Or maybe they thinked that, but it dont have to influence ur life in this way! Everybody meet person that doesnt like him and other ones that appreciate him. Beautifull is Subjective, so just dont give too much importance to the other one's comments!
As an unattractive woman I still haven't reached the point of not caring about others opinions etc.. I prefer being invisible then standing out in my own way
I convince myself that I don't care but sometimes I look at myself in the mirror and I weep. I dont really know what went wrong because all my siblings look very good. It's just me
I agree and I think she is charming. It is also more about mentality how she perceive herself. It is also same with 'beautiful' looking people. I know many 'beautiful' people who are not so confident about themselves no matter how beautiful they look. It is because of social pressure and twisted mind-control, people cannot believe that they are ok as they are. It is too bad that such mind-control is happening everywhere and no one is good enough. Or you have to be a real model, AI modified perfect face to call yourself beautiful.
Seems you got bullied a lot and end up believing in the bullies… Hope you recover your confidence! Because you can be many things, but ugly you’re not for sure!!! And you’re really brave to post videos like this, there are many people feeling the same, sure this can help them
I have come to the same conclusion. Because you are a 5/10(plain, just below average). It strikes me that you had to do this vid without makeup to prove that you are not a 6/10(average and easy on the eye as most women under 30 are beautiful). Now I see the logic, you see that your face has some unattractive shapes, but this won't really come into play until you are in your 30s, right now it is too subtle to make you a 4 or less and so you are not ugly. What I think is happening is that you don't have confidence, and that is what makes you appear un-pretty to people (you come across as miserable and hunched over and whiney in the energy and facial expression and covering up your body with a hoody because you don't EXPECT to be found attractive like a security blanket and guarded, maybe) and able to observe this behaviour towards yourself. You come across in this video as a sweetheart with cute eyes and so just need confidence and good make up to be viewed as other girls your age are. You are young and may FEEL you have tried this, it can't happen over night but I hope you find a friend who is good at makeup, and a nice boyfriend or experiences that make you realise you are a average looking girl that has prettiness that you can be proud of and then the confidence will come and one day you will see it in the mirror. You have such cute eyse in this vid and your vulnereability is so sweet and therefore charming makes you attractive and like I want to be your boyfriend and give you that confidence you need.
Right when you’re unattractive you might feel like you have nothing to lose and when you have nothing to lose you’re free. That’s the good part. But the cons, damn the cons.
@@sexymaryThe only real con is being bullied because of your unattractiveness or missing out on a job cos of it. Loneliness and no one noticing you is not a big deal if you enjoy being alone. The key is to stay productive and find hobbies that please you.
As an unattractive woman, I completely hear and relate to you. I would just like to vent though: I’d say men don’t understand the double standards. For example, you have the Silver Fox, an attractive older man. Men have the allowance to grow and look old, women do not. It is also extremely more socially acceptable if a man uses his personality to overcompensate their looks, meanwhile a woman cannot. As an ugly woman, I can’t be like, “Well I know I’m not the most attractive but maybe I can tell him a joke to woo him over” or sum shit but you know what I mean. As women, our value is boiled down to our appearance. Since the dawn of time, we’ve been trained and stressed on how to look young and skinny forever. When men say “women have it easier”, they specifically mean young attractive women. Excluding all women of different ages, colors, sizes, etc. Life sucks as an unattractive woman in a patriarchy. I feel for you and I’m here for you 👋
It really irks me when ugly guys think they deserve or are owed an attractive women but put no effort into their appearance. It's like what makes you think you deserve a beautiful women when she doesn't want you in the first place.
You're living on another planet then. On earth morbidly obese women get dates. Grandmothers hook up with 20 year olds and a female's virginity is worth 200,000$ while a male virgin is laughed at.
I absolutely agree, it sucks being unattractive but being unattractive as a women suck clossally more, there is no other quality, no amount of success, money, education, achievements that will compensate for your looks.
it sucks because as an ugly girl I desperately wanna be attractive so bad but then it’s like.. all friendships and relationships and connections are transactional since they’re based on looks bc would he really be with her if she wasn’t hot? Absolutely not. but then on the other hand it’s like ugly or average/Mid people settle for eachother and secretly(men especially) desire the hot pornstar model looking girls but had to settle for what they could aka what’s “in their league” which then also makes average or ugly peoples relationships just as transactional & fake as hot people in relationships w each other. obviously yeah ugly people are treated awful compared to beautiful people but would I wanna be friends with the type of people who only wanted to be friends with me based on a superficial level? it sucks lol this world and people suck, attractiveness and looks pervading every aspect of life in every way sucks too.
That's crazy you think it's "especially men" who want the pornstar/model wife when there's ugly women with stupid high standards then they wonder why they're 40 and alone.
That's just the way of the world people only base your value if your pretty or not. Nobody cares about your skills or talent. They just care about if your attractive.
I realize that I was ugly in middle school. Middle school hit really hard for me . Majority Everyone said I was ugly . It was really hard to find myself beautiful . I had ex crushes that I used to like and none of them liked me back . And there was a time I had a so called “boyfriend “ at the time I was in school he kept me a secret . we broke up and one day we where in the same classroom and he wanted to embarrass me in front of everyone in class I guess because people found out we used to date . He called me ugly in front of everyone and when class was over everyone was in the hallway I called him stupid and I still had my book bags in my hand . And he got in my face like I was a guy . Punched me in my face in front of everyone an body slammed me in front of everyone . Everyone laughed and not one single person helped except for my teacher she took off her shoe telling him to stop and told him “don’t you ever do that “. Yup self esteem hit an all time low . It seems like people felt like I deserve to get beat up by a guy because I was too ugly to them to be saved or something.I notice people became very dismissive towards how i felt about things .didn’t care what I had to say .people allways thought it was my fault and that it was allways ok to gaslight me. I even wore make up everyday to school and that when I ranned out of make up I tried to make an excuse to not go to school because I was ashamed of how I looked . Some people say I’m pretty with and without makeup but a whole bunch of people will still make fun of me for wearing make up. They talked about my stomach. I was never asked to go to prom by a guy. I don’t look people in the face when they talked to me because I felt so ugly about myself . I was the ugly best friend . I also thought shamefully that my self esteem would boost if i had Sex with guys but that didn’t work but by the time I got in high school things gotten a little better but there was allways some guy waiting to treat me badly just because they didn’t find me attractive by the time it was close to me to graduate from school I had boyfriend he treated me right and everything and even tooked me out on dates but that only lasted 2 months and left me for someone else . I am 26 years old now and I found peace to not give a damn what people say . I have way more people find me attractive now than the people i was with in middle school the experiences that I dealt with taught me to not please people since I barely could’ve please people on my looks . And not be desperate for a man . (I was never desperate) just wasn’t attractive to a whole lot of people it’s just taught me more on not being desperate . And I don’t deal with sorry broke men . I get taken out on dates and even some people that Ive found attractive find me attractive. I didn’t post this for people to pity me but people need to learn to respect people regardless of how they look . And I can say I’ve never just out the blue disrespected someone because I’ve found them unattractive that was never my style
For me, a con of being unattractive is that you can never receive compliments seriously, because even the most minuscule amount of praise sounds like a backhanded insult and ultimately makes you feel worse.
You're actually pretty and not ugly AT ALL. You're a little nerdy looking but that's just your style. Actually ugly people don't go unnoticed unfortunately: people insult them, make fun of them, etc. Look at Lizzie Velasquez who was filmed and mocked. You'll probably never go through that because you're not ugly. Maybe you're not treated like an attractive woman but not ugly that's for sure.
I know what you mean about parents investing more in things other than appearance. I’ve always been the smart funny girl, never having my looks appreciated by my family. It sucks, but at least I have the other things going for me I guess…
I agree with a lot of these points, from my own experience as a severely unattractive woman with a flat chest. The biggest pro for me is in my line of work I get men that respect me and treat me like one of them instead of being creeped on. (Trucker) Now that I’m older I’ve accepted the way I look outwardly and I’m much more appreciative of my other qualities that imo matter more than physical traits, like strength and determination. I’d rather be strong than beautiful if I can’t have both!! Good luck to you
You are a good looking woman. I don't know what are the standards in your country, but you are one of a kind. I kind of understand what you are going through or experienced. I have social anxiety and not good looking. So I hope you will accept who you are and be a better version of yourself. It's hard , and you can't please anyone. You are right , they treated you differently if you don't have the looks they have approve of. People who are attractive or good looking always have the advantage and what they say matters. And ugly person , even you didn't do qnything wrong , you will become a criminal in there eyes. But in my eyes you are pretty.
I hope one day you'll realise that you're not ugly at all.. I don't even know you, so I can objectively tell you that you are pretty! You've got such a cute small nose, gorgeous full lips, big kind eyes and a beautiful face shape You look like an angelic ballerina off duty And you seem to own a very kind soul as well! 💗💗💗
@@Yoshsterpalooza It's different for every person. There are no strict rules. Assymetry might look bad on some and may look good on another. The same with the forehead look. This is girl is well above average and has a unique look. If she calls herself ugly and people agree with that, it would be because they want her to continue believing that to boost their own ego. Deep down, we all know she's far from ugly and so does she.
You seem like you’re being honest in this video, but it’s weird to me that you think you’re unattractive because you actually look like a model. REAL TALK! Your bone structure, your full lips, olive complexion and thin frame are screaming Vogue magazine. However, I’ve never met you nor do I know what it’s like to be you, so thanks for helping others that may have similar experiences👍🏽
i hate when pretty people pity us. My step sisters all pity me and or think that I lack common sense and need there help. Or they will make me feel less than when invited to there friend group by either mentioning my insecurities- overall even though they dont intend to do it they do. (im heated because my sister compared me to the me 8years ago disregarding the grind and the work i put in to get where im at regardless of my shortcomings struggles and tribulations)
Just some food for thought, but perhaps your sisters compare you to past versions of yourself....Because they're jealous. That was my initial reaction to reading reading your comment. I think you have lots going on Internally and they can't fathom that, cause it's not how they are. It's low hanging fruit to them. Just remember that you're not those faults, you are an excellent person.
The being ignored like a plant bit is soooo relatable. It happens not only in social gatherings, but also in professional environment. Many times I felt almost as if my presence in a room was offensive to some people. I don't think it was entirely conscious on their part, just some extreme disgust they could not conceal, as if there was a repeling bug on a window. It happened so many times, with so many different people in so many different dynamics and I was never able to describe this extreme discomfort of mine until I watched this video. Fortunately I now work remotely, but even in videoconferences I still meet people like this sometimes and it all comes back to me.
Your not even unattractive, you look good and beautiful, dont let your inner voice hurt you, confidence is key, your perception of yourself can be much different than other people and if you believe that your beautiful than you'll feel like it too, I've had low self esteem and trust me, a small amount of confidence will go a long way, as well as dedication to self improvement, mentally and physically, if you don't feel like the person you want to be then change it, it will build confidence
First of all YOU ARE NOT UGLY!! You’re actually very beautiful! You have natural beauty so if you were to add a little make up and hair GIRL you would be unstoppable! Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re ugly ever again because it’s simply just not true!
You have natural beauty and striking features. Please know that there is no one-size-fits-all standard of beauty. Tons of us guys would give anything to have a girl half as lovely looking as you. Your voice is calm and pleasing too, and way to go as far as leaving yourself alone and not wrecking your natural beauty with sharp objects jammed in your cartilage!
You’re one of the prettiest people I’ve ever seen but I can relate, having a big nose and fat face is seen as a curse and I’m learning to not care as much since there’s nothing I can do about it
You’re beautiful and your features are harmonious. Like I’m proportion to your face your nose doesn’t stand out as big and your face doesn’t stand out as being fat either. All your features go together so it doesn’t necessarily matter if certain features are bigger.
No! You are beautiful! I’m not even looking at you and love your voice. Maybe you are socially awkward? But that’s quirky and different, most of my friends are quirky and unique. By the way your smile is gorgeously addictive. You must live in a group of beautiful people who assess an image of beauty as ideal. Your soul is pure and true love will see that.
Thanks for the ❤️. I had to watch some of the earlier posts to understand you better. I hope you can find a way to love who you are. The energy you put out into the universe, is what you will receive. If you are self loathing others may feel that energy. Take care beautiful.
Girl I wished I looked like you ! your really pretty you just need to learn to do your hair and makeup (your pretty without it but seeing yourself in a different perspective might help) and you might see it too. I suggest a doing photoshoot (hear me out) get your hair and makeup done professionally and a good photographer that knows how to edit. You’ll see yourself in completely different light for the first time in your life and hopefully gain your confidence
the first pro that I see in not having pretty privilege is to having an additional motivation to self-improv and become a better version of ourselves in every other way
I already was aware of these cons as a unattractive woman. Also I have a ethnic background and live in a very white town. The worst thing is that I as a child did get ignored and bullied. I had 0 friends, I became chronically depressed because I didnt understand why no one talked to me, why no one would wanted to meet me outside of school. This has prevented me from developing important social skills. At high school, people talked about me in my back or sweared at me, I eventually was sick of it so I kicked someone, where I was then labeled as the bad person. Now Im at university and since I wear a LOT of makeup and I make sure that i wear good outfits, I really feel that people act different towards me. But still Im not happy with myself, I want to get nosejob. I have people whom I close with at uni, outside of uni I stil dont have any friends, but I've kind of accepted that this is my life and I should be at peace with it. I hope the nosejob at least will save my career....
WTF you're very attractive...your facial symmetry is practically flawless, you're gorgeous! For BDD you should try cognitive behavioral therapy. Read "Feeling Good" from David Burns, it's gonna change your life in the span of a month.
I've never commented on a video like this & said "you're not fat, or you're not ugly" .....BUT there's clearly some disconnect here. I'm attractive, probably on the higher end of the spectrum, and there's nothing ugly about her. I would consider her as cute/pretty. Very sad, but I think she'll be fine. She's not even close to ugly, so hopefully someone or she herself will help to realize.
Yes I agree with you I think that she is beautiful...but maybe someone in her life bullied her and call her ugly so she believes that so much that she is ugly but she is not at all !!! sorry for my bad english....
Your actually pretty you look fine your not ugly, I’m saying this not because I want you to feel better or I’m faking it, but first time I’ve seen you I find you pretty, your lips and brows and eyes are all compliments your face shape, maybe if you still feel insecure you can try a little of makeup :)
I am a ugly women and it bites. People are always mean to me. People are short with me and if I need any help with anything they will absolutely will not help me. No one has any empathy for me which sucks because I always have empathy for others and I am always polite and nice to others it’s just in my nature. I can’t get a date to save my life. Men hate me they literally scatter if I am around lol funny but yes hurtful. I don’t have friends only one friend who is amazing. I am always home and honestly I am not going out much these days because I always end up being harassed by people giving looks of disgust or telling me hurtful things. The only man I have ever loved and married just married me to obtain citizenship in America. As a ugly person be very careful because there’s people who will use you without any remorse. I didn’t use to be so bad looking but unfortunately age and a developed TMJ disorder wrecked havoc on my face. I am now 30 and I do look really young for my age but I am considered unattractive by many. I don’t have boobs and my body is rectangle shaped so that doesn’t help me at all also. I am always trying to stay hopeful but it’s tough to feel so unwanted and to be consistently rejected. Thank you for sharing this video. Ps I honestly don’t think you’re ugly. You seem so sweet.
I just want to hug you because you remind me of me when I was younger. I don’t want to demean your experience because I believe you are treated like you aren’t attractive since these days girls wear so much makeup and need a certain aesthetic to fit the ideal beauty (no shame to them, just being realistic). Anyone that doesn’t fit that is considered plain, including perfectly cute and average to above average girls. Add to that you are quiet, shy, introverted, and unique. I was like this too and bullied, only to have my bullies later admit they always thought I was “cute” but “weird” or a “dork” and didn’t want to admit it. You are a very cute young lady with a nice face. You just beat to your own drummer and not everyone will embrace that. Do you. Thank you for your opinions. I agree with a lot of them.
You’re not ugly! A lot of girls wear makeup, even if you can’t see if, so it’s not fair to compare yourself to that. But as far as male attention goes, it’s a useless commodity. Guys will look at anything in revealing clothing…until it’s too old to be attractive. If you showed more skin, you would get the attention too but it’s not worth it. You are way better off doing your own thing.
Girl, where do you live??? Like you are objectively decent looking and that’s without makeup do u live in LA or something, bc I can’t see how anyone can perceive you as “ugly”. Maybe some people might find you unattractive but nobody’s a solid 10. I wish u saw what we see. You are not a bad looking women and I know people are going to tell me I’m “invalidating” your feelings and experiences, but I don’t care. It’s the truth. Your perception of yourself is so skewed.
@@CrookedLady The standards keep getting higher and higher. I think it is because of the proliferation of photoshop and filters, as well as cosmetic surgery becoming more normal for people to get.
@@CrookedLady Dawg if you put on makeup your model tier. Like honestly book a consultation with a plastic surgeon, they literally wouldn't be able to find anything to fix. You have no failos. Lookup a Reddit community called vindicta which is about understanding female beauty from a scientific perspective and you'll realize how blessed you are. All these other girls aren't actually prettier than you. They're just better at makeup. Have you ever tried false lashes?
Bruh for real. She's got the bone structure people in Hollywood pay surgeons for. If she wore makeup properly she'd be a knockout. Poor girl is too in her head.
@@quxantipe I personally find her attractive, she's my type, ok not "the most beautiful woman in the universe", but whatever, her personality has something more, like a charisma that has been forged from all the the things she had endured... (Sorry for my Bad english I'm french). But she is overthinking about her own look, and then making her life harder...
i’m a guy who has been dealing with being unattractive for quite some times obviously gender affects the way you experience life but as a guy it’s also a little hard and kind of similar in some ways. it’s true that parents will highlight your other qualities like your brains or talents whereas beautiful people in your environment like friends and even siblings (which makes it harder in that situation) and how they have this unspoken privilege and go-lucky confidence that people know they have when they treat them whereas if you’re less attractive people treat you with a little more pity and you wonder why your brother for example has it easier in communication. or how the more attractive people act like they are animated and have and because they have this benefit when it comes to other being attractive to them and the “halo effect”. and you realize your ideas are under appreciated just because you’re not as hot as the hot guy saying bland generic things
I know what this woman is saying. I'm a guy, and I know women don't like me. But, I know that this woman is attractive, I know I'm attractive because people have told me I am. I would love to be with this woman because we get each other.
I get cold shoulders, left out, people think I’m weird automatically or stupid, I don’t get hit on. I get told I’m beautiful on the inside. Lol I’m an introvert and I also have an invisible power situation as an unattractive person.
Hey,I’m sure you’ve gone through something,but I can 100% guarantee you are not ugly. Please don’t listen to whoever has made you feel this way,I might sound like I’m pitying you but I am not,I genuinely think you’re really pretty,please keep your chin up gorgeous ❤
A lot of videos on this subject. As an ugly 50 year old man I suddenly feel right at home. I have always felt the better looking you are the better your chances at a better life.
people use to bully others for bad looking not because something is their fault, just because if one girl is called ugly all others will feel more pretty, it’s harsh to say but that’s the truth. But most times bullying can be avoided with some makeup, a cool hairstyle, cute clothes, etc. Remember you don’t need to look gorgeous to avoid bullying, just not look the less pretty girl.
Just because you decided that conforming is “the right way” to live, doesn’t mean it’s the truth. Nobody should have to paint their face to be treated like a human being.
girl you literally are the beauty standard if you actually knew how to take care of yourself, in terms of hair, makeup and style you could easily be an 8.5 out of 10
nope thats not the issue. the issue is , youve just admited, a guy needs the superficial aspects, so if he says a 5/10 but has all the make up n stuff,vssomeone ike her, youd take the 5 jand be attracted just because of cosmetic and superfcial branding. thats the fukk up of society. not a nice original ( refreshing af?) girl who has turned her head to all of that bs for some reason
@@soccergalsara couldnt get everything you said cuz of the grammar but ...even without makeup she is beautiful. makeup will enhance her natural beauty... and unfortunately its true... men care about superficial stuff
Hi, I'm new here in your channel. I'm from Philippines. I was just searching on RU-vid about how unlucky ugly people are, because I am thinking my self unattractive or ugly too. Actually I'm an Introvert man. The only reason I call my self ugly because I have a bad crooked teeth my lower teeth was pushing the upper 4 teeth .. and also one missing teeth 😅 so that's the reason why I can't smile showing teeth's and also that's the reason I called my self ugly "I'm ugly!". As for me , lady.. you're not ugly , but you look so beautiful and cute. I don't want to stop you call yourself ugly , but I want you to continue of how you think about your self .. because that's makes you special !😊
Who on earth ever told you that you were ugly? I'm reminded of a fare I had one day while driving taxi. A woman told me that her 8 year old daughter had always been a happy-go-lucky girl until one day this woman's mother took her grand-daughter aside in front of a mirror and told her that she had a pretty face, and then, turning the girl sideways, patted her stomach and said "but you're fat, so no one will ever love you". Her daughter, from that point onwards was always depressed and concerned only with dieting and weight. This lady was so angry with her mother that she couldn't speak to her any more. Did you suffer a similar experience?
You are not ugly in my opinion. You're just not a super model or pron star. You seem chill and very down to earth which is more attractive in the long term based on my experience.
I really feel you on the invisibility. It's nice to not get harassed but I miss out on the numerous benefits of the Halo Effect as well, namely free stuff, promotions, social capital etc.
"Pros and cons of being an ugly woman" Hum, no, and no, and NO again (non, nein, no, niet), you're not even close to being ugly or average looking, quite the opposite actually! You are very nice (sorry if that might sound weird or ackward, it was not my intention, just a free compliment).
You just want people to say "oh, who said you're ugly? You're so pretty, so beautiful" but you know what? You're pretty self-aware so it's a good thing.
She's not the ugliest women I've seen she's pretty average looking actually maybe because she puts no effort into her appearance she's seen as "ugly" honestly if she put her time into makeup and fashion she could look a bit better. Like you don't understand how the right clothes and hair style could make a difference.
I feel like a hypocrite because I found your video by searching for "I'm an ugly woman " because I think I'm ugly... but now looking at you, sane way thinking you're ugly.... oh man.... you're so pretty!] And crazy thing is you look pretty by just being natural .... I wonder if this will make you feel better or make you believe it...
I don't even know who gets me to your video since its about ugliness which is something I don't believe in at all. I'm a man and I see you as a unique and beautiful girl.
I know a lot of people already told you this and there’s no point in reiterating it but your not ugly. And this is coming from a straight guy. Your not a 10/10 in looks but your certainly not close to ugly either. Your honestly pretty attractive. Perhaps the reason why no one has asked you out before is because your indoors a lot. Also since you have no social circle the potential of you meeting someone also lowers. And you have to take into account most us men are more afraid than we have ever been in history to cold approach women for a number of reasons. So the lack of people approaching you isn’t necessarily a reflection on you. And lastly yes you are not going to be everyone’s type. If you were truly ugly, I’d be real with you and comment it. But your not, your just insecure. And your observations are right. More attractive people male and female do get treated better. It’s not just women. Unfortunately that’s how our psychology works through years of evolution. There’s nothing you, I or anybody could do about this. And wether we realize it or not we likely do this subconsciously also, treating our more attractive peers better. It’s sincerely something the human brain cannot help, it’s ingrained in our dna. That being said, yes there is more of a emphasis on female beauty. This is because when it comes to male attraction, is men are more visual creatures in the initial stages of attraction. That being said I sincerely do not think you are incapable of attracting a guy. I’ve seen women uglier than you attract someone. And the reason why you may be receiving some hate in the comments is because they probably think your seeking/fishing for attention and validation by stating your ugly when in reality you aren’t. But personally I don’t think this about you. Like I said your body language and everything about you screams, “I am insecure!”
@@lesleycronin832 So the men are looking for women without brain just for only to reproduce wow 🤔 But the low iq women might not cook better than intelligent men and women
I really do appreciate this video. Thank you for sharing.I never dated a woman based on looks. Woman are much more deeper then that... Whats in the heart is what really matters. God bless you, you are beautiful..
My friend you look like those girls who typically look a bit nerdy in high-school, but will glow up tremendously. I can already see your pretty features, when your braces fix your teeth then you'll have a beautiful smile, your skin will clear up, you have nice lips, a nice nose, nice jaw structure. You're not an ugly person at all, but you will become beautiful.
Not trying to be mean at all here but everyone in the comments saying she is conventionally pretty or hot is just delusional, wouldn't say she is super ugly though
Girl, you are pretty. How tall are you? You can model if you’re tall enough. Girl, they are lying. They want to lower your self-esteem and your confidence. Whenever you see a bully, think psycho, and keep them out of your face. They are psycho. Think crazy person.
You're beautiful ❤, you know we curse ourselves to think these things. Stop saying that about yourself be strong. You where bullied because you're pretty they're jealous but they can see you're sensitive. Wolves will pounce on soft people just smile even when your hurt make them more jealous and try saying your pretty. Don't let people label you, find it in yourself love your attributes and beauty but don't be boastful because that's what bullies are.
When I was little my gramma told me makeup, trendy clothes, etc are more about our confidence than others opinions. And more important beauty is just like wealth, you don’t have to be super rich to be happy, just not poor, so you don’t have to be the prettiest girl in school, if you’re not ugly you’ll be fine 🍓🍓🍓😊
