Silence Is How You P*nish Women 

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Women dont cry when they cheat, they cry when they get caught

“A wise man once said nothing”

When my ex cheated, she wanted me to yell at her, she wanted me to cheat on her, she even told me to hit her! I just sat silently until she had finished talking and was sitting there crying. I got up and left without saying a word.

Even a fool is counted as wise when he holds his tongue.

Fellas, if you get cheated on, stay silent with her, but don't bottle up your emotions, speak to your friends, the ones you trust.

Arguing with women in most cases is just a big waste of time

Just caught my gf chatting and flirting with other guy, sent her the screenshot then never answered her calls after 1 day i blocked her on social media accounts. And moved on. This video is on point and never been on time. You’re a man, don’t let her control you and disrespect you. It is what it is. Nice vid liked and subs!

A female friend at uni once told me something that upset me a lot, and I immediately stepped away from her and ignored her all day. By the time we got to the last lecture of the day she was wracked with guilt, fighting to get my attention back. Another time, my ex refused sex when we were in bed and started complaining about something; I just turned away from her and she immediately panicked and got on top of me. Another time, a female friend in class who'd just gotten a new boyfriend was making me uncomfortable by continuing to act very touchy with me as she used to do when single, so I sat further away and put my bag between us. When she realized I was pulling away on purpose she looked so insecure I even felt a little bit guilty. Ignoring a woman who expects your attention is 100% the best way to handle behavior you don't like. And if your woman is being good, make sure you give her enough attention, because it's kind of shitty to let her feel insecure for no reason - many relationships were ruined when the man took his woman for granted.

Silence is the noblest way of expressing contempt.

"The best revenge is a life well lived"

The innocence you lose, as a man, when you are cheated on, is only lost once. It is an epiphany, the beginning of a new epoch. Your life, your thought process, and your actual consciousness is altered, the old you is gone, the new you is awakened. Your life is marked by the before, and the after, that one event becoming a marker of time. And you will never be the same as you were. And no woman will ever have that power over you again. It is fundamental to the story of the hero. You must experience the tragedy, to become the man you were destined to be. So embrace it, you are being forged.

Arguing with a woman is like arguing with a drunk.

Stay silent Introverts: it's like I was born for this

best response was a man learned his girlfriend was cheating him so he sent her on a surprise vacation for a few weeks and while she was away he sold everything including the house... closed all her accounts and cards ...showed the evidence to all family and friends ....and blocked her from all forms of communication with him .....she came back homeless, broke, shunned by family and friends.... . my man's literally took away her entire world ...dude is a legend

Silence is a form of wisdom, yet few people practice it

Silence is full of answer. Some people don't deserve your words. They deserve your silence.

The greatest insult you can pay the man who steals your wife , is to allow him to keep her !

I learned this at an early age growing up with 6 sisters. When my sound logical arguments went nowhere against their irrationality I found my silence and distancing was far more effective. It drove them crazy.

The best punishment you can give a woman is to permanently ghost her. Leaving a woman in a suspended state of confusion with no closure is excruciatingly more painful to her because she cannot see your reaction and she's only left with her own thoughts and a mirror to look at herself and ask "what happened?" with no answer. I've done this to girls who still try and reach out for answers 30 years later to no avail. It haunts them for life.

"To allow her to just stew in the juice of her own moral decay".

Remain silent, and text her (in front of her) "tomorrow, you and your stuff are gone" (if you own the place), and if she owns the place, just move out without saying a thing. Don't stay with someone who cheats on you.

If your partner cheated they're probably high in narcissistic traits (most women are), they always feel entitled to cheat and justified so unfortunately they won't confront their own moral bankruptcy or inner demons when you stay silent, but it's a nice thought. They certainly won't validate you if you do voice yourself either... so yeah, still better to cut them off and stay quiet. My ex was diagnosed with narcissism, I knew what would hurt her most, when I discovered her cheating I calmly said "I don't mind sharing you with other men, we can have an open relationship, I'm going over to see (my ex she was highly jealous of) tonight, I'll see you in the morning, baby" ... it destroyed her grandiose false sense of self, how dare I be willing to share someone so great! It made her feel worthless... she was DEVASTATED!

My wife divorced me 8yrs ago,Never spoke to her since that day,I Walked away,it’s was hard but went through the emotions without her seeing me hurting,now it’s the best decisions I ever made,You want it over,I will decide how over it is.

Remember. The opposite of love isn't hatred. Its indifference. Not acknowledging someone's existence is one of the most powerful things you can do.

My girl: Lets get kinky i want you to punish me Me: .....

This is true my ex broke up with me I ignored her after that. And never said a word to her again. And she hated my guts for doing this. Even her friends give me the worst look ever as if I broke up with her.

This only works if she still has feelings for you. And a lot of the time when a women cheats, she has already checked out of the relationship.

when I was together with my last girlfriend she still had a friendship with her ex and I had nothing against that, after all we are adults and she can meet whoever she likes. I trusted her that nothing will happen since she asured me that and becasue she ended the relationship with him on her part and moved on. one day however she confessed to me, that she did sleep with him once the day before and that she was sorry and it never happens again, etc. we met up in a pub. when she saw me she came running over trying to hug me, I didn't return the hug and made it visable, I am no longer on a "lover's level" with her and spoke just formaly, like with a colleague from work. we ate something and I told her, that it was over. simple as that, no hard feelings on my part. she cried and asked how to make things up again, but I just explained to her, that I already had put trust in her before but obviously made a wrong decision with that, as she betrayed that trust and that it's not something someone can just "make up for". After the meal I payed for us both, sayed my goodbye and left.

Little advice from Russia. Let me tell you something universal. Emotions. Whole woman's life (thoughts, actions) ruled by emotions and instincts. And she seeks for emotions. Always. Bad or good. Absolutely doesn't matter. If you start agruing with woman you start feeding her with emotions. Start delivering what she needs and becoming a small praying insect in her eyes. Is that what you want? Remember that. Respect yourself. Be a Man. And your life will become simple and wonderful. Have a nice day and stay reasonable.

I can vouch for that. In my experience there are two things that drive them nuts. One is rejecting her and choosing not to have a relationship when there is no other woman when one is not gay. The second is, just like you say, remaining silent. It often triggers a terrible insecurity in them. It's one of my guilty pleasures.

I recently, after 30 years of marriage, discovered this is 100% true. Problem with women is, I am sure men are the same, If you treat them like gold, they are indifferent to you, but if you are quiet, all of a sudden it is as if they try more. It's like why can't you put this effort in when I am treating you right so I don't have to resort to games.

The biggest regret a woman has when she is caught cheating is exactly that. She regrets that she got caught cheating and nothing else.

I ghosted my cheating Ex...4 months later she realized I stopped trying and called crying "how come you don't call me anymore?". 2 Years after that she saw me holding hands with another girl (my current wife - we were just dating at the time) The look on her face....priceless.

I know a girl that's been stalking my mate for over a year at this point because he went silent. It literally drives them insane.

"She belongs to the streets" Corey Wayne

Would James Bond yell at or shame a woman? He'd just quietly go about his business.. be like Bond.

I absolutely love the phrasing of this: “It is the cleanest punishment... To stew in the juices of her own moral decay.” Beautiful!

Wow, wish I had seen this last year! My ex wife cheated on me within the first year of marriage. I eventually gave her the silent treatment once she told me for sure she was done. The day we signed and notarized the papers, I did not say a word to her. That was the first day I think I saw regret in her eyes after finding out a month earlier. Before that, she had tried to blame everything on me which pissed me off. So glad that relationship ended. It was embarrassing, but I moved passed it.

Absolutely 100% correct. Do NOT communicate. My story: My wife of 15 years started an affair even though we had never fought. I won't bore you with the minutia of this marriage, but suffice it to say that I never cheated, yelled at her, threatened her, etc. We had some financial troubles and I admit to getting depressed during this time. I never took it out on her. My first indication of her cheating was when she got a colossal raise from her boss. You can connect the dots from here. She soon announced that she was leaving, when we finished watching a movie at home. No argument, just an announcement. It hit me like a ton of bricks. She just moved out and a few months later wanted "marriage counseling". I correctly surmised that this was only for her to try an alleviate her conscious by trying to justify her leaving without telling me the truth. However, she did not know that two acquaintances, not close friends but people who obviously respected me, came forward to tell me of this affair once they found out about how I was headed to divorce court. They held their tongue before, but didn't want me to get destroyed in court. During the "marriage counseling" I confronted her on the affair. I didn't yell, I just stated how I found out and had never in my life been betrayed like that. Upon leaving, the councilor (a woman actually) made sure to come up and tell me in private that it was ok for me to feel anger towards her. The fact remains that I never spoke to her again. All communication was through my lawyer. In the last two years since, she has tried to communicate with me over stupid crap. During the divorce she offered to pay me $200/mo for dog support. Me: silence. She emailed me to tell me that I could get better car insurance. Me: silence. She sent me an email with a link to cheaper internet providers. Me: silence. She continues to text me, email, forward mail to me with notes, etc. Me: silence. I found out that she is now seeking therapy. To be honest, I don't hate her. I just do not care about her anymore. I can't afford to care. I am moving on. She can pickup the pieces to her own wrecked life. I owe her nothing.

There is nothing more satisfying than saying nothing and seeing things unfold.

She wants you to react because she likes the chaos. Which is also why she cheated. Toss her aside, don’t offer her closure or to “talk about it.” She will try, but do not take the bait! It’s not even about punishing her, it’s about you cutting the crap out of your life. After that, it’s time to self-reflect.

Silence makes them go insane. Just look at the quarantine situation with covid 19. Women are in tears when faced with actual solitude.

What's great is when they try to give you the silent treatment, and that's hardly a punishment

Never waste your words on someone who deserves your silence. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all.

Being silent actually isn't taught because it's too OP of a move.

Classic line: oh, he's just a friend.

I did this to my ex and actually never spoke to her after we separated. I even blocked her number as soon as we separated. The crazy thing is that she worked at a large corporate headquarters were I trained over the summer for the same company. One day she saw me walking down the large hallway. This complex houses about 20k employees. We both made eye contact and even though I hadn't seen her in a couple of years my anger and rage re-ignited instantly but I said nothing and kept walking by as if nothing happened. When I got back to my desk I saw that she messaged me using the company's Skype and had the nerve ask me how I was doing. I never replied and that was the last time I heard from her. None of it was planned and I acted purely based on emotion. But the point for me is that we had an agreement and made a commitment to each other that we would never be unfaithful but yet she did it anyway. We were going through some difficult times but I find that is no excuse to be unfaithful and brake a promise of such magnitude with your live-in partner. At times I have wondered how she feels about the situation but the truth is that I don't care enough to ever contact her. I could never trust a person like that again and I want nothing to do with her.

That's exactly what happened with my ex fiancee when she tried to play hard to get and blocked me to seek revenge (I've had dumped her 2 weeks ago back then before getting back together). I was still attached to her but resisted the urge to reach out. She acted passive and I blocked her back after a week. Months later, her mom contacted my mom blaming her for not asking about her daughter, and told her that her daughter lost 20 pounds. I was laughing at this point because she was waiting for me to contact her or something to feed her ego but I gave her 0 attention.

Also consider that anger is a sign of weakness. "The nearer a man is to calm the closer he is to strength." - Marcus Aurelius Your silence is also an indicator that you're strong and don't require her company anymore.

Alexander, I quote 1000%. Men cannot get more satisfaction to see the same woman who abused of him after some years later… and see how THE TIME transformed her body... TIME is the most powerful judge. So gents, no one bad word, just stay silent.

Silence is key. Once you walk away NEVER call back, they take it as you still need them, weakness,ect... If you need an explanation dig deep inside yourself you will find the answer.

Old saying: Speech is silver, silence is golden

Women need closure in every relationship. Staying silent does a few things; it denies them closure and it tells them you don't care about the relationship. It's a power move. Great advice.

Can't wait for my gf to cheat on me to use your method, thx Alexander.

If she cheats on you, you stay silent permanently.

This is extremely good advice for an effective response to any misconduct in a personal relationship, not only in the context of infidelity. 10/10

I absolutely am amazed how none of the comments was about that girls face. well done boys!

This advice comes from the Masculine Trait called Stoicism.

You're 100% correct! The one time I was cheated on I cut her off, wouldn't respond to her calls or texts and hung out with other women to keep my mind off her. It drove her nuts to the point that she came by my house and the timing was perfect because I was leaving with a girl 5 times as gorgeous as her. I looked right through her as she walked up to my car, looked away as I rolled up our windows, started my car and drove out of the driveway and on my way 🤣 She was leaving voicemails crying and texting me begging for me to forgive her ETC. Being a young fool, instead of completely cutting her off I told her I would never be with her again and all she could offer me was sexual favors...period. I think she thought she could win me back that way so she obliged. I used her for what she was worth for almost a year until one day I decided to commit to another girl I was seeing (was honest with the other girl about everything) and told her I was now in a relationship and her time had come to an end. I did get to the bottom of it and she was mad because I was on my purpose as far as a path of music and one night she was trying to get me to flake on my band and not go to the studio. I nicely told her I would see her the next night and left her house...there were a few people there and she ended up getting drunk and in anger slept with some dude haha. Talked to her many years later and she still said I was the best she ever had and that was the biggest mistake she ever made. Long story long, you're spot on. Silence and let them writhe as you plan your exit...do it on your terms when they've done you wrong but do not get sucked back into a relationship!

My ex was being toxic and viscous towards the end. I punished her with the silent treatment for a few days. She claimed that was one of the main reason she ended it. I know now that I'm lucky it ended.

If she's right: She stays on the point. If she's wrong: She does everything to destroy you.

Funny because in Buddhism we say silence is to the soul as sleep is to the body. Silence speaks volumes. And if it hurts you there is something dark in your soul.

Hypergamy doesn't care, the sooner you accept it the better off you will be brothers.

I wasn't cheated on, I got flaked on. But I still went silent. She didn't appear to care about my silence, so...meh. Silence will do.

Reminds me of a post I read a few months ago on Reddit's r/adultery. The thing that the woman was most shocked about was that when the husband found out about the infidelity he calmly showed her a picture of her with other man and said absolutely nothing and moved on with his life. She was absolutely devastated

The classic answer: "It depends"...

“Stew in the juice of her own moral decay”. Poetic.

If you want to succeed in a relationship give her attention when she does something good and make sure to ignore her if she does something you dontl like

Pimp Bible by Future Chapter 1 From the streets did she emerge; and to the street she will return. And I say unto you, " *She is for the streets* " So be not weary when she must return from whence she came. Amen

This video came 2 months too late. I'll do that next time.

Well, I was pretending a girl, she always accepted to go out, but in the end she always came with an excuse, (9 times). So in December of the last year, I told we need to spoke, it was important to me. She again said a day to meet up, but then just before the day, she said she had to work. I answered that it was really important for me. She said no again. Then I told her it's better to leave it then, good luck in the job and take care of yourself were my last words. She said her intention wasn't to upset me, I didn't answer, She wrote to me the next week if I was still mad (with a smiling funny face). I didn't answer. It's been a month, I haven't answered, and I'm not planning to write to her o talk to her. Things died that day she didn't care it was important to me. In the end, I don't know if silence is a demonstration of power, but the only thing I know: I can get better women who actually take things seriously.

Women punish other women with silence, it makes perfect sense to deal with her in a way she already understands. I have found that for me the two best ways to move on from cheating women are, 1: with a woman I never had to see again- I said "goodbye" and I made that the very last time I initiated a conversation with her, then I forgot about her. Eight years later when we met again by accident, I didn't recognise her at all and she actually had to tell me who she was. I have rarely seen anyone so completely devestated. 2: with three women who I couldn't avoid due to work or mutual friendships, I laughed and said "hey, let's just be friends". Then treated them as just one of the guys. Then I got on with my life right in front of them as though they weren't there. I made no effort to see them again individually, only ever as part of a wider group. I never talked about our relationships and avoided or cut short being alone with them. They had lost the right to my time or any intimacy. Most importantly I never complimented them, touched them or acknowledged them as females & I always bought them a pint (or something manly) whenever I saw them, to show that there were no hard feelings and reinforce the message that they were now, just one of the guys. My reaction to their new boyfriends was always, "hey nice to meet you buddy (smile, handshake), can I get you a beer?". Then I would move on with my day. None of these women have any reason to be angry at me, everyone knows what they did. If they do have anger they have never had a stage on which to articulate that anger towards me that wouldn't leave them looking like bad people. All of them know that I have totally forgiven them but at the same time there is no path to reconciliation any of them are brave enough to set foot upon. Because women are usually emotionally timid and extremely lazy within romantic relationships. The smart ones know precisely what I did but can't do or say anything about it. If you treat your ex as though she has no power over you she soon won't have.

Women have evolved to attract attention from men, silence is dreadful to a woman because she failed to even get a single word out of you.

Agree that silence is effective, but the only appropriate response to cheating is immediate termination of any romantic relationship. A woman only cheats if she neither loves nor respects you - and the cheating is just irrefutable proof there's no coming back from that.

Firstly I want to say that even though my ex cheated. It’s been years now so I wish her the best (I mean that). However 😂😂. Guys I am telling you that Alex is spot on. If someone cheats on you. Silence is GOLDEN!. After I found out what she did (whilst on holiday with my mum), I returned to our home whilst she was at work and packed up every single item of mine and left the home, as I knew she was hoping to see me in pain or to have an argument etc. I did not block her on social medias etc but I chose absolute silence on all platforms. Long story short, at one point she sent me 100 messages in the space of 10 mins. Yes this sounds mean, but she needed to reflect on what she had done and it was not my job (and it’s not yours) to do so. By the time a few months had gone by, she was telling people I barely knew, to call her and text her back. At one point this guy was like “it’s actually starting to get annoying, she clearly wants you back”. Anyway, good luck to you all !

My ex broke up with me When I was in 1yr of college..then when I came back after summer in 2nd year I started ignoring her and she thought she could be my friend..so she tried to find numerous excuses to talk to me but whenever she did that I used to ignore the sight of her and pretend that I can't even see her...no acknowledgement of her existence around me...she became tired one day and started crying infront of me..but I didn't even flinch..so yeah silence really makes girls go mad..

Woman who cheats never ever take her back, it's done, move on

me watching this even though i never had a girlfriend lol

I would like to add - be very careful if you're dealing with a narcissist. Even if you are successful with the method mentioned in this video and you feel you have gone past the pain and its time to collect data, a narcissist will seize the opportunity of you reaching out and flip the whole situation into their favor. Before you know it, all your emotional buttons are being pushed. It's happened to me and a bunch of people i know. Be very very well prepared if you truly do intend on collecting data. Narcissists can create havoc with the slightest input from you and before you know it, they have re-gained their power over you and all those months worth of work is gone down the drain. I can not stress this enough - BE CAREFUL.

I was just having this conversation with my friend this morning. Glad I came across your video.

silence is the language of gods.

I'm 50 and in my experience (both personal and observed), if someone is unfaithful sexually they will be unfaithful in all facets in a relationship (Lie, cheat,steal). Remaining in those relationships is a mistake . Whatever reasoning they used to convinced themselves that their actions were justified, they will use them again. Don't put yourself in a position to be used again. As painful as a break up is on top of the cheating , you'll be better off in the long run.

Silence was the best move in this situation, sadly i realised this very later on. After I got cheated on, it wasn't like she was hiding it she kept it hidden for like 2-3 months and then one day I got home she intentionally posted this "another guy" on insta. Then we had a conversation and in that ofc i was full of different emotions and wasn't in control so as he said in the video i did the same. I said and said and keep saying everything that comes to my mind to gain control. After doing all that for 1 hour or so ig, I stopped talking and from there i never talked to her again. But all i said on that day helped her to convince herself that she was the victim. Matter of fact she was already feeling like she was the victim when we had our last conversation. Well it has been 4 months and we didn't spoke another word to each other. I find his advice to talk to ex-girlfriend very helpful and i hope i would be able to do that someday too

This applies to anytime a woman wrongs you. You IMMEDIATELY REMOVE what she craves, YOUR ATTENTION. Woman enjoy any attention, to a degree. So, even anger is still attention, and anger actually shows her how much you care. SILENCE is your best weapon as a man. Your ATTENTION is currency.

Don't forget that ignoring someone can be as painful as physical violence.

Gentlemen trust what he says, especially when you’ve been wronged by someone ( woman, or not ), is correct. Stay silent or stoic in your being during adversity. This can be applied to everything in life not just when you’ve been wronged by a woman.

That’s the best advice I’ve heard in a long time. It does hurt, I’ve been there a couple of times but I just walked away, didn’t argue, didn’t try to get in touch apart from seeing the children. It ensured I kept my self respect and let her think I wasn’t hurt, it drove her crazy

Women hate silence. It will drive them crazy never knowing what you thought or felt. And DON’T FORGET some WANT TO HURT YOU AND KNOW IT.

My gf and I were together for 16 years, had a kid and moved in together early on. On a Friday night she left while I was sleeping, took my 5 yr old daughter with her, and began dating a guy from her workplace Monday after the weekend. I consulted a lawyer immediately to obtain the best possible actions I could take to ensure that custody would not be stacked against me. As soon as possible I was told to establish a dual household custody agreement while Seperation was happening. Courts look at the months following a breakup to determine what the child is now used to as they want to keep things as stable for them... so if you wait for a court fight they may side with the woman because the child has been with her for the last few months primarily. When we went to sell the house, she was set on going in and labeling colored dots on all the furniture and stuff that we had to determine who wanted what. That weekend I went into the house, loaded up the furniture and tv I brought with me to the house then informed her that everything else in the house, 95% of its contents were hers to do with what she wanted. I kept nothing attached to her, not one photo. All I wanted was an even split on the house sale. With that, I was done. For the sake of my daughter I maintain standard relations with my ex when our kid is there. After that, though, I'm fine not even knowing if shes alive or dead. She is no longer occupied space in my life.

I've cut all communication with a girl (she didn't cheat, just caught on a lie). A week passes and all she managed to sqeeze out of herself is: "Have I done something wrong?". To which my reply was: "Are you wondering whether you've done something wrong or do you know that you have and just don't know which one I have discoved" She said the latter. First of all, silence definetely was crucifying for her. Secondly, I got my answers and am now completely assured this person has done bad for me, many times, I just don't know ;)

This is the quintessential explanation of how and why this tactic is so powerful. Great work bro....👍🏾

I was cheated on before, and when I discovered it, she had the audacity to expect me to want to fight for her. Lol. I told her I'd give her a ride over to his place where she can stay.

Seriously, this video describes exactly what happened to me just weeks ago. I should have kept my mouth shut.

I completely agree with your analysis. The way that I think about it is this: who is the judge? Is it a third party? No. Do I need to convince her that she is wrong? No. I am the judge. And if I am the judge, then I don't need to include her in the argument. I simply make up my mind whether or not she if worth keeping around. And if I decide that she is not worth keeping her around, then I simply drop her without an explanation.

Nothing punishes more than silence. (Coming from a female) Even when the silence isnt about some bad thing that happened, when a man never says much in general, it really hurts.

She fears more the judgement's insider her own head than whatever words you might have. Anger, disappointment, resentment or rationality... All four of them, she would be more armed for than holding your silence. Sound advice in general, and really reminds me of that old saying that we fear more the monsters we imagine than the ones we meet.

Hmm that's actually what I did was stay silent. She ended up with the guy. She would call when they would fight and wanted me to express myself and I wouldn't. They are unhappily married now. I have moved on and am happy now. She has called me when he was out of town. I thought about it for a brief period but decided I'm not going to help her have an excuse for her already ruined relationship. Plus she's just looking for a dopamine release. Even though I've forgiven her and let go. admittedly there is a small sadistic part of me enjoying taking the high road knowing her current situation. I told her to get couples therapy lol. I feel bad for their kid though

When I was 15, I believed that men should live for women, be the providers etc, growing in a house with conservative parents, it was the only thing I knew. God bless the internet that helped me grow the right way and forget about my parents. I am now 17, never had a gf because of my shyness, but now I see that it's for the best. Videos like this taught me that I need to focus on myself and on my career, relationships come after successfullness. If I ever find a good woman I may marry her and have kids. But if I don't, I won't try to force it on me. Whatever happens, happens.

This channel is a relique I wish I have seen this channel in those years where I lacked experienced! Tottally STOIC! On point