This Is The Ugly Truth 

Yeah nice try with the f*ckboys schtick, but we all know that's a minority, 5-10% at most? Because the majority of average men are invisible to the average woman. It's okay to criticize women without having to pull an equalizer for the men out of nowhere, lord knows men have been shamed for decades for having any standards at all....

True it’s not fun most of the time. It’s an anxious anticipation of validation and and anticipation of feeling really good. It’s a protracted holding out for something imagined while undoubtedly feeling a numbnesses you describe. The tragedy is that women can learn to differentiate so easily early on, since on average they get more attention.

I don't know why we're focusing on women. Partying and clubbing isn't fulfilling for anyone. All of my long term relationships came from chance encounters. If I'd met these same people while clubbing, it would have amounted to nothing.

She is a trainwreck that needs a strong man to reign over her to keep her out of trouble...😊

6:58 I don't know if you caught this particular one the first time it went around, but this woman's story is insane. When I first saw her "I'm 40 and I don't have a husband to take care of me" video, my heart did swell with compassion. I thought she had cancer or something. She was talking about an upcoming surgery. Well, I did just a bit more digging through her channel. If I remember correctly, she was getting a boob job.I am not kidding. This was the surgery she was talking about. This was what the pitiful tears were for. "I still need my mama" to take care of her - for being post-op for a breast lift and implants. Don't worry, though. She came through it fine and is in love with her 40 year old body again. She went right back to her single life with great happiness. Watching the plastic surgery video was the moment I hit peak cynicism with Western culture. I no longer have any hope.

She’s a free bird without guidance headed straight for the sun🤣🤣🤣

Most party people are a slave to their vices. Good for you.

congratulations, hope you guys have another 22

women have tough environments since hoes rule the world rn. mothers are the silent majority

Women keep other women single. Join me in my misery. Pass.

as for 4), be they gone, indeed.

No 4 is real.. 😂

Why can you not SmelDa stench? And you wonder why you are in court when they caught you, Now I am going to have my Life Paid for *Wooohoooooo*

I think they subconsciously want to get pregnant but don't understand their biology well enough. These are probably women with no children.

Sociopathy = fitting in with the group

As a former bartender and bouncer, i can confirm and add that not only are the souls lost but they don't want to be found or saved in the slightest bit.

@@jamaljones6092 exactly.

As a drummer I set in with different bands and usually at clubs. A large group of drunks. Yuck !

@@jamaljones6092 I am starting to think this is a lowkey suicide. Those persons do not want too live but to afraid do it an oldschool way.

Such a shallow life

1 Corinthians 16:14 (NIV) - "Do everything in love." This verse encourages us to approach all our actions and interactions with love, which can help promote unity and support among women and everyone else, rather than sabotaging each other's happiness and mental health.

Whats worse is siblings do this too.

these girls are demons

used to date a girl shortly who had flatmates who were like that. She didn't have insta or so but they told her to get it and be active on tinder and join them every weekend to go out. She slowly drifted into the path of her flatmates but didn't talked to her after.

@@diemervdberg7661You are the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

very well said.

It's the I'm a princess mentality for me. B you're not special or even worth it. Easy yeah that's why so what

Why can you not SmelDa stench? And you wonder why you are in court when they caught you, Now I am going to have my Life Paid for *Wooohoooooo*

So proud of their debauchery.

I think a better way to say it is this: “If you see yourself as a prize to be won, people will play you like a game to win the prize.”

Clubbing = drugs, sex, alcohol, and no morals.

clubbing is kinda shitty, raving on the other hand...

Man, you explain it exactly as I felt back then. Oh I still do but I'm so far from those times it doesn't even relate. Hating pop music certainly helped too ha ha.

I disagree with Alexander's premise in this case. Clubbing is truly what women consider fun. from drinking to having drinks paid for them, being approached followed by the opportunity to reject men, getting attention, crappy music and all as in every other establishment that caters to women (radio stations, TV, shopping malls...), but it most certainly is of no benefit to most men. Women are not men in dresses, and do not experience the same range or depth of thoughts and emotions as men. There's a reason educated men of the past kept women from testifying, museums, philosophy, education... and so many other things male created. Men understood that women would perjure themselves without experiencing any guilt/remorse (who commits all of the false accusations?), and that they'd ruin art (who's a fan of lady gaga, taylor swift, miley cyrus...?), and just look at our female dominated education system. So it's not that women don't enjoy clubbing, it's that they need more simps out there bying them drinks and more alphas to take them home.

​@@SansSentimentsI agree, raving is mostly about the music, dancing and being silly. Clubbing is a weird sanctuary for the ego.

100% I don't know why that isn't obvious.

​@@venetianlucifer because humans are smart; people are stupid.

100% truth here

@ApexSelva For a lot of them the answer is unfortunately late 30s-40s possibly never. An adult in todays age should be based on maturity and taking self responsibility. Even the mentally disabled live to see older ages today, age should not be the deciding factor anymore for an adult. I've met 14 year olds more mature than some 30 year old women.

It's primarily about serving addictions, like most things in life we do in our free time.

@ApexSelvathey age like spoiled milk and become bitter towards the world. Some are able to mask it but inside they cry 😭

Agree

@ApexSelvathey grow up when the beauty and attention dry up. Yep, late 30’s. Too late.

I never went. Just had to see the ones going to know i wanted none of it. In uni i would go fishing lol

They're too loud, they're too crowded, they're expensive, the seats if there are any are uncomfortable, the toilets are always rank, you're surrounded by idiots on drugs... Nothing about it is good.

I tried going, wasn't too keen on it. Always went out with a group of friends, and I worked out that I had to be a baseline amount of drunk to make the whole thing even tolerable. I had good experiences with it eventually, but I don't think any of those experiences were actually associated with the club environment in any way. It would have been objectively better to just drink with the same friends at a smaller house party setting.

I had a sub par chick she had bad teeth, geeky, with me at a local disco, she acted up when I came close she put me off permanently.

Why can you not SmelDa stench? And you wonder why you are in court when they caught you, Now I am going to have my Life Paid for *Wooohoooooo*

😂

​@@Ariapeithes_Problem here is Most Men dont have a Castle 😂😂😂😂😂

Dammmnnn....

​@@lisa3341and the only queens available are boys "raised" by single mums that want to chop off their wenis 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@lisa3341 and almost no women are worth a barnyard beneath a castle XD

You spanish sure do like to talk!

I've been to Spain (Madrid and Barcelona). This is true. I had a wonderful time there. Spanish people know how to LIVE and appreciate others while having their fun.

Nah ir a la disco es un jodido horror, otra cosa es ir a algún pub donde te puedas sentar al rededor de una mesa para hablar y reír o jugar tal billar o dardos o cosas así, eso si es un buen plan

That’s exactly what it means to me and I’m American. Find the right place.

Honestly I just like dancing and never went to a club for a hook up and preferred to go with guy friends as they work as good cock blocks 😂 Rarely drink if at all. Dont need to when among friends. The atmosphere is just fun the loud base lights. Use to go with my bf as he loved dancing too. I ignore stange guys advances, not the hookup type never will be.

thats how they do it

Be happy u getting some. Women’s feelings change 24/7

As a wise man once said : She'll never be yours, it's just your turn.

That's what I don't understand.

@@polespinosa4858 it's deception. actions show truth.

They can also do that without any alcohol involved

They can and WILL make up false charges even if you weren't at the club with them or anywhere near them. Their claims can literally be physically impossible and yet everyone will believe them. You could be in California and they are in NYC and they can say you R'ed them and you are still in trouble.

You have "cousin brothers"?.... 🤔........

I drink tonic and a lime twist on the rocks. No alcohol. I look for girls that don't drink. Alcohol is physical and psychological poison.

@@sergeipohkerova7211happened to a cousin of mine. He had learning disabilities and was at a special school. He and a friend were hanging out with a girl from school. They goofed around and somehow she performed oral on both, no more. A few weeks later she accused them of forcing her. They didn’t, she was just from a Muslim family. They were suspended from school for a semester. Finally she confessed it was consensual. They had lost a semester and $ tens of thousands of legal fees for the parents. It was brushed aside. She got no consequences, she graduated on time. My cousin needed to go to a school in a different state because he had turned 18 by then and only some learning disability schools took 18 year olds. The experience of life and privilege is so different. This was in the 2010s.

Because they want them to share their misery.

Older, bitter women who want to spread their misery.

Nah, the system is. We removed all accountability and responsibility from women while pushing all the costs of it on men and her children. Man cannot handle the costs, so a increasingly number of men are burning out. And society at large is becoming poorer with more and more lost children because nobody can pay for women’s hedonism.

There is some truth to trying to experience life, but whoring around isn't it

Only women sabotage other women. Women without men they will get lost.. In every way.

This is exactly what I see when I see a bunch of women ganging up together in a club/bar. They end up cockblocking majority of men, other than utter losers and scumbags. Deep down neither one of them wants the other to be happy.

am sorry, but where did u get that?

@@mangakasaide2166 From observing women - from observing the envious friends of women - from listening to women. I'm 54. I know women!

are you saying social media is making them mad lol..... telenovelas werent enough, they invented these so women can 247 follow other women everywhere

@@mangakasaide2166Observation, it’s common knowledge by now

Leave the west bro.

Crazy....if you give them everything and they don't work for they still want more.

yep, move to some country where they still have some more normal people, learn the language and find a woman there. Just don't marry again :)

I agree 💯

It was a relief for me to age out of the intense lust to be able to see clearly what was being offered to me at a huge price. The last time someone asked me why I'm not in a relationship, I said that I don't put much value in most women.

This is absolutely true. Nothing but drama on the streets after dark.

Yeah. I like to call that retirement drinking. Its what you do when you're too old to spent the night at some Bar 😆 Its awesome though. You get to talk to your friends, celebrate some and you're ready to go the next day.

Too right you are, on all points.

Good guys are not at clubs because were coaching our kids soccer team after work.

sort of happy times, being young and those 5pm after work. also, most people were married/steady relationship of those work people

Better off finding a sober woman and getting drunk with her if it’s already long term.

I never even tried. That sounds like the equivalent of trying to find good, fresh fish in the sewer.

​@@VoiceOvaGuyexactly lol.

Exactly. I've not once step foot in a club in my life and don't have any urge to do so in the future. Those places are only good for a quick hookup and nothing else, but that's not my style. I prefer an old fashioned girl, which is why I'm still looking.

See I need to hear your perspective. Tell the absolute truth here:were women loose back then or was it hidden really well or is the extreme sexual liberation something completely new? Genuinely asking your opinion sir 🤝

Thank you.

Reality has way more points than that haha

Oh man that's unfair, reality play on a different league

It's fun for girl, for example they have the super power to get free drinks from men. I admit it quickly gets boring.

Fun for Chad and Tyrone, the average on the other hand.

There are clubs, and then there are clubs. All of them are not the same. Some can be very fun.

Clubbing is not really that difficult for men. If you know how to speak with women, the hoops you have to jump through to get something from them is litterally none. Because deep inside they know they are the bottom. However, i'd say it's a waste of time.

@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233you need to rewatch the video

The doomers are showing up in these chats now. Greeting and give up.

You have created a new term. "Chad Damage" "chaddamage"

You forgot to mention that this all has to be done when you are 18 years old or you are a lazy loser who has never did anything his entire life. And that you have to become attractive (be the equivalent of what is considered a anorexic Victoria secret model) to get the privilege of allowing her to get out of shape and lazy.

@@rally_chroniclesdoesn’t make them wrong.

Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80% of divorces.

I think the trap happens when women tell guys to go to bars and night clubs to meet women and that it’s creepy or weird to meet them anywhere else. I’ve heard women say it’s creepy to date women from work, (cause they’re there to work) from school (cause they’re there to learn) from grocery stores (cause they’re there to shop) anywhere hell now I’ve heard women say meeting girls at clubs and bars are predatory because they’re drunk and just wanna hang with friends When dealing with women be a chad and remember Plausible deniability…that’s their language

@@spacecandygames7575 It's literally the opposite, I don't think warm approaches like work or school are good but if you approach women in daytime public (as long as you're not sub5) I guarantee you'll be met with light-hearted soft rejections at the worst. For me the worst rejections I've had are at clubs because the women have much more audacity there since they are the center of attention and have already been hit on by 50 thirsty guys that came before you. They are sick of it. Approaching in public takes all of that nonsense out of the equation. If you frame it authentic and direct like you haven't done it before I guarantee it will lead to sincerity.

@@WheatWaffles exactly I hate night approaches. My best work has been done at random places.

@@WheatWaffles I agree with you. its far less frequent to get approached in public now, so they seem more open to it.

Oh look…”Chad Waffles” - the guy who thinks life is only about getting “9s and 10s”, and who thinks the opinions of dumb, shallow, immature uni girls are valuable. We get it, only tall chads under age 30 can get “hot girls”, and once a guy passes the age of 30 his life is meaningless, because he will no longer be able to get hot girls. That is the only thing that gives life meaning…being able to get “9s and 10s”. Anyone over 30 or under 6 ft, and any “sub5s and normies” need to just stop breathing. They can not get hot girls so they have no reason to be alive. *snore*

Yes similar experience,, like there missing out on garbage,,

When you are young, the club is new, exciting and a little dangerous.When you are older, it is stale, pathetic and dangerous

She was advertising herself. Its what women do when they've checked out of their current relationship.

​@@oldscratch3535 Indeed, sure looks like it.

Or she wasn’t feeling satisfied in your marriage and wanted some fun

Not to mention a truck load of potential STDs through unprotected sex.

When in college some girls took me out to a club that was the last time I ever went. I found it incredibly stupid and disturbing that attractive young ladies would hook up with some of the lowest scumbag losers ever.

I have been out of club scene from 2011. Yes, cost is absolutely ridiculous. Apart from that I got absolutely disgusted with the behavior of some my friends whom I was interacting those days. Though I was not a regular club hopper but since I was friend with those girls, sometimes I had to go. These women goes to clubs, get drunk, and let men whom they will not hang around even slightest during day time to use them. They dance with them provocatively, let those men touch them in what ever the way those men wish, even some will go to the extent of sleeping with them after clubbing. One woman who was about to get married from few weeks ruined it after having sex with a guy she met in the club in a car and her soon to be husband found out as some his friends were present at that club and they were observing everything from distance. One woman was drugged, and been used by a set of men, god knows how many. She couldn't recall anything in the following morning and few weeks later she found out she has contracted with a STD. Luckily it was curable. And I have witnessed few ugly brawls with in clubs as well, where some were severely wounded & some were arrested by police. All & all, it was not a setup for sane humans with morality & standards.

The emptiness is being hungover from all the alcohol 😂

Also I think the prospect of kids and marriage life to them makes them feel old, like their an old traditional housewife and the last thing they want to face is the fact that getting old is inevitable.

@@jasonblue8832 Correct. My ex hated children, when she was 34 all her friends were already with kids and she was actively sabotaging their relationships by pulling them out on girls trips or clubbing. She said that kids always break the relationships because there's not enough time for friends and the partner is not a priority anymore. Talk about responsibility...

they be thinking....stop talking like that i hope you're not older than 21

@@CheekBonerOne Bro...your username is CheekBoner. I don't think you have any room to scold someone.

@@oldscratch3535 bro if someone named cheekboner has got more sense than you, what’s that telling you?

@@CheekBonerOne It tells me you have a high opinion of yourself and you're not being objective. You can't even use proper capitalization of words. I hope you're not older than 21.

It's true that they desire it as an impulse, but it's a downward spiral towards a shitty life. That's why we have the term alpha widow.

The same applies to men tho. Sometimes one wants to make love, another time it's a primal instinct.

Hit the nail on the head.

It's called delusion. Women don't like reality, or responsibility. Fairytales, rom coms, fun, lack of consequences, no effort. Women are simply, grown up little girls with hormones and a va Jay Jay ready to play play.

Chicks these days are a total jokeeee

Agreed.

Get that relikka thing and have a AI girlfriend instead, they'll actually at least try to talk to you and put effort into you and wont treat you terribly. Thats my advice

​​​​@@fatefatefate Crazy. I chatted with one about two months ago while at work. She gave me her number when she was leaving and seemed chill. I was just interested in making a friend. One thing I noticed about her though is that she is a single mom with a toddler, and no father around. And I think she most live at home with her parents. Later that night she sees me walking home and stops to give me a ride(I'm still a complete stranger at this point), but I told her I was heading to Denny's... on the way we had a nice conversation, everything seemed relaxed, and then all of a sudden after she dropped me off, I texted her about an hour later and I didn't get any reply... but I figured she got busy. The next day came I texted her in the morning, no response... waited several hours before texting again and she said nothing... So I sent her one last text and said I was deleting her number... She finally texted me back and said "yes, please delete my number..." no explanation why... I think she was trying to scope me out to see if I would lead her back to my place... and when I didn't give her that, she ghosted me... Way I see it though, I dodged a bullet... and I ain't mad.

No one wins in this selfish hookup culture. Focus on yourself

I mean, hyperbole aside, would you want your daughter to settle for anything but the best of the best? Women give way too much pussy to losers these days in my opinion.

​@@maszk9743I do not consider archetypes of playboys that will never marry, felons that leave them to be a single mother and machievellian billionaires that buy a woman's purity for the short term to constitute the best of the best for my daughter.

​@@_BrennusIt's just a joke, bro.

I love these names

😂😂

LOL grim!

A keeper!

No i drunk cause without Alkohol i wouldnt Talk to anyone

Based

Stay away from canadian women

"Hey You!" Gilda doing the walk of shame!

Its funny because women see men shaming each other and think were toxic.. But shame is how we grow and its not negative shame.. Its positive

Oddly enough, they have the most sex, too.

Before they were forced to remove the statistics to be politically correct it was shown that Lesbian relationships experienced 7 times more domestic abuse than male to female relationships in this country .

That's because a Man knows what'll happen when he hits another Man, there's no false pretenses

You’re both correct 💯

I hope you get to visit her someday. Georgia is an amazing country. Such friendly people.

You are perfectly correct, it is coping. I think it's horrible that nowadays women hear so many harmful things what is cool to do and what's not. In my opinion feminism literally conditions women to have low-self esteem and little to no virtues except giving ass every weekend which is of course EMPOWERING. Empowering dudes to treat you like meat actually...

That wouldn't change a thing, we actually can't really turn this valve off. With current technology it's impossible to ever change this, to force it you would have to remove freedom and live in tyrannical society. I think there is no other way than teaching real connections with people, instant and meaningless connections within social media are like comparing fresh juice to dirty water. If you know you can get the juice you wouldn't go for the dirty water. Girls are especially fragile to the phenomenon because men need to earn validation while girls hit puberty and get tons of attention from guys just for existing. I can see this must be hard to make unconvenient choices when you are literally rewarded all the time for participating in damaging behaviour.@@cv6176

Errrr, dude, you won't be getting the full story here. Naive.

I lived in Georgia last 1,5 year. Most of the girls you describe come from the smaller cities/towns and move to Tbilisi to study and start to act like the girl you know. You can find normal girls in Georgia too ( met some). In the end they are still young women addicted to social media & validation both online and in real life. If you want to find normal girls in Georgia, go to smaller cities. Don't expect to f*ck around with them because the country is still conservative but if you want a ltr in any non-western country, you have the most luck in smaller cities/towns.

You can get discipline and find your ground of being without jumping to serve a bunch of child abusing satanists in D.C. buddy.

Same. Doesn't help that I'm mostly lucid until I black out, so never get to the point of "letting go" that seems to come easily to others

Everyone is playing games and treating both sexes with disrespect. That's why she's crying..... and cos chad is playing her.

This whole generation is seriously and dangerously misguided.

​@@DanTubernah its not chad she played herself Your Gynocentrism is showing

​@@thenarrator1984true. WAW (women are wonderful) syndrome.

@@The-Man-On-The-Mountain Women can be wonderful and kind. My fiancee is so kind, patient , and beautiful. Dont let the bad apples ruin your idea of women; dont get me wrong i get it, 1st world women outside my families are often off-putting, but i love my future wife.

Ok where do you find the others then?

Same with the internet.

That's what I'm saying... Who thinks this is fun?

Why go to a club when you and the guys can just boot up some matches of Team Fortress 2

@@Ariapeithes_lots of people, it’s just not for you.

@@spacecandygames7575 It isnt for most people. But keep lying to yourself and the rest of us. It makes for good entertainment!

Timestamp bro!

Enjoy it man!

So true, that mistake is at the heart of nearly every existential crises threatening Western Civilization.

The ultimate goal was to replace female sensibilities with male sensibilities. They've achieved that. Most women are seriously unhappy because this charade is not natural to them. Sometimes when they get drunk enough they can admit that to themselves. And alcohol deaths amongst women have increased 85% over the last decade. The modern woman is broken and breaking society in response. Misery loves company.

Repeal the 19th

So you want a Christian theocracy wear it’s illegal to be gay, where women jailed for wearing bikinis, etc?

@@technoloverish You've spelled "muslim" wrong. But then you can't read, either. Tool.

*Septum piercing.

Hate them. There is a girl in my area that works at Barnes&Noble and she has one, and I can't stand it every time I see her.

@@Ariapeithes_ "There is a girl in my area that works at Barnes&Noble" literally _everybody has them_ how is there just this one specific person in your area you see with it? Do you just not go out much?

@@Blackprojex I go out plenty. A lot of women don't have Septum nose rings. What kind of degenerate filth do you live around?

​@@Blackprojexonly weird people have them.

There are places that have higher percentages of quality women. I will not tell you where they are, you have to figure it out.

@@eeroala5132 That's helpful. 🙄

​@@eeroala5132yep

@@eeroala5132 why not telling? Don't understand the point...

@@herono-4292 Just nastiness. Typical of modern people.

Smokers need a partner? Most smokers will tell you not to even begin. Ever. Not try to get you stuffed with two packs a day.

tell that to my older brother ;)@@AvesZephyros

?? Aint the club the place where you usually do drugs and get drunk? Cause if you re doing that outside you kinda sound like a crack hobo

@@reedy_9619 there is no club on earth than can beat a night at home with some good weed and beer and a competitive video game of your choice

They are often one and the same man!

Yes a son tells his mother he is not happy with her cheating ways, the mother responds , I don't see why you are upset , EVERYONE IS DOING IT, is how she responds.

Glad to see opinions like mine. Especially the part about getting so inebriated you don't even remember the night. It's quite literally throwing your life away and hurting yourself.

The number of people who actually act like Christians in the churches is about 5%.

Hate to burst your bubble but 99/100 women are doing, or have done this kind of stuff. There hasn't been limits and repercussions on female behavior since the 1960's.

"only hobby" - drinking? lmao Women have no hobbies.

"Christian" means nothing these days.

@@GGrev They say "find a hobby" in order to socialize and meet women but it turns out every hobby I get into it's mostly dudes, and the few chicks there already have dicks.

Agreed. Men would make far better decisions regarding women if it wasn’t for our testosterone.

No you’re correct. The drive to want a mate,to mate in the first place and potentially produce offspring is what makes men speak to women. When I realised that I didn’t have to try very hard to get laid(after years of thinking I needed to go on dates,that I was ugly,that no one would ever like me) I cut down the attention I would give random women massively.

I can't dance I love to dance at home and want to learn to dance but cant find a place where ill ever put that learnt dancing to use if I take classes since im not a clun or party type

True. Remove those women from your life as fast as possible. They would have been controlling and possesive in the relationship anyway. Never use or accept womens trust issues as an excuse to become an f-boy. Look somewhere else for a mentally stable woman.

Yep!!!

Doesn’t The Bible technically also tell men to save it for marriage and not be players?

@@technoloverish King Solomon had 700 wives - and 300 concubines {1 Kings 11:3}. So ok, I'll trade waiting until marriage if I get all the variety I need IN the marriage!! :D

@@user-bb9qi8bj5s Except that allowing something in the Bible isn't the same as approval. 1 Kings 11:4 reads "For when Solomon was old his wives turned away his heart after other gods, and his heart was not wholly true to the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father." What Solomon did was Biblically prohibited, but God gave him the free will to do that, nonetheless.

@@technoloverish I do NOT see where your statement aligns - Solomon was NOT supposed to marry FOREIGN women because of their bad influence, but if they were Israeli women, no prohibition! Besides, David also married many women, and God would have given him even more if they weren't enough [2 Samuel 12:8]. So you are conflating the issues.

@@user-bb9qi8bj5s I'd be interested then to know which denomination you belong to. Every major denomination teaches that God's start for believers is monogamy. Does your denomination teach that polygamy is good/permissible?