What it Means When You Meet the Right Person at the WRONG Time | Conversations With a Breakup Coach 

I developed strong feelings for someone who is not healed. I tried walking away multiple times and failed because she was so convincing… but all I saw was me getting hurt. So I put my foot down after feeling super hurt by something she did, not to her fault but a trigger of mine, and I said maybe we can reconnect in the future when we are both healed. In my mind it’s so crazy that we could reconnect but I know for now I need to get over her. She’s literally the most amazing person I have ever met, she’s just going through a hard time. I’m in some pain knowing we can’t be together right now. It feels as if life was so unfair to me..: but also I believe that there was a reason I met her. I just don’t know what that is yet. I’m going to move on but it will take a bit… on top of that I am still healing from past trauma. It’s a lot

I broke with my gf, I take full responsability for what happened, and even if it feels like shit to be in this situation theres no denying that it changed me for the better, Ive learnt a lot. All I know is meeting her, was a blessing of life, a calling from god to do what Im supposed to do which is being the best man that I can be, for myself first, for her even if I ever wont see her again, for the people arround me, this is the thought that helps me feel good, and its pretty much the thing anyone can and should do aftear a breakup, and its simply to get better, improve as a person, do the best possible thing. Anything else thinking about getting your ex back, trying to get a new partner, experimenting with the wrong things (drugs, alcohol, partying) that wont do no good, thats worthless. So everyone out there whos going thru pain because of a breakup get strong, get better wake up everyday go after your dreams, work hard, eventually you will feel good, I think its the best medicine.

So here’s the dilemma … there’s all these people who preach what you do, but no two situations are the same… “it’s an excuse” is sometimes valid, but somehow I don’t think I’m fooling myself and it’s not an excuse. They just ended an almost decade long relationship a few months ago. I think that requires time to heal and a person does not have enough in them to give at that time. Sorry, but I don’t think I’m wrong when there are times where it’s just not the right time. I’ve also been in situations where I was healing from grief and trauma and was not at the right time to enter a relationship. Could not make it work because I’m wasn’t even myself at that time and needed to work on the relationship with myself first and foremost before I was ready to give love and receive love again.

what if he couldn’t handle long distance because it was hurting him and his mental health? he’s going off to college soon and wants to end things before he leaves. we’re both so young that we can’t travel 6 hours plane or driving to see each other every couple of months, i’ve never been so heartbroken and i truly want to think we will meet again in the future i’m terrified he’s gonna meet someone in college who would give him everything when i would do the same it’s just the distance between us? i need some advice please! thank you ❤️

I’m ready to be with him, he’s ready to be with me, I’m moving to Europe for 4 months, he’s not, and he wants me to go on the trip for all the original reasons I wanted to. To find myself and my independence, and I respect him so much for that, and care about him and like him so much for that, it just sucks

I met the right person last year but i wasn't ready, if i had a bit more of the knowledge i have right now my life would look alot more different in a positive way. Now i'm trying to always be a step ahead

She left me because she suddenly lost feelings for me even though she fell for me first. Just 2 weeks after our breakup I found out that she was dating her friend. I tried to fix things but eventually she broke up with me. She and I made promises to fix things and no matter what we would not breakup. Well I don't hate her , nor I want to hate her. She is a beautiful soul and I will never forget her. I just want her to be happy in life cuz at the end of the day all I want is her happiness be it with me or without me. I will always support her

I met the wonderful woman on a random night in a club about 6 months ago. I played it off for a bit, and when I gave in, we really got to moving fairly quickly. And I have been in therapy for the past year, also on medication as well. I decided to stop my medication during month 2 of us taking it serious. In that time frame of me getting off of the medication, my anxiety and the fact that I was falling in love for the first time in years, it had really got to be overwhelming for me. I think I sabotaged it, and she has pulled back because I totally misread a situation of her stress and took it out of context because my emotions were high and assumed something else was going on. Mind you, she has a lot going on in her personal life as well. So I let her know that I had to give some space as things were dissolving right in front of me, and I went into fix it mode and pushed her back even further. Am I doing the right thing? Because I still want to talk to her everyday and am holding back because I know it would impede the space and time I am giving and her.

Been currently in this situation. It feels s*cks! I should listen to my intuition. It took me 4months to find out that she is in a relationship.

I have met a guy online and from the beginning we hit it off. Just recently he told me that he was a 24/7 caregiver of his mum and had basically no time and no life 😢😢 I didn't even know if we could ever meet up and had to let him go. So sad ❤

What should I do if I meet my soul mate and the one who really love me in the wrong time when I'm married with someone who don't love me and have a baby

So I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy and the thing is we wanna get together buuuut he still feels like he is too young to settle down And I'm afraid that our relationship will end before it actually begins

My girlfriend just broke up with me saying she feels she met me at the wrong time and doesn't know who she is yet and isn't ready. She said she wants to get back together in the future.

I m fed up of this video popping up again and again. Now I am seriously concerned who is the right person met at the wrong time?

So here is my Story...this girl and i have been best friends for years. Shes in a relationship...that never bothered me cause we were strictly platonic...7months ago she started acting weird around me...flirty...cuddly etc...and we hung out every weekend holding hands til 8in the mornin...at one point i approached her...told her i developed feelings...and whatever it is we're doin is weird and wrong cause of her bf. We agreed to be just friends...then she went to her dad for 3weeks. But Texted me almost everyday. she came back and immediately wanted to see me.she got more flirty than ever...she got drunk and told me she missed me every single day she was gone. Then we hung out even more until one night where she (after drinkin a lot) she kissed me.the next day she told me she was so drunk that she cant remember anything.i told her everythin.and she confessed her feelings for me ...WE met...kissed but she said she doesnr know whether or Not she can Break Up with him.long Story short ...she ran away from her feelings for me cause they scare her -they make her vulnerable...and now we havent spoken in 2 ...i do think shes the right Person ...she told me i can See through her like No one Else. We clickes as bffs and even feel attracted...but shes in a abusive relationship that shes not ready to let Go yet.. i Hope Ill have her again in my life one day.... even If that means that we Just Go Back to being Friends... cause I didnt Just lose my love Internet but my best friend ... I recently have fixed even rockier friendships. But it took time - alot of time

what if i had a feeling i would meet a person in the future and i did? we stopped talking but i sometimes have a feeling we’ll b together again.

What about a 15 yr age difference?

That was pretty bad

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naive. sorry. you don't seem to have the experience to understand deeper issues that occur in relationships.