There Are NOT Two Sides to a Narcissist: The One That Was Nice and Other That Was Mean

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The Illusion of Two Sides: The Nice vs. Mean
Narcissist
Have you ever found yourself longing for
the "nice" version of a narcissist, hoping
they would return?
Do you question whether the good
moments in the relationship were genuine
or just a manipulative facade?
Are you ready to let go of the illusion and
gain a deeper understanding of the true
nature of a narcissist?
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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.
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19 июн 2023

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@sarahedin7634 Год назад

This actually makes things a little easier, realizing you didn't actually lose a wonderful person. That person was never there.

@pauladuncanadams1750 Год назад

It's the bad guy pretending to be the good guy. It's an act.

@cameogutierrez3466 Год назад

Who they are in the end is who they really are.

@mauraorrell8766 Год назад

The person I wanted was the person he was with everyone else except me.

@triplejmom7826 Год назад

The nice one is there to keep you in the relationship when the mean one shows up. They’re both evil.

@charmee4045 Год назад

I think you can have PTSD after the narcissistic experience. I know I am not the same. I don't think you can get there without therapy. Too much to unravel. I don't think I have ever been this close to pure evil. Terrifying.

@Cellia836 Год назад

It’s soul Cushing Ben! It’s like the person you loved died and there was nothing you could do about it at all.

@catherineclark169 Год назад

My ex-husband changed forever one month into our marriage. He was a totally different person. I came to realise that he didn't change after marriage. He was pretending to be nice before we were married. Afterwards, he dropped the mask. He never reverted.

@lindainphx6515 Год назад

Back before I knew what a Narcissist was, I naively described my ex husband as a generally "nice guy" who would sometimes lose his temper and behave badly. It took me far too many years to understand that the A-hole part of him was actually the "real" him and the "nice" him was what he pretended to be. His default mode is A-hole and the older he got, the worse he got. After many years of him threatening to leave me if I didn't do this, that, or the other, I called his bluff and said "that sounds good to me, get out". I've had 8 years of peace and quiet and only wish I would have done it decades earlier.

@SyntheticaKishierra Год назад

This is soo good! I dated a guy that i just knew he was a narcissist! He was sooo nice to me at the beginning and then started to slowly attack my character and be little me. I drop his ass like a bad habit! Ain’t nooo body got time for that 🙅‍♀️

@ND-or5so Год назад

Do you know they switch back and forth?

@katvond6346 Год назад

They act 'nice' when they need something from you.

@MC-cz5qd Год назад

For me, going through this was waking up to the reality that there are actual horrible people out there-people who deliberately and shamelessly manipulate you to get what they want. It’s the stuff you see in movies, right? You don’t ever expect it to happen to you. I was going around assuming people are honest and true, and I never thought of myself as naive; I just thought I could tell the good ones from the bad ones, and I never thought a good one would turn out to be the worst one.

@Yathome00 Год назад

So interesting! My ex as I was ending the nonsense he knew I was starting my discard of him, he said that he wished we could go back to how it was at the beginning of when we met. I now understand he was saying that he wished we were at the stage where I thought he was a great person and I had not yet seen through him. Fascinating.

@kathleenquinn6053 Год назад

I just got divorced from my narcissist husband. He was the nice guy till we got married, then he shifted to a verbally abusive jerk. We split up a few times & he would come back as nice guy only to shift again. Finally enough was enough

@ND-or5so Год назад

I said to the Covert narcissist, " i see you act like you have confidence and then I see you act like you have no confidence. I said I think you have at least 2 personalities. He said you're right, and they both hate each other!

@sarahgrohmusic Год назад

This is the best 12 minute, Come to Jesus moment for any codepend Narc victim can watch.

@shawshank6015 Год назад

This is really me right now. 39yrs into this marriage. Your videos really help me. This video hit hard today. 😢 I get it. Thank you!

@tonyadanford9982

This was mind blowing to me. I've asked this question for a long time. For those of you still in these relationships, please leave now, don't wait. I've been in one for 27 years. I feel like he took my whole life from me and I'm seeing the effects on my grown children who are repeating the pattern with abusive partners.