5 Things Men Should Be Focusing On Instead Of Chasing Women 

AG1 Heard this from a couple different pods. Perhaps time to check it out!

@@CaptainRScott let us know how it goes! I do well with my nutrition protocols and my supplemental protocols so I'm not really in need of something powdered like this

great list Joe .... it all starts with being a better you.

So far I’m on the third point in this video and they don’t match your points here

@@davidsmyth6822 well these are my Five Points, these are not what she has come across in her research. They are just the top five of what are most important to me

Easily said but people don’t talk to one another. My elderly clients all assume I have friends. I’m 38 post divorce so everyone ran away because I had nothing. I tell my clients they pushed the stranger danger narrative too hard. So nobody talks. I can have hour long discussions with some but that’s it till I see them again. Coming up to Easter and another one alone. The ex wife punishes menu not allowing my kid to see me unless i pay thousands to a lawyer. The free mediation doesn’t work in a man’s favour. You just get a 1 hour supervised visit which is utter BS.

@@astra6712 you gotta find the right places. Pick up competitive shooting or hunting or fishing - some kind of hobby that can’t be done at home on a computer. You’ll find plenty of people looking for other guys cause some of this stuff is not as fun solo.

@@davidsmyth6822 we don’t do that in Australia. Would be fun though.

I was a weird kid who struggled with No.5 - and then I got far too good at it.

@@notreallydavid a lot of us get far to good at it. American men are among the most isolated.

She monkeybranched

Good luck man, you deserve happiness

You have to chase to SOME extent, as few quality women will chase YOU. Just don't overdo it. A quality woman that's compatible will reciprocate your effort and not expect you to lay your jacket over mud puddles for her all the time.

@@nathan2813 one should pursue women, but not chase them

Hey keep your head up. Idk who you are and same as me to you but if all that is true about moving forward, your head is in the right spot. Keep it going.

ya i agree, like sometimes il go to the gym and see ppl i know and like il wave at them but just not in the mood to like have conversation and just focus on my workout... i like ppl dont get me wrong, but having some time for yourself and relax is crucial...

That’s all and good, just make sure you don’t fall into social anxiety while thinking that you just have introversion. Many people have severe social anxiety and just write it off as being an introvert when in reality they need to help themselves out of bad social anxiety.

@@aidey8mph605 That’s very true. I had crippling social anxiety where it heavily impacted myself and I truly believed i was just super introverted however, Once i overcame the social anxiety. I’m not introverted at all.

I'm not an introvert, but still prefer being alone.

each of us are different but it is not good in the long run to be too solitary, I formed good long lasting friendships over shared hobbies.

Very true. With such inspirational words, I take it you went through alot of pain within your life time. Don't get me wrong that's just an assumption, but you got me interested. 🙂

Spoken like a man whos never been truly isolated and takes socialization for granted

Absolutely

Or they won’t, we can’t lie to men and tell them there’s someone for them out there. Many people die alone despite wanting a spouse

​​​@@Pikawarpsbecause those men did little to improve themselves. Nothing in life is free. Wanting something is pointless without effort behind it. They continue to to be fat, continue to earn average and expect a woman to just walk into their lives! Easy things like "just be nice" are not going to cut it. They need to achieve a healthy weight (BMI < 25), make serious money, be mentally healthy, improves his physical appearance (teeth whitening, hair transplant) all of which takes years of effort and focus. Only then will attractive women want to enter their life.

@@Pikawarps I couldn't agree more. I'm doing the work as best as I can, I have my interests/passions/hobbies etc. I haven't attracted anyone special in my life, despite being told that I'm a catch. I find this part to be very frustrating.

​@@dominick6131 sounds depressing. And you said attractive woman. Not all men are looking for attractive. Beauty is subjective. Who the woman is outweighs what she looks like. And a good woman will not require you to have all the worldy things women are said to always want.

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Exactly. Don't chase. Attract.

Its naive to think they will care about a guy for who they are and not for what they can provide them, they talk the talk but their actions betray them every time, take what a woman says with a pinch of salt

Not only attractive, but even aroused

@@briannyob7799 dont chase, but show interest and be social.. if you close yourself off, ppl will be scared to open up to u

@10:54, “would have” (no offense)

@@pmaitrasm Agree with that (I'm not insulted. The constructive criticism is always welcome). That was a quote that one person told as well. And person was Patriarch Pavle (Pavle means Paul). He has some interesting quotes as well. If you are interested, you can find on internet about him, and also about his quotes as well. Greetings from Vrbas / Novi Sad. You guess which country is it.

@@Harikejn, Спасибо. Я понимаю, Pavlo - Павел. 👍

@@pmaitrasm Пожалуйста. Хорошо 👍🤝🤓😎.

girls chasing you yet?

I was born in Washington DC as well 😂

For all that's green on this planet, please make a good MMO for consoles.

Was there a reason for the divorce or was it completely random? Shit like this gives me commitment issues. One day she just randomly decides to leave you?

@@Crayzyy Because he didn't know the reason doesn't mean there wasn't one. There is always a reason someone leaves a relationship. Mostly what happens in situations like this is that people aren't mature enough to be honest about it.

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. Today when i woke up it was 7pm on a saturday and went to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you. Real men protect the weak and women and family❤ Peace n love✌️❤️❤️ kings be kings💯

I'd suggest a couple drinks at a close by bar (ideally walking distance) during happy hour a couple times a week. Now, bartenders know what to grab w/o asking and on a first name basis with some regulars. Good luck!

I'm over 15 years clean and sober. Drinking is out of the question. LOL!

@@shanescott4043 GOOD!

@@sunnyvale4601 bad ideas create more vices and addictions.

Women do not love men....they want what you have earned.

That's a tough realization but one I struggle with as well. Keep up the good work.

Dude that's crazy, keep it going man. Good on you 👊

What I'm seein on the dating sites I'm on is chix are pissy bout a guy who works out. Not my fault they're fat. They want a guy who looks good then they can use the same discipline & effort to look good.

Congrats! Keep it up!

Good shit brother 🤜🏼💯

Good on you! I’m trying to just focus on myself these days. Going to the gym, eating better and studying!

@@hello-bw9xd whatever leads to a better you☺️

Cool man, respect

Massive cope, women don't just "come later". Unless you're talking about leftover single mothers.

Nice to see a fellow Ukrainian here.

It's wild some people call her a dating coach yet she doesn't give tips on dating, she just gives perspectives and fashion tips as well as some perspective advice. I initially came for the fashion and stuck around to support the channel and the viewers whether they are struggling or not.

I'm married, and my wife and I have been together for 19 years. I watch this channel for tips on how to look and feel my best so as to remain an attractive and desirable spouse. I think the videos help--I'm a pain in the ass sometimes, but I'm a good-looking, more confident pain in the ass.

@@jasonjump6019 Congratulations and best wishes going forward. I'm sure as much as you are a "pain in the ass" to your wife, she loves all of your sides.

@@drip369 not to be rude, but her advice can also be found in a slew of old western movies 😂❤ like it’s the most basic advice we’ve ALL heard once or twice…. I honestly think guys come here just to hear an attractive woman tell them the same crap our dads did 😂❤

@@Macheako Well.. not everyone has seen, or even likes old western movies. What this channel provides is positive encouragement from an attractive woman; a venue that most men will actually listen to. Not some old cowboy on a black and white western.

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I started a Facebook page as well that I’ll be posting for you guys soon! Really want you all to feel a sense of community here. Makes me happy to see all of you interacting in the comments 🥰 thanks for being here!

​@@CourtneyRyan I'll be sure to check that out

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. I just woke up it is 7pm on a saturday and im going to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you. Real men protect the weak and women and family❤ Peace n love

@@lawrence31415 I'm a Nebraska man. GBR!

@@sunnyvale4601 super cool to see a fellow Nebraskan and Husker fan on here. GO BIG RED!

Speak for yourself lol Friends are just your enemies with secret identities.

That's not what happened to me. After I came back from the middle east and suffered from PTSD and other mental, physical health issues and my financial situation got worse most of my guy friends disappeared.

Aw thank you so much! I’m glad you’re here ❤️

@@Tondaloona03 Lol yeah because Courtney Ryan has an OF... (Sarcasm)

@@TuscanBrick I guess that depends on how you define "Simp." I define a simp as a man who gives money to a woman who creates sexually explicit content, even if no content is given in return. Simply following, liking, or being a fan of a woman should not qualify as a Simp.

@@TuscanBrick Lol No, actually you can. Dictionary's don't define words, they just describe usage. People define words as they use them. The fact you aren't aware of this proves you don't have an education beyond a high school diploma. No offense lol

@@TuscanBrick Yeah, everybody's got a "bachelors" on RU-vid 😂

absolutely true

Absolutely! ❤️

​@@CourtneyRyan My name is Marcus. I'm from Parkersburg, WV not far from Cleveland. Just an idea but you should have some guys on your channel to ask them questions, just like you have girls that you ask questions. I'll volunteer if you like.

I'm not from there or anything but I'm fascinated by Northern Canada like the Fort Liard area. Want to visit there one summer.

Ohh if only the false narratives and platitudes were true, then all these decent geeky type scientist type men etc wouldn't end up 40-50 year old virgin loners who die alone typically.

😂

I'm tall but no meat on my bones, therefore I don't have a mate. You're incorrect about fat girls. They don't have options, they're desperate and insecure so they throw themselves on any guy. I'd rather be single than being with a fat girl. To me, a fat girl is who weighs over 170 lbs.

Lol

you are so spot on

Someone that at least understands the basic dynamics of life lol Not all this generic self acceptance, self love pseudo-spiritual Martha Stewart type nonsense haha

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. I just woke up it is 7pm on a saturday and im going to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you.

Dumba$$ comment

I think a person’s -character- is always going to be determined by the choices they make.

Yes!

She gave free pointers on how to make our lives objectively better outside of women and he still found a way to make it about them. 🤦🏿‍♂️

Do you trade on your own?

​@@limzah4121 Am trading with expert Mrs Lisa Gideon, a regulated broker. Met her sometime last year at a startup funding event. She had some interesting things to say about the state of algorithmic trading today, very obviously I'm seeing the results.

​@@oketochkwuw That's impressive. Are you giving her your money or the money stays in your trading account? What's really the idea behind copying trades.

​@@limzah4121 My money stays right in my trading account, my account just mirrors her trades in real-time.that's the idea behind copy trading.

My first investment with Mrs Lisa Gideon gave me the assurance that has made me invest without the fear of losing, I got four of my friends involved with her already

#Free Agent for Life

nailed it.

She's 27 and tells the truth. If she benefits from it, good for her and all of us!

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. I just woke up it is 7pm on a saturday and im going to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you. Real men protect the weak and women and family

Are you watching the same post as everyone else?She is clearly in the 20s.Why troll her age - that is so immature.

@@Wonderwoman79G She don't look in her 20's. Why go to a fish on how to be a fisherman? Maybe have some self respect and get your T levels up.

The problem today is that feminists use the lower vibrations of masculine energy and think they are feminine, men get destroyed and use the lower vibrations of feminine energy. And life for most men are all about competition you have to be the strongest all the time anyone who doesent can be strong all the time get destroyed by other men and society. If u can’t controll yourself you end up in jail or get destroyed by porn or drugs. And porn allso is made to make men feminine. Being healthy masculine is one of the hardest thing a man can do today and that Come with time and when you can overcome all challanges life throw at you. Today when i woke up it was 7pm on a saturday and went to work out right away. I work out every day, it is all about self discipline wich most men lack today like 80% lack it, i can controll my mind and my emotions, i have been free from drug and porn for a long time now and life is really awsome i get my dopamine healthy today i have been trough both back and arm,elbow and hand surgery the doctors told me i would never be able to walk normal or lift anything again my elbow is made out of screws and plates, don’t ever let anyone tell u what u can and can’t do. Today i can run and do pushups and pullups 1year after surgery💪 anything is possible you just gotta belive👍 the mind is so much more powerfull then we can imagine. Now im going for a run and do pushups and pullups in the park early a saturday morning, after that a cold shower. Porn destroy men it makes u have wrong tought som both women and sex while u support rape and humantradfiking. I know life can be lonely sometimes you don’t got 1 living human to even talk to and no one have ever listened to you your whole life while Nobody gives a fuc about u or what u feel while feminists are out there to destroy you. There is no other way then use discipline and become hard you can’t be soft if you want to survive when you get discipline life Will get better that is the only way for men to find healthy masculinity. If you have issues hit me up i Will do everything in my power to help you. Real men protect the weak and women and family❤ Peace n love✌️❤️❤️ kings be kings💯

I just fixed it! Should work now 😊

He’s so talented! 🥰

Thank you! I will pass along your kind message to him 🥰

It probably makes life easier, but it doesn't change anything really, women don't start suddenly loving you, which is the false plattitude that gets rammed down these mens throats with the generic self acceptance/love/self help nonsense. We've got to ask why so many men hate themselves? I mean I hate myself purely because of my body and the body shaming that women have put me through, publically humiliating my body, comparing my body to "mr massively endowed girth" heroes and making me feel like a worthless piece of crap about what I can't even help. All the self acceptance in the world doesn't really change anything, other than stopping your own pain I'd rather be in pain 24/7 at this point. I'm in pain for a reason.