we are not breaking the law of the land if they do not accpept the nikah, all polygyny is is another Nikah and they dont accept 1 like they dont accept 2,3,or 4. How ever in us our Law in the Quran that superceces the law of the land, and Allah says if and our prophet has decreed something who are we (or even the western Governments) to have an opinion. And Allah knows best

ربنا يفتح عليكي يامدام ربي

I have been honest with my intentions to have multiple wives. However sisters and her family cannot handle the truth. Hence sometimes it is best if men don’t disclose his intention until he finds second wife.

appreciate Sr. Erika's words around ~36:00, mashaAllah

17:42 you don't have to get out the country. If you marry your wives strictly islamically. I agree to disagree with the brother. Everyone can't just leave the country.

I live in the states and have 4 wives one of them is a revert one and I have no problem alhamdulliah. Of course one is registered with the state,the rest are Shria marriage. For those who say a man should have one wife only my question to them the prophet peace be upon him said there is a time will come when for every man there is going to be 50 woman as world population,now if every Muslim man married one Muslim woman what about the rest of the Muslim women?

I disagree with this tradition 100% and it’s simple.. if my Muslim husband would get upset to the core and it would be a huge insult if I sleep with another man what makes him think my feelings won’t matter if he does the same? 🤔😏 it just doesn’t make sense at all. It’s about respect and at the end of the day it will never be equal for both wife’s or 3 or 4.

At 18:00 - I am an American woman, a convert of 20 years, whose family has been in America for hundreds of years. I disagree that Muslims shouldn’t practice polygyny here because it’s illegal. Americans left and right are engaging in polyamory in some form, and it’s not illegal. Polygyny is essentially one-sided polyamory, where all parties agree to certain standards, responsibilities and expectations for their relationship, and they commit ideally for life. Bigamy is illegal. Loving and having committed relationships with multiple people is not. Muslims in America imho can engage in consensual polygyny, where all parties are informed and aware, and agree to give each other their rights (lawyers can draw up legal papers to help assure them), so long as they only have nikkah. The type of polygamy that America is against is Mormon cult-style polygamy, a la Warren Jeffs, due to the abuse which came with it. But nobody cares about committed polyamory.

Al-Aleem Al-Hakeem 41:00 I disagree when we use words like “excuses” because what exactly do you mean by “we give them excuses?”, how do you even know that he himself has not been giving you “excuses” (try to think good of others) as married women and men each one of us should know and learn their spouse, men have their trials and as women we have our trials, both of us will never be perfect, if my husband comes to me wanting to find a 2/3/4th wife, best thing for me is to have tawakul and increase in my prayers for me and for him in his decision (maybe Allah is waiting for you to take that step so that HE can reward with more baraka and Jannah) In life, we should learn to sacrifice our desires, many women always say but why can’t he sacrifice?, Well… if we always wait for our spouses to sacrifice, we will always remain the way we are. It’s not easy to sacrifice, Yes But we are in this duniyah to be tested. Sometimes we look at the materialistic things we have and we use it to judge whether he can manage or not but we forget that these things were provided to us by Allah and he can take it all away if HE(Allah) wants to (and Allah specified this in Quran, that HE will provide for you (so make the intentions right) Shaytan will always come to us and more so trick us into breaking our own homes for our desires, It’s not easy but the best are those who say Alhamdulillah when a trial hits them. When we get into a dispute with a friend, even if they were wrong, we brush it off/take the blame so as to keep the friendship going coz 1 stupid argument is not worthy a friendship, why not do the same with our spouses, When our bosses replace us with their favorite(even tho they are not worthy the position) we do not boycott/quit this boss, we suck it in and keep working to impress them, then why not bring on the same energy in our homes?? Sorry but I call this HYPOCRISY, that we are willing to do anything to impress the outside world but we are not willing to do the same with our families. Your marriage will either be your door to JANNAH OR JAHANNAM and it’s an individual struggle. And yes, polygyny is not for everyone but that’s not the point here. May Allah guide us all,Ameen.

Assalamaualaikum. we must bear in Mind that Polygyny is not an islamic invention Allah only capped and regulated it. prior to islam there were not regulatios women were being mistreated and of course islam came to liberate women. So when the ayah say marry 2 , 3, or 4, the 2 ,3,or 4 was the norm not the 1.The world was a polygynous society not a monogamous. men were not created to be Monogamous. marriage in islam is Based on rights and responsiblity. It is not the responsibility of the wife to provide and protect, if she was to marry more than one husband then it would be a reverse in the roles and responsibilties. would she be responsible for 4 men to house them, feed them clothe them? would she have go out to and work to cater for her families? Would she have to hop to differnt houses every week or 2 days or 3days to give each men his right? And also if she has children with every man will she have to take the child every time shes goes to each man's house seeing that the child is not his. Out f Allah's wisdom he made ta'addud az zawaj for the men to practice but for the protection of the women from all these mentioned above. that is why it is not wise for women to practice polyandry

Al-Aleem Al-Hakeem

Marrying more then one wife is illegal in the United States