How to MOVE ON and LET GO of someone you once LOVED (or EX)

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Breakups are breakthroughs if you USE them! In this video, we're talking about how to let go of someone you once loved. We all know how painful breakups can be, myself included! So I wanted to drop my thoughts on how to use them FOR you instead of being crushed by the pain. This video's for anyone who can't let go of an ex, heartbreak, their past, relationships, etc. Hope it helps, but more importantly, I hope you take action with it!
[0:00] where you're at
[0:42] why you can't let go
[2:15] your secret to letting go
[3:15] your first step
[6:00] your second step
[8:45] your third step
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@clarkkegley 7 месяцев назад

Breakups are breakthroughs if you USE them! In this video, we're talking about how to let go of someone you once loved. This video's for anyone who can't let go of an ex, heartbreak, their past, relationships, etc. Hope it helps, but more importantly, I hope you take action with it! Ready to reinvent yourself and create this next version of you? Work directly with me & my team to create the 2.0 you in under 10 weeks through the power of idetntity shifting. APPLY HERE: www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study?sl=yt-letgox12823 [0:00] where you're at [0:42] why you can't let go [2:15] your secret to letting go [3:15] your first step [6:00] your second step [8:45] your third step

@jewsArabs1nationSemiticCousins 7 месяцев назад

do silent subliminals work? i mean high frequency that humans can not hear.

@user-oo3hj5yz7s 6 месяцев назад

I have a BIG problem with the word "addiction". People throw it around constantly. And here is why: The word addiction holds so many negative connotations. Shame, guilt, etc. Anything one does to excess is actually self soothing, or employing a coping mechanism. We begin using these coping mechanisms VERY young. My oldest son sucked his thumb until he was about 7 years old. He didn't do it in front of anyone else, he hid under his covers, I'm sure feeling ashamed and embarrassed about it. Would you say, "He is an addict. He is addicted to it."? Of course not! You would never label a child engaging in self soothing behaviors an addict! These coping mechanisms continue on in life. In ALL manner of ways! Referring to them as addictions is only adding yet another layer of shame on top of it. This label helps no one, as a matter of fact, I would go so far as saying that labels are one of our biggest problems. We're labeling everything all of the time and a lot of the labels are LOADED with negative implications. (SO many times I've thought, "I wish I would wake up tomorrow and completely forget the English language!" EVERYTHING!" It would make things SO much easier! p.s. My 4 year old French bulldog also self sooths by sucking on his toys, is he an addict too? *maybe I should find a support group for him.???* LMAO! Just a thought, not actually MY thought, one that I'm observing...lol

@deliamaria4220 2 месяца назад

Thank you for appearing in my life!❤ i recently broke up😊 because he cheated on me ! You helped me very much

@zognoger7451 6 месяцев назад

The trauma from a breakup is at the some level of the death of a loved one. What makes it worse in a strange and painful way is they are still present in this world much like a ghost that is impossible to have them in your life anymore. This is why it is so hard to move on knowing they are still living their life.

@johannpfouche 5 месяцев назад

I am forcing myself to play the hard game, telling my mind: "They are dead. Deceased. Cremated. Gone." Nothing can revive them. They chose to be dead in my world and the only choice I have is to let it go. Let go of this dream that never was and will never be. I can't change it. I've accepted: I can't stop the rain, or change the wind. Hold on Friend. You still have yourself.

@laceylouwho4648 5 месяцев назад

This is something I thought of as well!! Nice to hear someone else get it..

@hornet2442 4 месяца назад

Sounds all great but what if you have a son or daughter together?

@Drikkerbadevand 4 месяца назад

@@johannpfouche There's always a chance they come back, but it's bad to bet everything on it, and make your happiness depend on it.. The best you can do is no contact and then let them contact you if they want to try again.. Otherwise just live your life and deal with the loss

@bennym1326 4 месяца назад

You've written that perfectly. That person, in that time, will never be again... they will just be a memory that haunts you

@markshepherd4791 7 месяцев назад

Took me years to get over my ex i was stressed every day to the point i got ulcerative colitis, no one should feel ashamed to get the help they need to feel better.

@chelsea2711 7 месяцев назад

I had something VERY similar happen to me! I had no idea stress/trauma could cause health problems. I found out in a wild way 😅 Hope you're well ❤

@markshepherd4791 7 месяцев назад

@chelsea2711 it seems like we are only now getting the information on how much damage chronic stress can do on the body as well as the mind, hope you came through alright too 🙂

@hillsonearth-te3dc 7 месяцев назад

Damn bro, as someone with chrons disease I feel your pain brother

@Selflovexpedition 7 месяцев назад

Have you come out of that difficult situation dear? OR still on that phase of moving on in ur life?? Let me know I'm gonna 😌 make videos on it to help you gyes 😊

@Rio_073 7 месяцев назад

Can you tell me what exactly are the things which will make you move on ? Less time taking

@haidaralikhan1554 2 месяца назад

What hurts the most after breakup is the thought that she would be loved, touched, seen and felt by some other dude.

@yetidodger6650 Месяц назад

and he'll pleasure her better.

@MaryGj Месяц назад

It doesn’t matter my dear … a person who leave will leave all the time … my ex boyfriend did that so many time I took him back .. I loved him … I will ask questions to him he will say I don’t want questions… I will start talking seriously with him .. he will say you have 30 min to talk no more than that .. your time is up …. Think about it my friend if they left yog is better now and not late ..

@justincesarski314 Месяц назад

dealing with this right now.

@CarterMakesFunnies Месяц назад

I'm literally feeling that right now

@MaryGj Месяц назад

@@CarterMakesFunnies I’m sorry to hear that I’m going though the pain too .. I can’t sleep how much stressed I’m .. sometimes I feel like love does this to you ? I better stay without no one and not like this

@kauigirl808 7 месяцев назад

I just cry it all out in the shower until there's no more tears. Waste of energy to hold on to the past. Cry it out. And move on. ❤

@brianlam5847 7 месяцев назад

I don’t really cry even though I know I need to, it’s hard

@connynordling1788 7 месяцев назад

Men has overall a much harder time going thru a lost love.

@sevendegrees 6 месяцев назад

Yeah, you’re obviously just a kid, probably never really been in love.

@CaseyFrazAnimations 5 месяцев назад

Yes but you do that so many times in life crying stops working all you're left with is a hole.

@kauigirl808 5 месяцев назад

@CaseyFrazAnimations I always got tears. But never for the same person. I cry it out and move on. Doesn't mean I can't cry again if I'm broken hearted again. But it takes a while before I can fall hard again. My guard is up now.

@Rickkyyyyyythisme 3 месяца назад

He wasn't The One since y'all broke up. The One will NEVER let you go. Remember that

@priyanka3580 3 месяца назад

Thanks for this comment...needed to validate it from someone....he didn't fight for me...treated him like my world...still trying to recover...

@Sennommen 2 месяца назад

@@priyanka3580same and we had a baby together

@redpill5671 2 месяца назад

@@priyanka3580on the other hand if he really loved you. Hed let you go and be happy.

@spanishgray 2 месяца назад

@@priyanka3580I am sending you healing wishes and support from afar. You are worthy and you deserve someone who loves truly loves you ❤ A big hug 🙌🏻✨

@MaryGj Месяц назад

@@priyanka3580I’m sorry to her that .. I’m in so much pain .. he just left in my worse time .. and put the whole fault on me for everything .. I dont know to communicate .. and I’m driving him crazy … after he said let’s be friends … that’s so sad ..

@RielGsyg 4 месяца назад

If your watching this right now. You’re not alone. I just had a breakup a week ago and what hurts more is we are in good terms. And im still healing and trying to move on. Hope you’ll too ❤

@user-nv4yy2vp7i 4 месяца назад

Thanks it's hart break ups I just can't forget olsbout her 😭

@GodsRighthandman 3 месяца назад

@@user-nv4yy2vp7isame man, same

@fake_doktor9241 3 месяца назад

How you feeling now?

@GodsRighthandman 3 месяца назад

same bro, same

@priyankamarriapm5282 2 месяца назад

I did not even get closure lol

@SamuelLee-kc3rh 2 месяца назад

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

@paulinebricks3441 2 месяца назад

its always difficult to let go of you love, i was in a similar situation my husband for 12 years left me.i couldnt just let him go, so i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back

@SamuelLee-kc3rh 2 месяца назад

wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

@paulinebricks3441 2 месяца назад

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex

@SamuelLee-kc3rh 2 месяца назад

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

@sandradube4456 2 месяца назад

Funny enough when I read your comment I immediately knew it was building up to this nonsense about someone who can bring back an ex!

@Theforgotten10 18 дней назад

Break ups can make or break a person. Literally up to you.

@Soulmaster4 6 месяцев назад

All of us make mistakes when we're in relationship ,but if u know in your heart that u've done your best to resolve that, then just forgive yourself and also if u know that you've done everything you can and you've loved her with all your heart, be proud of that fact and take it one day at a time! Hopefully time does heal you!

@gomolemonkoane8878 6 месяцев назад

I needed thisssssssss

@malachirobinson9735 5 месяцев назад

I needed this 💯

@thatpoeticthug 4 месяца назад

She love me And I miss her every day sucks that we have a kid too I feel like I deserve it I let my emotions get The Best of Me and lost my temper. I'm sorry, but something in my gut and hin my heart are telling me she's not coming back. I wanna show her but I'm not the same but it's too late she tells me.

@itisharaghu9857 3 месяца назад

Going through the same thing here, we couldn’t have become what they wanted us to be unless things ended. Be better for yourself because it makes you feel good.

@B1GL0NGJ0HN 6 месяцев назад

I just really enjoyed the phrase, “You only attract what you are, not necessarily what you want.” That’s soul food right there.

@EmilyGloeggler7984 5 месяцев назад

That’s not true, though, for everyone

@nlrenzo9432 4 месяца назад

Not true, some people let themselves appear better than they really are to get into your life. Only then when you find out who they are eventually it will be to late and you will be heartbroken.

@NetSkillNavigator 3 месяца назад

@@nlrenzo9432 That's prolyl a narc..

@gilbertorodriguez6203 7 месяцев назад

Perfect for me, heartbroken from a person who I never dated

@barron5970 7 месяцев назад

What's even worst she is my neighbor

@gilbertorodriguez6203 7 месяцев назад

@barron5970 I assume you never dated? I need context to this. If you never asked her out then damn... felt... I did it and was rejected but hey at least now I know there wasnt a chance so I can move on with my life. Its better to be rejected than to go your whole life wondering if it could or couldn't have been.

@LA123176 7 месяцев назад

Hahahaha ,

@badass420weedsmoker5 7 месяцев назад

@@gilbertorodriguez6203I dated this girl in middle school and broke up with her before we could even do anything so throughout the years I always tried to get back with her because we were really good friends and she always was petty after 7 years she finally gave me a shot after being ran through by many guys and it just hurts

@badass420weedsmoker5 7 месяцев назад

I was so in love with her and she wanted nothing to do with me

@jinglebells6864 7 месяцев назад

It took me about 7 years to get over a 7-year-relationship. I went into depression, had bad acne, lost a lot of weight. It felt like being in a black hole filled with a dark mud I can't get myself out of. Ten years later, I still think of the guy but no more emotion. Exactly what I prayed for.

@sitiimanina 4 месяца назад

4 years relationship just went away due to betrayal last week... idk how long it is going to take me

@Sid20-jd7mb 4 месяца назад

@@sitiimanina4.8 years of relationship my girl just broke up with me after texting a guy which she only told basically she was monkey branching . I was heartbroken and ready to move on but suddenly out of nowhere my gf apologised saying she was wrong and ready to make amends … On one hand I feel betrayal loss of trust and on other side my gf wants to continue on our relationship don’t know what to do😢??

@cringy7-year-old5 4 месяца назад

@@sitiimaninasame thing here exactly. caught her behind the house with a coworker and now she’s filing a restraining order against me for stalking (I just saw the car lights).

@trinityp8575 4 месяца назад

7 years 😮

@LightWolf4474 3 месяца назад

7 years here, too. Everything we built ended up disappearing in a month. It's... So tough. To lose what you valued most.

@miamars. 7 месяцев назад

Use your break-up as a breakthrough 🔥

@durexuncensored 7 месяцев назад

be mature,life is too short

@briankeys5941 7 месяцев назад

@@durexuncensored u on the WRONG place for that comment, lol. All this is duh af. I just got YT auto-play baited.

@briankeys5941 7 месяцев назад

"Break Through the Breakup: A Modern Woman's Guide to Mending A Broken Heart and Bouncing Back Stronger" "Breakup to Breakthrough: The Healing Power of Heartache" And hundreds of others.... That phrase is old af, and this dude is just milking losers, by regurgitating nonsense. 5 second google search for books... STOP LISENING TO PPL ONLINE. Deuces

@ajochacko9885 7 месяцев назад

Consider your break up as a wake up call.

@FranklineOmachari 3 месяца назад

Yes, use a breakup as a breakthrough, dear God, guide me through this pain am undergoing, show me the right path, let me chose wise decision, Amen 🙏

@bshaun2740 6 месяцев назад

never knew how painful breakups were until til this first one. Always thought everyone was being over-dramatic and now im the dramatic one. She just broke up with me today, but im trying to use this as an opportunity for growth instead of decline. Good luck everyone, we’re all gonna be okay one day.

@sukmn1136 6 месяцев назад

same here bro she broke up with me today and I'm just going to focus on myself still miss her tho.

@bshaun2740 5 месяцев назад

@@sukmn1136 Can't believe its been a month already. I've just been working out and getting by. How you been doin?

@laetitialaetb7929 4 месяца назад

Same here

@joshuaolakanla3993 3 месяца назад

@@sukmn1136how are you doing now

@sprkinit1 27 дней назад

I have the toughest time getting over breakups. I can't eat, my smiles are fake, I don't want to go on. I listen to inspirational messeges in hopes that some words will help. I go for walks and cry. I talk to the universe in hopes to ease my suffering. I've made the lists, I've made lists of the things I'm grateful for. I think of my family. I'm shattered. It slowly gets better, a little bit every day. Then one day I notice that I didn't think about it all day. Then the roller coaster of think/don't think happens. Finally, finally there is some relief. I can see the flowers and peoples smiles again. I carry the weight of my pain, and start to become someone different having learned from it all. It's the toughest journey. The only time I start to really feel better is when I can turn my attention away.

@ninamorantes414 5 месяцев назад

I always think of the quote... "NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY "!!! 💯

@activustransport4184 5 месяцев назад

I love this, its so true~

@norswil8763 4 месяца назад

Hmm, even when my ex and I were happy she'd cry, past traumas and things... then yeah, I made her cry later with some unchecked, anxious behaviour. Which i'll always regret.

@trinityp8575 4 месяца назад

While this is true, reality is different :(

@ubs16 3 месяца назад

Yea thats wishful thinking. All relationships experience hurt and struggle at some point

@dhimanchakraborty3423 3 месяца назад

What if... A woman broke me

@abstract-thoughts 7 месяцев назад

Awesome advice. Deleting everything though is too extreme. I know I'll regret it after the feelings go away. I see all the pictures as part of my life that I can reflect back on when the time is right.

@pennyannvincent8831 7 месяцев назад

61 years old; 21 years of deleting everything? Sounds so hard but may be a good idea as daily my fan y samsung phone posts 'memories ' ugh difficult very much still and?after a long and painful divorce. Steps forward are however necessary. Thanks for this video, you young one!

@edainofarnor5026 6 месяцев назад

I feel you. What I've done is save everything in a memory stick or similar and give it to someone you trust to keep it safe. Until the time is right and you can go back without feeling bad. Take care.

@pumptds 19 дней назад

I agree. It was such a happy time in my life, i don’t want to erase it. I know i will be happy again, but this feels too special to delete entirely. I have removed all photos off my phone. Still following on social media for now which I know i have to cut asap 😢

@umesh9630 Месяц назад

It really hurts when we lose a person with whom we decide our future.

@bhoomika9864 Месяц назад

Yes I'm going thru the same

@ebeleanne-marie2626 Месяц назад

Yes 😢 It cuts deep

@ambervelasquez904 7 месяцев назад

Addicted to the fantasy linked to the pain. Wow. You are profound.

@satyaprasad110 6 месяцев назад

What I've learnt from my past.. it to just let it go.. and move onwards. You may not be perfect.. but You're the best You can be at Present.

@timgillenwater1503 4 месяца назад

For me, writing down my thoughts and feelings on paper is something that has helped. Putting it down on paper helps me get it out of my head. When you're finished or begin healing, dispose of it.

@papichrisss 6 месяцев назад

stop settling. start living. that's deep

@LittleStarsLittle 7 месяцев назад

Trust me, it is a spiritual awakening. It's not easy. I often cry, my heart screams. But finally I can forgive. When I can love her, I can also forgive her. And that will calm my heart. Don't hold back your tears. Because it is part of the journey of life, and it is a healing process. Don't give up. I'm experiencing it. Especially for me, thank you for being strong.

@pbtootall86 7 месяцев назад

I recently spent over an hour looking up a girl that I dated 20 years ago and finally found her. And for days I couldn’t help but think about her. And it hurt every time because I would drive myself into a pit of immense guilt because of how our relationship and friendship ended so many years ago. Knowing that she is successful and married, as much as that hurts, was the rope I desperately needed to pull myself out of that pit. I can finally move on. Seeing her life now brings me relief knowing she moved on to greater things after me. And so did I 😊 thank you Alison for the time we had

@sitiimanina 4 месяца назад

How are you feeling now

@chickedee1085 2 месяца назад

Cutn

@michellaemahaffey4688 5 месяцев назад

Hi… I’m newly single after 20 years. Im heartbroken. Of course cheating was the reason. The woman sleeping with my husband was somewhat of a friend at least I thought… This video was and is everything I needed. I’m far from getting over this breakup but this video made my day a little brighter. Thank you so much. I needed to hear this.

@AlphaSigmaRichMan 5 месяцев назад

Woman always cheat men 😢😢

@user-fj8dy8oi5l 2 месяца назад

I soo feel for you and wish you Fresh Energy to help heal you ❤

@Akram-el8gs 7 месяцев назад

I went through a divorce with my wife and it’s been a year and I haven’t let myself be able to let go and forget about her. Watching this, I’d say I’m finally ready. It’s tough everyone, I wish you the best.

@cristianmoore9267 6 месяцев назад

My husband left me. Ghosted me once again said he had a weak moment and he still wants a divorce. I'm dying 😭😭😭🥀

@Sorchia56 6 месяцев назад

I’m so sorry for both of you. I’m in the process of trying to decide to separate from my husband of 26 years. He came clean after 25+ years of marriage about his pornography addiction. He has been in therapy and a support group for a year now but relapsed and lied to me. I set boundaries when I found out: no more porn and no lies or gaslighting. He back tracked a few months ago and lied to his therapist and me. I’ve been nothing but supportive of him in his journey, never raised my voice but I can’t change nor fix him. This is his journey and it’s his choice to want to get better. There is no marriage without trust and respect. Love doesn’t hold a marriage together alone.

@Akram-el8gs 6 месяцев назад

@@cristianmoore9267 I’m so sorry for that, I’m wishing you nothing but the best. You got this!

@Akram-el8gs 6 месяцев назад

@@Sorchia56 I completely agree. This is why I tell people to fix their own issues like that before getting married, because of how unfair it is to put someone else through that type of pain. I am so, so sorry for what you had to deal with. I’m hoping the best for you, never let anyone cross your boundaries!

@aex728 11 дней назад

I've just watched like a dozen videos on how to get over a breakup. They all helped some, but I think this one has been the most helpful to me. Thank you, Clark.

@Rambo4President Месяц назад

man I‘ve ended my relationship yesterday because we are just completely different even though I love her, and I have been crying quite a few times since then, but I immediately deleted everything, reminded me of all the headache and pain I’ve had, and wrote it all down. glad that someone basically confirms everything I did!

@yikes9921 26 дней назад

Feeling better? I just ended things yesterday and I’m in pain I want him back even though I know he doesn’t value me

@lorieandgoose 4 месяца назад

Currently going through a breakup today. Listening to YT videos like yours for hours searching for help. Crying for hours. Regretting staying and so much more. Hoping this pain passes at a reasonable time. 💔

@fofakadir8834 4 месяца назад

Hi dear… sending you love and prayers. Trust me, it’ll get better!

@SunShine_sublime 4 месяца назад

🥺 It's very painful but we can do it!

@mizeria777 3 месяца назад

This was me 6 mos ago. I still am doing stuff but i cried lesser , im better than the time we broke up. Im finally ready to move on, he is right i deleted all photos and our nessage thread. I tried to block unblock so many times in ig. Just yesterday i just unblocked just so i can send the last message without expecting a reply. After he saw it i deleted it right away. I didnt go back to block him, i jist deleted my ig app so i can heal. i just browse all asmr reiki and anything podcasts that can validate i am right to feel this way. Remember its ok to do things for yourself so you can heal. Its not selfish its self care, self love

@caperlacleannhazel2034 Месяц назад

how r u now?

@RagnarHoff 7 месяцев назад

The Memory stick method is a good one. Not only because you don't want to erase your past, but it's a great way to tell yourself you have control over your pain. Erased from your computer and phone so you don't need to see it and imprisoned in a small fragile stick you can crush in the palm of your hand and erase everything for good.

@realloreal 7 месяцев назад

This is something that you don't overcome thoroughly. This is a process to come across. It's hard to admit over my exhusband. My love to all of you who are going through a hard time

@lmusima3275 7 месяцев назад

I’ve cut off all connections to guys. No more friendships, no more situations nothing.

@trinityp8575 4 месяца назад

I am thinking of doing the same. I am too emotional and sensitive and letting go takes all my energy and life juice to the point where I don’t want to live. So, better not get involved.

@matthewmeyers5387 6 месяцев назад

I'm 16 and going through my first break up. I knew it was going to end sooner or later but it still sucks, especially because it's the first time. Thank you for making this

@yurami_._. 2 месяца назад

Personal

@yurami_._. 2 месяца назад

I want ur help

@minnie5301 6 месяцев назад

It is difficult but is such a waste of a life, living in the past. Having been through this pain, I can totally recommend the advice here. It takes a little while but I decided I was worth far more than just being an ex of somebody who not only dumped me for another person but also left me financially destitute. I now have more self respect and have used it as my breakthrough to develop as a person and gain more skills.

@So_There_I_Was 6 месяцев назад

Battling this for over a year now, it’s been very hard to let go of someone who decided to let go which seems crazy. Hell I feel crazy most of the time. But these videos help and I appreciate you.

@biancawalker4776 3 месяца назад

It feels SOOOO good seeing someone feeling the same way. Keep going and be glad u experienced them 🥲 we got this bro

@So_There_I_Was 3 месяца назад

@@biancawalker4776 ❤️❤️

@krantidhh 5 месяцев назад

Talk loving ly to yourself. Start it now!! Learn self compassion.

@aleshablack7862 7 месяцев назад

Have you ever had a friendship like a candle? You forget about them and they burn your house down? Don't forget to blow the flame out once your done with them.

@gabzz72 7 месяцев назад

“You can be all you can be” love this!

@juanderuano8969 6 месяцев назад

Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@juanderuano8969 6 месяцев назад

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?.

@juanderuano8969 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

@sitiimanina 4 месяца назад

@@juanderuano8969 hey, can you share with me the spiritual counselor too?

@njrom2975 Месяц назад

Why did she leave you? She is no good if she left you after 5 years for no good reason

@CatalinaFOIA 7 месяцев назад

It's been almost 27 yrs 😢still miss him; even if he wasn't the best for me nor I for him. He is my twin flame though; I can feel him in my soul. 😢 💔 Longest slowest heartbreak ever. We never broke up, just drifted apart. We are friends, it's better than nothing. 😢❤

@sitiimanina 4 месяца назад

.... saddening

@trinityp8575 4 месяца назад

Drifting apart is sad :(

@njrom2975 Месяц назад

Why did u keep the friendship . It stops u from moving on

@krazykirl1129 7 месяцев назад

That helped me a lot, writing down the negative aspects of them I'd never have to put up with again. Also studying ambiguous grief helped equip me with how my brain was seeing what happened. It's not easy though.

@naturallynoelia 7 месяцев назад

This was such a great video. Really helping me to refocus my energy back on myself!

@jothidas369 7 месяцев назад

You have my humble gratitude. You made this video in the very right time for me. I got the news yesterday that the girl I liked just got married. And it quite hurts. And I was feeling down after knowing the news. But I'm trying to move on. So your words are of great value to me. Much Love.

@Philthyyy 6 месяцев назад

I’ve watched a lot of these type of videos over the past month since my 5 year relationship ended and I have to say that this has been one of the most helpful. Thank you.

@princejaman4285 7 месяцев назад

Yes made it to the end. Loved the ideas and how you provided practical things to do except list out things already in my head. ❤

@mclovinlife4018 3 месяца назад

For me, it’s really incredible the perspective these videos give me almost immediately(sometimes only temporarily), but are still helpful either way. The pain is still there, but my actions going forward change. If you need a slap in the face, just come back to these videos

@dancooper4443 7 месяцев назад

This is one of the most helpful videos you have ever created. Thank you!

@phyllis2866 7 месяцев назад

Best break-up video I've seen all year. Thank you. Really really needed this. Saving it.

@teal1010 Месяц назад

@7:04 After my break up, I read where a person suggested to right a list of the “Pros and Cons” of the relationship! Whenever I ruminated about the relationship I read that list! It instantly put everything in perspective!

@ManShroud 6 месяцев назад

That felt good . Thank you so much . A heartfelt comment, really needed this in this time of pain. THANK YOU MAN AND YOUR TEAM who made this video possible. ❤

@thecategoricalcringeperative 7 месяцев назад

This was an excellent video for a normal/healthy relationship, but would you consider doing one for toxic/abusive relationships? I've been through many breakups that shook me and threw me off, but coming out of a toxic relationship was a different beast and had me struggling for air for like half a year. I totally forgot who I was, lost all sense of self worth, and had to fight to get myself back. Just a request, no biggie if you don't want to/aren't comfortable! Take care, Clark, and thanks for your great work.

@Humgin1234 7 месяцев назад

CRAPPY CHILDHOOD Fairy Channel!!!

@happy2bhere706 7 месяцев назад

Thank you @@Humgin1234

@estheribrahim4095 7 месяцев назад

Right now i feel like running mad ,,, my husband left me with kids with no goodbye since monday and no one knows where he is he rather sent a message that he is fine and hapoy where he is

@antonioradolovic5283 6 месяцев назад

Are you any better?

@sophiaisabelle0227 7 месяцев назад

We appreciate your insights on this matter. You'll always have our support.

@Angell_Lee 7 месяцев назад

Great video Clark, thank you so much! I would like to add, there is an element that is not talked in this video: the love bombing stage of narcissist/sociopath/psychopaths. The first stage of love with them is so potent and it stays deep in our vein, if we don't understand that type of psychology to truly understand what they are, it so potent yet it's all an illusion they make for us to fall in their traps. Much blessings to all xo

@doglover5519 5 месяцев назад

You are so Right!! I want to go back in time and call him out on his games!

@Candiceemry 7 месяцев назад

Clark, I found you first time when I was going through a reaalllyyyyyyy tough breakup last year. I remember watching and having this intense pain in my chest that I didn’t know what to do because I never felt that way ever. But after your video I gained clarity, comfort. You were my gateway into self-improvement and healing. So this video took me back 😅

@Selflovexpedition 7 месяцев назад

Are you currently facing the same situation?

@Candiceemry 7 месяцев назад

@@Selflovexpedition no, I’m in a better state now, better than ever actually. This break up was my breakthrough 🩵

@joyofkitty3823 4 месяца назад

Clark, first of all I would like to point out how concise and straight to the point this video was. I’ve never looked at a break up from 2 sides (pain + pleasure) as you mentioned you should. This information is very valuable and I appreciate you putting it together to help us.

@Supasilvakilla 6 месяцев назад

It hurts so bad. I'm trying to balance focusing on myself and healing emotionally. I need to deal with these feeling and not do anything numb them. My heart is cold. Im dead inside.

@ambervelasquez904 7 месяцев назад

I’ve been listening to you for a few years now, for practical slightly spiritual guidance, lol. Today I lost my relationship and here this video was. I didn’t expect it. Thank you…

@Selflovexpedition 7 месяцев назад

Don't worry dear right people are always meant to stay in your life ✨️ One must not be ur match

@ByTheWilliams 7 месяцев назад

Sorry to hear about your loss, I too last met me 2weeks back and am healing myself. I’ve accepted it, still grieving but looking at this as an opportunity to be the version of myself that didn’t exist before. You’ll be good on the other side of this

@sitiimanina 4 месяца назад

@@ByTheWilliamshow are you feeling now

@ByTheWilliams 4 месяца назад

@@sitiimanina steady on the journey of self improvement. I feel like I’ve been able to find more of myself in this solitude. I let her go. And she found her way back.. yet that doesn’t stop me from continuing to move through. Lots more work to do.. thanks for asking

@sitiimanina 4 месяца назад

Did she cheat? Mine cheated and it has been a roller coaster of crying from both sides. It has been hard these past two weeks. We are not like hanging and i dont know it is just a matter of time i guess till the third party comes back or so although my partner is telling me that the third party has ghosted her now.. i dont know.. it is just really hard.

@Solace030 7 месяцев назад

Thank you, I was actually of doing the pros and cons. But I have been procrastinating, partially because I'm too mentally and emotionally tired. But I know I have to do it if i want to overcome it. Another thing is that I still have pictures and texts because it somehow helps me not to go back to them. I get sad, angry, and confused but never nostalgic. It's true what he said, if you want better, then you need to become the version of yourself that you want to meet. It's hard work, but I think there's is no time limit to work on yourself. You do get tired of feeling depressed, it's smothering. I at least want to be at peace with myself and move on.

@Selflovexpedition 7 месяцев назад

This is the most important 👏 step Taking that decision

@ohangiebabydoingHCG 7 месяцев назад

Sent this to a good friend that is AMAZING and going through the pain of a breakup. Thank you for this.

@lucyjones9678 3 месяца назад

When things fall apart, they may actually be falling into place. Ie it’s not a bad thing, it’s actually a good thing. Let go of what is for space of what will be. You’re not losing something bad, but gaining better

@bhagyashreedeorie6921 3 месяца назад

How can someone one day suddenly just loose all feelings and attachments when you were in a perfect relationship..is that even possible 😭😭

@marcoy1728 3 месяца назад

I know how that feels. When someone who used to be affectionate to you suddenly gone cold. Then you kinda knew it gonna end bad. So I learned never be to invested because I am not the fortune type to find true love.

@priyankajathar2476 2 месяца назад

Me too asking the same question

@user-ur6wb7dk8i 2 месяца назад

Same.First treat you like they like you all of sudden hates come.I am very sad heart broken because of his action.

@christiaannel8339 2 месяца назад

Fck knows.

@oyabun9650 Месяц назад

Hi, I’m on this side of the relationship and believe me it hurts just as much as the person getting broken up with. I loved him for 8 years, I still do. He is a part of me but ultimately I couldn’t go on in our perfect little life. I felt trapped for no apparent reason, I felt sad, I felt guilty. He loves me so much and he would do anything if it meant that I would stick around. Eventually I outgrew the relationship and we hit a dead end. He would’ve kept trying to fix it, but there was nothing that could fix my heart screaming for more. It couldn’t possibly have been a forever. I really thought it would be, so did he. Falling out of love sucks so hard. It’s terrifying how the strong love I had romantically started fading into a intimate yet more platonic bond. I hate myself for letting him go. He resents me too although he would never admit it.

@matthewferrante1649 7 месяцев назад

Loved this video, it really makes sense when you can look at it without emotion, the practice I'm sure will be much more difficult, Thank you!

@inemohoes2814 5 месяцев назад

Break ups are really tough and I really appreciate this video. It really helped me get through a hard time. I lost a relationship of five years due to my stupidity of my actions and not caring and in return, I lost her so now I’m trying to cope with the pain it’s been a month and I feel like I’m getting better and sometimes I don’t but as time can tell, I will get better overtime

@insync7013 7 месяцев назад

This spoke to me on crazy levels man thank you so much exactly what i was looking for, im so stuck on the possibility of something happening but this is really helping me get through that, thank you so much.

@harshvardhanfonia 7 месяцев назад

Really helpful and insightful video in simple language. Thanks Clark.

@Mrenzula 3 месяца назад

The problem some of love the hardest and when someone switches on us... It's either that moment makes us or breaks us.

@marieke5064 5 месяцев назад

Honestly one of the best videos I’ve seen on getting over someone, thanks! ❤

@aMazMusic-bl1bc 7 месяцев назад

@ClarkKegly I watched your videos over and over again, they, you saved me. Will always be helpful in life. GoodJob!

@cryptointegrations9854 7 месяцев назад

Thanks Clark! Your channel is my new favorite!

@moussazaddouki3438 4 месяца назад

I really needed to hear this. It's been six years and I haven't gotten over it. I sent her a message today. She didn't answer me. It made me look very weak, but I think it's time to move on.

@anthonyredden9373 4 месяца назад

You have an anxious attachment. Learn about it and ways you can learn to live with it

@kominaungko294 4 месяца назад

bro, i know that feel, pls move on for the sake of yourself. don't stay in the past with regret. U could be the happiest man in the world. Fighting.

@moussazaddouki3438 4 месяца назад

I always say that I can get over these memories, and I'm still trying to deal with them. I don't know what to do. I'm in a mess

@sonnyperrin9145 6 месяцев назад

Your videos are truly amazing. The amount of wisdom and the way I can just relate to everything your talking about is truly. So helpful. Thank you

@RB-gt8bf 5 месяцев назад

Thank you this was so great! I have had so much loss in my life over the past 10 years. I see now as a time I can move towards goals that will make me reach beyond the ordinary for me. I have said to myself that there is a purpose coming out of my current pain.

@TheToddNJ 7 месяцев назад

Great vid at absolutely the right time for me, thank you

@RebelGoku13 7 месяцев назад

I love your content. Never retire!!!

@user-nu1ub8oc8p Месяц назад

This seriously is THE best advice. Been almost a year and I’m still struggling. You described me to a “T” and I’m taking what you said to heart. Thank you.

@anapanchisss 6 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this advice and for acknowledging that yes logically we can do it but at this very current moment it hurts. Currently journaling those positives and negatives. Thanks again!

@RikkiLaRue Месяц назад

After a breakup I always feel like I'm dying and then not dying is the worst

@ayayron7776 7 месяцев назад

*I’ve been looking for YEARS for a video just like this one. THANK YOU.❤*

@d-rabbitfor5398 7 месяцев назад

They are literally all over youtube. This is not unique.

@Selflovexpedition 7 месяцев назад

Are you still struggling to cope with a situation let me know

@ayayron7776 7 месяцев назад

@@Selflovexpedition I am.

@Selflovexpedition 7 месяцев назад

@@ayayron7776OK tell me your problem! it would be great if I can help as I've overcome such situations in my life too

@jarodhamilton1181 7 месяцев назад

Awesome video man, I’ve been wondering this exact thing (how to get over an ex) and glad to know some of things I’m doing are right, but also learned a couple new ideas/perspectives here! Thanks Clark, much appreciated!!

@marenmarks1628 2 месяца назад

I love the idea that there are tactical things we can do in these moments of deep pain and this helps. Thank you.

@Artistguy86 6 месяцев назад

I had her trying to come back and make it right and that she loves me. But after her cheating, I couldn't take her back. I feel like I'm in a nightmare. That the person who claimed to want to spend the rest of our lives together did this out of no where.

@josemerino7894 6 месяцев назад

Damn b4o I been there n unfortunately its true,dont take them back unless ypu just want benefits but no future with her,because just like us,they will cheat again ,honestly I been thru it smh

@erikaaustria3537 5 месяцев назад

same here, My ex left me weeks ago, claiming that he isn't happy anymore. 🥲,How is your recovery so far?

@sitiimanina 4 месяца назад

Same situation..

@coversbyvrg Месяц назад

Same thing happened

@dakakshay 6 месяцев назад

I wish this video was there 12 years ago. Would've saved me a year's worth of waddling through depression. But I've taken notes for my next 'breakthrough' moment.

@tbowen2169 4 месяца назад

Oh my goodness gracious!!! This is exactly what I needed with such a great delivery. Thank you

@DavidGarcia-pz7ew 3 месяца назад

You have a truly amazing energy the way that you have just explained everything has helped millions and millions of people! Your eyes and voice transmit calm , positivity and above all it transmits the highest frequency which of course is love ❤️ God bless you and I wish you a lot of success. Thank u 🙏🏻

@DennisDinges 7 месяцев назад

The hardest part is that some people/souls get attached to my energy fields and stay there for a while. Not only lovers but also people I seem to grapple with. How to remove or resolve those attachments...

@Liz-wz8dh 7 месяцев назад

This was great advice and true in my experience. When I think about people from my past, I really had to be tough with myself and just cut off the good and the bad memories and force myself to replace them with other activities that would occupy my mind. God was it hard, but it really does work over time. I stopped reading anything that had to do with them (past text messages, notes I kept on my phone about things they liked) and forced myself to have a months long period where I absolutely was not allowed to look at pictures or any obvious reminders of them until I really felt strong enough. It works if you let it, but the problem is forcing yourself to stick with it.

@cocosings0326 4 месяца назад

I’ve watched a thousand of these and this one hits home. Thank you .

@nicholasjackson8782 7 месяцев назад

Hard agree on the cutting them out step. Ive found its much better to just cut your losses and let your wounds heal. Maintaining some level of relationship/friendship with the person seems to rarely work. Obv if youre divorced with kids for ex thats probably not an option

@alfiejordan4081 7 месяцев назад

Thanks clark this popped up at the right time for me , I have not been in a realtionship and broken up with someone but they were on my mind a lot As I learned we share the same birthday and year and have many similarities but we don't see each other often enough and thinking about her was distracting me from my true path.

@citichic2311 7 месяцев назад

❤❤❤

@rheydawnalquisalas6586 4 месяца назад

This really made me feel so good. Stop settling' start living.

@anthonyabate5015 7 месяцев назад

Probably the best video I've watched on the subject.

@user-jm7pw2zc4d 6 месяцев назад

And they come back give you hope just for them to say they want nothing with you and hurt you again

@doglover5519 5 месяцев назад

Right!!!! Jerk!!!

@lillie2549 7 месяцев назад

it’s sad i’m here on Christmas.

@hellobeautiful3301 7 месяцев назад

Hang in there buddy! I also can't believe I'm here at Christmas 😢

@meiisintheuni8153 7 месяцев назад

oh dear:( we both are

@Rick-xq5mu 6 месяцев назад

I got dumped on Dec 2nd 2023. She started dating before New year

@tamradonovan393 5 месяцев назад

I'm here for Valentine's 😢

@user-xg4ri4dc3u 6 месяцев назад

So encouraging thank you.ive been in a toxic relationship for almost a year.i get encourage d when I hear such information but I thank God I've already got a break thru after realizing everything was just toxic and the t

@Honesty4Us 7 месяцев назад

Your ideas are great, thank you. I thought it was because we were soul mates. I have struggled for a year now. He left me for a third party scammer. Betrayed me and hurt me bad… I had been single for 10 years and decided I wanted to have my last love. This is what happened. Damn Why me I asked God. I’m a good person and love life. I treated him like golden. As what I have learned, he is a narcissist. OMG. I have learned so much. But it really really hurt. I have re invented myself and I’m super popular in the video world. Love what I do. And I do it free to help bands get known ❤❤❤

@doglover5519 5 месяцев назад

Yes, A Narcissist!! I told him he hurt me but never cared and never said he was sorry because it's all about him!!

@tyrannosaurus62 6 месяцев назад

I appreciated this video. Coming from a single father with no family but my son. My baby mama left me after 10 years and I don’t hold it against her. I just want what’s best for our son. So I figured if she’s moving ahead and not looking back. I need to do the same. It’s rough and it’s been a rough few weeks but it’s not impossible. But it sure is tough. Very.

@letlifemoveyou 10 дней назад

how are you feeling these days ? Going through something very similar man

@tyrannosaurus62 10 дней назад

@@letlifemoveyou I’m sorry to hear that. It’s been 7 months now. I’m doing better. All I can say is that I learned a lot from this relationship and that , despite everything. As a man , father. We just have to keep going. For me , it was about staying busy and focused. Looking for a new outlet too. Change. Change is good. Tough , but good.

@amandaambriz9950 7 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this video💕 I’m so glad that this video found me when I needed it.

@ZarpeParadise 7 месяцев назад

Perfect! Remember to be of service to others less fortunate. It's a great way to focus on the Positives of Living gratefully,, regardless of the current situation. Great vid Clark!

@Dial8Transmition 3 месяца назад

My issue is that I'm a very sensetive and emotinal man, and when I was with my ex I had somewhere to channel all those wonderful thoughts and feelings that I have inside me, I had someone to love and take care off. But now without her, I have nobody all I have have left are the negative emotions, I feel as if she took a part of me and left

@barrystarlighter1832 2 месяца назад

I understand completely.

@njrom2975 Месяц назад

Move on ! This is not the end of the world! Go I believe in u

@Dial8Transmition Месяц назад

@@njrom2975 I know, I know. Thank you, it's getting better and will only get better with more time. My logical mind realized it is over a long time ago but my feelings just have to catch up.