Women Are Now Using Tinder To Experiment On Men 

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Imagine being mad at being out manipulated even though your intentions from the start was to manipulate. This is wild.

If women are so evolved at techniques to avoid being tricked by men, then why am I ten times better than any woman I've met at spotting bad men?

Notice that she starts the story with "...and our favorite night time activity is swiping though dating apps together." This means they regularly f with men on dating apps for their amusement, and she STILL somehow came to the conclusion that it's men that are the problem here. Unbelievable 😂

getting mad about “f-boys” on tinder, “i can’t believe how wet this water is” 😂

My experiences have shown me that liars absolutely hate being lied to in a similar way that cheaters hate being cheated on.

OMG let's implicitly brag that we were both attractive enough for chad to match us, while simultaneously explicitly brag about our cunning girl power, forgetting that we were just dates 7/8 of Chad's 10 that day and not admitting that we both still want him

Dating apps and social media have ruined women. Men are giving up. Porn is easier. And that's not healthy. Everything is messed up

Avoid all dating apps like the plague guys

Why are women so surprised that the men with options act just like men with options would? Why don't they try the same experiment on a guy they don't find attractive? Probably because then they wouldn't be able to trash talk men.

Women got so good at testing men and finding those who are high quality that we have rise in number of single mothers in society 🤣🤣🤣

Women don’t want to be tricked: Guy: how do I get a girlfriend? Girl: just be yourself (so we can easily ignore you)

“Our favorite activity is swiping on guys” so you take leisure in leading people on / playing games but we’re supposed to feel bad for you (most girls on tinder do this)

When your favorite nighttime activity with your bestie is swiping through dating apps, you are a very silly person and should probably look in the mirror for the source of your unhappiness.

Let's be honest here. Chad can get away with low effort like this. The joke was on her. The dude probably had 10 other punany's planned that day.

I'm a short man, if a woman said something about my height during a date, I wouldnt see it as a test, I'd see it as time to leave.

I have a friend who is handsome, makes $150-200K, and is muscular who decided to see if he could sleep with 100 different women from Tinder in one year. He hit that number by August, and he admits he led most of them to believe he was looking for a relationship when he was not. He didn't feel bad because he knew most of them only selected him based on the fact that he could see he had money by his pics and job.

Why do people think that others are going to be altruistic on Tinder? It’s a hook up app.

Gonna have to disagree with you Alex. If a woman started asking me hurtful questions on a date, I would end it immediately. Probably ask her when she started thinking it was okay to speak to people that way, pay MY bill, and leave while telling her to lose my contact info. Life's too short to entertain headgames.

And they gave this "bad guy" 2 dates instead of zero.....

I dont think ive ever lied to a women before and I am being extremely honest about that. I got alot of matches on tinder but my issue is women want me to be something im not. Im not that dude whos going to give you back rubs and do all this cute stuff for you. Ill take you on dates and stuff sure and once in a while maybe but not all the time. I think the most memorible thing a women has said to me 'current girlfreind in fact' is why cant you be more emotional and show me your trueself. I simply told her that I wasnt pretending and this is me, take it or leave it. I am who I am.

Essentially, as a guy, if your not perfect they will berate you and call it a test of your manliness. I'd rather have peace and quiet by not being around someone looking for problems.

Dating app data says women only swipe right 5% of the time. They've done multiple studies on this as well. Women find 80% of men as unattractive. They also found that if you take a guy will model good looks he can get away with saying so much more than even a somewhat descent looking guy. Reality is women are all sharing the same top percentile of men. They've turned themselves into side pieces and when you here stories like this it's only because the guy has options. 1 in 3 men right now are sexless and would not behave the same way, they can't they don't have an abundance of options.

Unfortunately this just points out one massive issue. Modern women expect a full package right off the bat for a 30 year old. Women in the past said: "We'll make it work." Completely different mentalities.

Having dating apps honestly seems like a red flag now.

Can we talk about how they both still wanted him and still went on the date to get some commitment out of him?

A high value wmn doesn't constantly test you. She should be of value. Helpful, useful, feminine, kind, nurturing. Not some headache with trust issues. I have 0 time for that.

The most staggering part about this is how the second girl new she could just match with him too

They always act like teachers talking down to students. So annoying and entitled!

Instead of responding to all the serious men who are on there actually looking for a committed relationship, they’re on there playing with “F-boys” and then they complain that dating apps suck 😂

I've been 100% honest with women my entire life. Hand to God. It's been one big disaster after another. At best, I've been friendzoned. Women don't want honesty, they want fantasy. They want perfection.

The irony is when you are a high-quality guy you won't tolerate rude and disgraceful women.

It's amazing that she can't understand that there aren't many normal men left on those apps and she and her friend are only useful for some night action. They think they are some sort of predators but in fact they are prey. What she is seeing is the lowest effort from those predators.

Women brain works like this : If something bother you => it's men's fault. It's easy. Then you can go further : If something bother you and this thing is attractive => Have s. with this thing.

So the red flag with this guy was that he sent the same messages to both of them, not that he quickly threw "so am I gonna get some soon?" Out there. Men don't even manipulate women. They willingly manipulate themselves to hook up with these guys.

Let’s be honest here. No one is really on dating apps to find their one true love. People are on dating apps to get laid and both men and women know it, yet men still have to create a narrative to even have a chance.

The irony is as much as they claim they hate these types of men they always come back to chase them lol

IDK - I think it takes a thief to catch a thief. I have experienced that women don't like to be tricked or lied too (No one does) because that is their game. Did either of those girls tell the guy that they were texting at the same time? They knew each other? No? Who was lying first?

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..

When a woman starts to test, she just lost me. We are taught not to tempt God, so why should we allow others to temp and test us? If the woman is that insecure, imagine what kind of relationship that would be? Eggshells, masking your true feelings, or appeasing her fear constantly will drive you mad. Just leave insecure women alone. You are tested by life itself. You dont need a woman to bring you more drama, for her selfishness!

These are hookup sites, not relationship sites. Want quality? Touch grass, then move your body to places & events where quality people attend.

I copy and paste my entire conversation. The fact is it works. I’ve even had 2 girls like this receive the exact same messages. At the end of the day it is a numbers game. I’m not trying to have a unique conversation with a possibility. How can they be mad at this yet they don’t generate engaging conversation themselves.

So when he pulls a "180" and treats her differently than he did the friend, that's wrong. Then, when he used the exact "copy and paste" responses, he was also wrong. I love lose-lose situations 🙃.

Can these women even pass their own petty test? If not, were they ever even worth your time?

These guys on dating apps don’t care and will play games and lie because they get results. Some times they will crash and burn but they just move on. The women in this case were playing games and being deceitful too. Lots of women are playing games on apps. Apps are not for serious relationships. They are just for hookups. There can’t be anyone on dating apps who doesn’t know this? If the guy is attractive he is going to have a conveyor belt of women on tap. Women know this, complain about it, but carry on doing it. They can’t resist these guys.

Her, "Are you excited to be on a date with a pretty girl?" Me, "You think you're pretty?"

So she complained that he acted too differently and then she complained that he sent the exact same messages? There's no win here

Meanwhile the dude was date 1 of 8 for that day.

The sooner that Men and Women both understand that there is no perfect match or let alone, a perfect person on this planet, the better the dating market will be.

When women say they want a smart man, they mean smart enough to know how to make money and solve her problems, not smart enough to figure out women’s motives and agendas.

Lol, she is mad because he is on a dating app dating. She forgets that they do not have to be exclusive or not.

My response to sh1t test used to be cold and detached, even cruel. I will stop talking to her, to be interested in her right away, answer questions, but focus on your plate or the movie, to play on her insecurities. She will freak out, she will start to give compliments, to try to make conversation. You wait till she is totally emotional then you start talking to her like normal. This makes her realize you can take your interest from her at any moment and you won't tolerate rudeness. This also have the benefit that you can be hurt and there is no need to express it. You can start expressing yourself once the message of 'my attention is totally conditional on you treating me well" is clear.

I know this situation. That guy fkd up by lying, that she'd be the only one, whom he contacted. When a girl confronts me with having contacted other women, say her friend, I always shut them down with a simple advertizing analogy. She can't be mad at GUCCI for showing their commercials to everyone possibly interested. Besides, who is she to demand hookup exclusivity? My wife? No!

I thought a lot of women already did this anyway. The fact she's uploaded about it is now just further proof that they do

Walking away from immaturity is more than a hobby, it’s a lifestyle.

Also, if you sit at a date and wade through these cruel tests, you have zero self respect as a man.

Ok, but how do we know that the guy wasn't running a Tinder experiment on how many girls matched with him, messaged back, set up dates, etc.?

Women change their personality to different men on dating apps just like that guy on the dating app did to those women. Don't think they don't do it too. I know because I've asked guys who've met the same woman at different times

This explains a lot. No wonder I had to lie in some form or another to every girl that I slept with. Even my friend who’s 6’4 and women really like, he had lied in order to be in the relationship that he’s currently in. I kinda don’t feel guilty about lying in order to attract women. I guess this is where the saying fake it till you make it is profound.

All these young people have only known social media for their entire lives. Their identities, self worth, and their social lives revolves around it. They are completely unaware of how sad and reductive this kind of life is

10:40 No, if you're a "low quality guy", you continue the date. If you're not, you say "Have a good night" and leave. If your woman is aCtInG oN iNsTiNcT when she is talking to you, then she's an animal. Don't waste your time with animals. Stick with human women.

this is why i deleted all my dating profiles and apps. never again.. now i approach and engage more with women in real life, it's a far better way regardless of the time we live in or the obstacles that aren't with dating apps. better for your social skill building and mental health too.

"Women don't trust men." Really? Because men don't trust women. At least not any more and for the same reason: experience. As the saying goes, "you can love women or you can understand them but not both."

At $120k/yr and close to a 6pack but not quite, I found that no woman above a 5 was interested. I had to dive head first into entrepreneurial life and i started out well, but then a couple problems and I lost a quarter million. I don't think it s very responsible to put he onus on men to reach the top 5 %. Some will succeed but many will get destroyed

she got them pigtails like she think she dorothy but the face is saying Wicked Witch

As if Tinder wasn't bad enough already.

The problem is they choose the super confident guys, those are the ones that lie the best, the ones that are least willing to cave to her demands meanwhile the nice guy that that doesn't lie or lie as much get passed over. I don't condone guys lying but women are no better with their hypergamy, in the end the girl doesn't care about the guy, she only sees him as a monetary value and then wonders why a guy doesn't care about her and is willing to lie.

Stoicism for the win

Inauthentic women pouncing in every imagined sign of inauthenticity while failing to recognize their own deceptions and delusions…🙄

And people wonder why for thousands of years women were married young and had to submit to their husband's. Women must be governed and if not, this is the result. They were never, ever meant to walk around doing whatever they want. Even the oldest book in the world warned men of their cunning and disastrous ways.

She and her friend wants to date the attractive guy that have options, the 5% and expects him to not give them the time of the day and to be unique to each girl? That is effort, imagine that you have to go on a list of 3000 guys and write unique things to appeal to them just so you can manage to get one to 10 dates, if you are an attractive guy, of course he isn't going to do that, he will copy paste until he finds someone

Alex in this video: women are really nurturing, they don't know they're being cruel Alex talking about next video: why do women hate men. What are the most common reasons for misandry

She really did an experiment on the friend ro show her that she isn't the better catch. This was a dominance move. She already know the outcome.

I think one problem with this analysis is that the guy in question is clearly a "player," right? That kind of behavior doesn't strike me as a "nice guy/loser" trying to emulate a desirable/high quality "alpha chad" or whatever. He got caught, but anyone that needs to start copy/pasting responses has already got it, right? Honestly, I'm not sure it's really that difficult to differentiate the "real deal" from the pretenders... not to mention, I'm pretty sure women are MUCH better at spotting it. It's just... they have to pretend to be outraged about getting "fooled," but... I'm pretty sure they all know what the deal is going in. Kind of feels like a cooperative deception. I'm gonna pretend to be a nice guy... and you're gonna be pretend you had no idea what was happening.

I wasn't allowed to date until 18. Which was fine. Since most people were perpetually lying, I stopped dating at 20 (no one is serious in college), b/c it was pointless. Finally met someone I could take seriously in my early thirties and married him.

WOAH. I've noticed that when you ask them about it they respond with what or get annoyed of asking them, then usually turn it around and sound condescending then go on a rabbit hole spiral to find information about you

I like how she was nonchalant competing with her "best friend" lol.

Well, so much for that badass intuition. Whenever they brag about it, I think about them repetitively getting burned for 20 years on end. Then they get on TikTok and try to get bad advice on green or red flags, that aren't close to accurate. They equate the dumbest things to red flags, "if he doesn't like the movie the notebook, he's not for me" - whaaaaat?

I can only say this is probably a good thing because I've been experimenting with them for the last two years, my favourite one ever was a lassie from Glasgow that had in her description "can only felons swipe right", I don't know what happened to this woman but every single time I see a newspaper of a murdered woman in thw Glasgow area I always think of her, what an amazing world we live in.

Stop making excuses for their bad behavior!

I would say that his strategy may have been like this: i need to write and match to as many as possible I can, cause there's potentially so much rejections, ghosting, failed dates etc. Its quite normal strategy even for normal to less valued man: writing unique messages to each girl is just massive waste of time and work. Most of the time no one will respond, other times conversation won't add up and lastly no date will happen. I guess this can be the same thing for even a sucessful male. Women just don't realise how its from man perspective.

I hate this behaviour. Incredible low chance to meet anyone on dating apps forces men to do stuff like this. Not because he is dumb or evil. Simply because if you spent time and effort to speak to every girl in unique way.. you spending months and months getting nowhere! I spend quite a bit of time on dating apps, looking pretty neat and with certain charisma. There is literally no effin difference on WHAT you write. Only your looks and that you do write something.

The thing is.. too much testing makes the relationship unbearable, it becomes a job interview, and even tho she might found a good guy for her, the testing will destroy the relationship anyway. The instinct behavior isn't always successful, comes to mind the ¨Giant Jewel Beetle That Mates With Beer Bottles¨ story.

It's not hard to tell if a guy is high quality if the woman is high quality herself.

The experimenting I thought this referred to was women wanting "interactive porn experiences." Before I met my recent GF, this happened to me a lot. 1) They'd fake interest on the app. 2) Give their number. 3) During texting, they'd send their nudes immediately and want to start sexting. **After they got validation and sexual attn they'd ghost. That's why I'd always joke about all of my unintentional "one night stand's" on the apps. It's like the movie "Demolition Man", where all sex is virtual now. 🤣

It is childish for women to test Men constantly, it shows mistrust in her towards you and she is trying to find an excuse to confirm her mistrust, that is a toxic behavior I will no longer tolerate, a woman must learn to put trust in the man she is with, men want peace in the home and if they never get it, they leave.

Given the disloyalty, the promiscuity, the ruthlessness, and the exaggerated expression of hypergamy displayed by modern women, men must be equally ruthless in their treatment of women today.

My first car out of college was a Toyota Yaris in a place where everyone is driving a huge truck or at least a luxury vehicle. My friends laughed at me and one girl who thought I was rich (I didn't lead her on to make her believe this) got in my car and then later told me to turn around and drop her off. Well, the woman I would end up marrying didn't care about the car and she also understood finances. Now we live in Paris and occasionally go to Michelin restaurants amongst other luxurious experiences most of the women who rejected me will never ever get to experience.

Imagine expecting someone you've never met and talking to on dating apps to only be talking to you

Its funny because I kinda have to use the same strategy but I want genuine relationships, so really I just test out how much I'm allowed to be myself, and how much I'll be shamed for being myself, and I'll proceed accordingly

It's easy to spread the legs It's hard to make the bread

For the two women it was their day for going on tinder to test out men because they want men to prove themselves, even though they only go for the 5% of men. This was also more than likely a time for these 2 friends to bond, for the guy it was Tuesday.

Thanks for the content and coaching Alexander

When they do this it means they do not care about him in the frist place. She won't be doing this with Chad, and when Chad acts the same, she won't mind or even find it cute and manly. So they have no interest and are just wasting their own and other person's time and playing with his emotions. If she does not like him she will make up a million and one reason not to like him. If she likes him she will overlook anything and everything about him.

Are you low-key switching to female audience?🤔😳

Why would I want to know a woman that lies to me, manipulates, f's with my mind and heart and soul? I get up and leave. That leaves me alone a lot ... at least I have my integrity.

When she is rude with a test, that speaks to her poor character. If I am not upset by it, good for me. But then why would I want to be with a rude woman? Her rudeness exposes her.

Her: I usually don't date short guys. Me: I usually don't date overweight girls.

I love the fact that they think they showed him, but all it shows is that he is attracting and gaming plenty of women.

Alex's caved in head take: women have an evolutionary urge to be distrustful and sus out dupes. Women: use dating apps.