We’ve Outgrown Our Friends (What Should We Do?)

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We’ve Outgrown Our Friends (What Should We Do?)
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@lynnebucher6537 2 года назад

I'm childless and have spent most of my adult life single. Also have worked two jobs and eventually made it through college. I've definitely seen friendships fizzle because they were in a different place in life.

@mrskmonster Год назад

The concept of choosing guilt over resentment is probably going to change my life forever. Wow.

@deborahd2936 2 года назад

I had an old friend who acted like I was abandoning her in a busy and hard time in my life, and we don’t talk at all now, because even though I should have done better, I realized that part of that was it was no longer pleasant to be around each other and there was more disagreement than agreement about even the smallest things because I two very divergent foundations for life and thinking. I have a few friends now that we have some very foundational common ground. This doesn’t mean we can’t be friends with people different than us. It just doesn’t work at a certain level of depth, because at some point the person can no longer give advice, and talk with you about your deepest thoughts because of differing views.

@alexbryant2796 2 года назад

John is so endearing to watch

@rachelgooden9981 2 года назад

He is?

@keith2o9 2 года назад

@Rachel Gooden well, everyone has different taste.

@rebeccaoprea9917 2 года назад

Seasons come and go . You only grow as big as your circle .

@connie0613 2 года назад

Yes

@chelsea7229 2 года назад

The thing is, she’s assuming that the friends are going to be upset to lose her and her husband, but who’s to say that they don’t feel the same way? If someone is checking out in a friendship, it’s a huge turn off for everyone involved. It probably won’t be this huge loss to them if she moves on- she kind of needs to get over herself tbh.

@signalfire15 2 года назад

I agree lol

@oscarmondragon8648 2 года назад

What do ppl need friends for..? Just to talk smack and gossip..? This is how big my circle is 👉. I focus all my energy and time on myself to get me to places no one els is!!

@curlyhairdudeify 2 месяца назад

Same. I don't have friends, and at work I was measuring a male coworkers hair with a ruler making a comment about how long he should cut it. Then, a female coworker just jumped in and made a "joke" about how she was going to call Human Services because I "janked" his hair.... Me, and the male coworker, we just rolled our eyes.

@aundirussell8644 2 года назад

yep in seattle, 3 kids by 26 is unheard of

@anniececil3112 2 года назад

I can relate to this caller very well. It’s so hard to relate to my life before I had my baby.

@tonniareed8631 2 года назад

I completely get not liking my husband’s friends. We are so very different and our work friends are different circles. I think we need to work on doing things together as a couple. We each do our own things and rarely do things together.

@paulb1383 2 года назад

So glad I found your channel! Great stuff..

@blah7694 10 месяцев назад

Cant believe John said his wife is old. 😂I think she's amazing!

@deniseneuendorf3577 2 года назад

Excellent advice!! Don’t worry one minute about what that friend group will think. They will be puzzled that you’re stepping back and maybe feel slighted for a short time. But they’ll be over it soon enough. Join things that meet on a regular basis. When they ask why you aren’t coming you can just say “that’s our (whatever) night.” Now look forward to meeting so many new friends!

@mainstreetmoose445 2 года назад

FIRST VIEW! Thanks for all that you guys do over at Ramsey, you have all the bases and questions in my life covered! Dr John; I’m having a similar issue in my life currently, so this came EXACTLY when i needed it!

@annamc8228 Год назад

“Don’t hang out with idiots” 😂 Way to make a potentially heavy subject light-hearted

@z31Joshyman 2 года назад

Wow this was a needed convo

@brookesmith1550 2 года назад

The caller should go to playgroups with kids. She might meet other moms there she connects with.

@Lipstickandchampagne 2 года назад

My mum has also advised this. My social anxiety will just not allow me to. And honestly, I don’t want to be friends with people who live certain…lifestyles.

@kara2162 2 года назад

This is a good option, especially when you don't work and are isolated at home with little kids, but to be brutally honest, there is a slim chance that you will really connect in a real friendship the way you would in the "real world".

@Scott-got-caught 2 года назад

@@Lipstickandchampagne Vain indeed. your toxic energy radiates 👁

@Cyanopteryx 2 года назад

Chiming in as a mom who lives in WA like the caller, playgroups are hard to find currently. No one wants to meet in person bc of covid, especially strangers, and a lot of the in-person activities for kids are still not opened back up. Not saying it's impossible, but may be challenging, and I still haven't found any groups for my 10 month old.

@AlabasterSkin Год назад

@@Lipstickandchampagne Curious, which lifestyles?

@razmiddle9410 2 года назад

Well, the unwanted friends are going to be *super* offended once they hear this segment! It's a bold move to use your name and location on a popular show like this, I wonder if the friends will find out.

@rachelgooden9981 2 года назад

I often wonder about this

@starlingswallow 2 года назад

I don't believe they use real names from their actual cities.

@hollym1751 2 года назад

But I wonder how many of their friends know about this. Nobody in my circle listens to this show.

@mysterio1570 2 года назад

I am unusual that I still basically have all my friends in my life. A couple I don't see on a regular basis, but the friendship is still there.

@SherryEllesson 2 года назад

There's nothing wrong with wanting to widen one's circle of friends.

@mynameis......23 Год назад

Who are you to say what is right or worng?

@SherryEllesson Год назад

@@mynameis......23 Who are you to have a problem with cutting people some slack?

@mynameis......23 Год назад

@@SherryEllesson I a nobody, but I can see bs lifestyle and bs excuses. And I hate when woman avoid accountability.

@SherryEllesson Год назад

@@mynameis......23 She's got three kids and she and her husband both work. What more accountability do you think she should demonstrate?! You don't know anywhere enough about her to call her lifestyle "bs" but I'm sure that won't stop you from being hateful about her.

@mynameis......23 Год назад

@@SherryEllesson she doesn't have a job.

@platinumhandymansolutions 2 года назад

Dr. D can we be friends bro lol, love the show!

@signalfire15 2 года назад

I think she thinks these women who are not really her friends care about her wayyy more than they probably actually do. She says that they are not even her friends, they are the girlfriends of her husband’s friends. They probably only tolerate her and try to include her to be honest.

@TheMechanicj 2 года назад

Doing the Dave Ramsey plan is like going to jail and needing bailed out you find out who he real friends are I lost the majority of my friends cause of the plan they are so jealous of my financial success and when they don’t get Christmas gifts and I warned them so yeah there it is

@TheMechanicj 2 года назад

My 400000$ house in tennesss will be paid off at age 36

@zanetawrightsell8527 9 месяцев назад

Ive had a really hard time finding friends after recovery for my mental health. People want to keep me in a box. My college " friends" dont support my health n happiness.

@zaqlowell 2 года назад

Trust me Post Malone is worth learning ab6

@diresa22 2 года назад

Too many ads = 👎

@b7Hn4eX8yv4m 2 года назад

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@mandysimmons2769 8 месяцев назад

I feel the same way with some relatives. The male is a dingleberry that I got with marriage. He is a mild sociopath that I have nothing in common and he's a complete wienie. He was running around with a dirtbag girl while his wife was still alive and now that's his "wife." I'm like Omg, this is my family now. It's not worth getting rid of my husband if I did that...they win. I'd rather mop the bathroom of a bar.