The older they get, the more desperate and miserable they become. They will accept anything that will accept them. They won’t be happy, because it’s not you. And they will realise what they had, but will have to settle, because they know their clocks are ticking. That desperation pick will suffer at the hands of the narc, but they will probably settle too from fear of being alone. What a miserable life they will have! I would rather be alone and at peace than settle for crumbs of fake love from an abuser. My mother never raised me to be nobody’s puppet. I have learnt the hard way, but I will be ok, by the grace of God. 🙏🏽
Yeah, Joe just has this certain nonchalance about him and it makes watching his videos very calming. It’s almost as if he’s practiced having indifference for his ex-narcissist so much and for so long that he’s mastered it and it’s now just become a part of who he is, haha
What a pointless life they lead, setting out to destroy and destabilise someone for their own twisted gratification. They never build anything worthwhile, so end up empty handed and on the shelf. What a pitiful existence they live.
It's funny how the tables turn for them... they put people on a shelf when they can do it and while they are younger...the tables turn someday and they are the ones sitting on a shelf desperately trying and waiting to come back to a good stable supply they once had
My narc broke up with me. He was really, really cruel and vindictive about it 😢...and now 2 weeks after the break up he's back being nice again, what a devil.
"These crazy party-poopers." That gave me a good laugh.😃 They really are, Joe. I love this💜 Absolutely beautiful images.😍 You really have an art for what you do. I appreciate how much you have helped me understand Narcissism and all about it after I experienced it first-hand. Your calm voice is so soothing and the jokes you tell can make it even more enjoyable to listen to & watch. It's amazing how much you understand this & other topics. The amount of clarity & insight you provide truly is priceless.💲😌💯 Thank you😘
I will forgive but never will they come back into my life! Forgiveness is for my sake and new boundaries to keep them out of my life! I learnt so much,so am grateful for the hard lessons and glad I saw the Light💡
True. Yet it's not as simple as that sounds. Some people have been in marriages or relationships for years. Or it can be parents, grandparents, siblings, extended family, etc that are the toxic ones. For some that could be getting rid of everyone in their life and leaving them alone and possibly without resources. Also simply letting go may be harder for some people than others. Going no contract and living your best life away from them is nice but getting to that point is a different journey each of us.
He approached me with ‘I miss you’ ten months after my father died. My guess is that he wanted to drink whatever inheritance he thought I had gotten. Did gray rock and he hasn’t phoned again. They come back because they think they can get you to fund their addictions.
And this is truly what happens. Thanks Joe. Love 💕 the beautiful scenery in your videos. Reminds me there’s a lot of amazing things still out here for us to enjoy!
I can honestly say that my ex husband has never tried to come back. I think he realizes that he will NEVER EVER get another shot with me again. But he did attempt to screw with my life behind the scenes. Some of his ex wives had come forward with apologies to me for their role after they ended the relationship with him. Because I am such a private person it’s harder for him to get a foothold to screw with my life. But he did progressively scrape the bottom of the barrel with each marriage. The way I see it is he’s at the bottom and will never be able to dig his way back out. No one will ever take him seriously again.
My ex "downgraded" as well. A lot of narcs do this. Maybe it was because I ended the relationship with her, so she picked a person who is a little more plain-looking, who doesn't have a ton of money.. maybe he's a safer choice for her in that he will accept her crap, tolerate her manipulations- she's already cheated on him (with someone I once considered a friend.) But, I would never describe him as bottom of the barrel.. I have empathy for him because I know from first hand experience what she's going to do to him... what she already is doing to him. He's probably a really good guy who is going to fall head-over-heels in love, like I did.. and then she'll tear his heart out his chest.
@@pantsenfuego9986 Nah! He destroyed his own reputation and credibility. If I cared to do anything I wouldn’t hesitate to use his name and whatever other identifying info. about him. I don’t have to do anything but sit back and let him ruin his own life and reputation. I haven’t given any identifying info on him (name, state, physical identifiers, etc.). So I really don’t understand how you come to your conclusion that I am meddling in his life.
