Sex Tips for Men and Women | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans 

Your absolutely right about how men stop talking after dating when they move into marriage. Lord, help me remember to set aside time to talk to my wife daily as a good listener

Quote: If men only knew honesty is the best stress reliever there is: Eboni King

Thanks for this

Honest men is very attractive

I most certainly agree with Shirelle Green. The reason Christians and as you stated Followers of Christ think it's trash is because of the way this world has perceived and published it. If we as the Body of Christ are afraid to expose the truth then we allow our marriages to go down the tube because of fear. Remember, God has not given anyone the spirit of fear, But what? Power, Love and a Sound Mind.

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Quote: Truth shall outlast everyone lies

What is being taught here is duty sex. Duty sex is not the same as making love. My husband does NOT want duty sex. I think this teaching that it doesn't matter what the wife wants is terrible, not taking her into account at all. That makes her USED, not LOVED. My husband is not an animal who requires his every sexual whim/urge/thought/feeling to be acted upon. He is a mature man. He loves me more than he loves himself, and respects me. He doesn't want me to be sexual whenever he feels like it and think that it doesn't matter what I want or need. The reverse is true too. I love and respect him for that. Saying, "not now, dear" is not a rejection. It is an "ask me later." "Husbands, love your wives just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her." Eph. 5:25 Doesn't that sound like a sensitive man who should take his wife's thoughts and feelings into account? It does to me. Expecting sex on demand is not loving. It is selfish.... My husband also didn't need to be told to listen to me and share his thoughts and feelings with me. We talk all the time, are in contact all day and make each other laugh. That's important. We've been married for 43 years, and don't have arguments anymore. We have discussions. We are completely wound around each other.

sedruol I believe that it's important for the church to discuss sex. God created it for husbands and wives. The problem is that so many people have connected to sex inappropriately so now everyone sees it as something that's wrong or bad... it was created by God for us so how can it be wrong... Christians need to know how to re-train their thinking about it and what better way then to learn it from a teacher who is teaching based on the bible.

Oops, I thought the headline said: Six Tips for Men and Women.

WHERE is the criticical teaching of 1 Corinthians 7 ?? WHERE IS IT ? It is the core of marriage ! If you neglect 1 Co 7 , you blow up the marriage bed and destroy marriage. Thta is exactly what Satan wants.

Quote: honesty is an attractive trait to have: Eboni King

Intimacy starts in the am, not 9 pm. Women know your sexuality. Men, know that you have to do some work before coming together, start a chat, a massage a foot rub, YEAH!

Jewelry. A single rose. A bouquet sent to her at work. Jewelry. Do what you did in the beginning. Rub her back. Text, call. Do you forget about her all day? Well you can probably forget about it in the evening too.

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I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME PHIL 4:13

Quote: Those who respect God honors what he say: Eboni King

Instituted: Set in motion or established. Appoint someone to a position , especially as a cleric Bible: Jesus said, "Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn't for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked - or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you're capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it. Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between husband and wife. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex.

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1 Corinthians 6:9-10 New King James Version (NKJV) 9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,[a] nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. The marriage bed is to be kept "Honorable" . And is undefiled when it is kept honorable . do not think sodomy is honorable it is sexually immoral . Trust the lord you do not need to have dishonorable immoral sex to have a fulfilling marriage . You need love and caring you need to be self sacrificing and patient for real love to grow . This will give you the best in your marriage and allow you to know a true passionate and whole love between you and your spouse . True intimacy and fulfillment where love is the focus not only just sexual gratification , but were you really love the other and they you . Love grows when nurtured do not poison that love with sexual immorality but nurture it with gods truth . May you be blessed and love him with all your hearts .

I have a higher drive than the mister. I do not expect him to saddle up and perform if he isn't in the mood. Likewise, he doesn't expect me to phone in a performance if I'm not in the mood. Sex happens when we are BOTH in the mood, and it's dynamite. Neither of us is the other's servant. We are equal partners.

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I live sin and evil free

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

If God wanted me to enjoy sex he messed up the wiring. Sex is nothing more than a job I don't get paid for.

LOL, it's amazing to make her eyes roll back with pleasure again and again, there’s nothing quite like it, I tried what I mentioned not long ago and now she can’t let go of me, just had to go'ogle the latest by Merle Winestol and now she’s pulling me back in for more every time!

No, women are also adults and men also have emotional needs, neither needs to be shepherded like they can't think for themselves. Compartmentalization might be more common in men but it is not a given that men always do it that women never do. Whoever can not compartmentalize at a given moment is just as responsible for voicing that as their partner is for noticing it. Contrarywise men also need non-sexual touch, attention and conversation. Men are also human beings they're not little vacuum cleaners that you can shove in a closet when your done with them. What do you mean by ""sin""? Is this just an attempt to shame people for oral sex without actually saying it? Sexual needs are unchangeable, I know it's a bit off topic but that's a funny thing to say coming from someone who's almost certainly homophobic. Men do need to talk about their feelings, telling them that you don't care about what they think is probably the wrong response because if someone can never talk about their feelings there's usually a reason. The same for sex, if a person can't ever have sex there's a reason.

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bluepills?

My thoughts are Satan free

Who has the time to baby an adult just to get some sex. I rather be celibate. For crying out loud, how am I not inclusive. The fact that I have to work so hard to satisfy her is a total turn off. I can't be intimate with someone who isn't capable of handling their own happiness. And yes, the fact that its been used as a bargaining tool, to fix all the problems in her life, is a huge problem. I don't have time for this. I can suppress my sex drive with a few supplements, thank you very much. More time for computer science, and electrical engineering that way.

Good grief you make marriage sooo hard!!! Not even worth it. Sheesh