The Surprising Way to Become Instantly More Attractive (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy) 

yeah, I noticed it too strightaway, but was too lazy to note it down, so thank u, I'll just copy ur comment :D

The converse is also true. I know a very attractive, successful man that recently admitted that he sometimes struggles with depression. I warmed to him much more because of that.

Yes Girl. Me overweight too, I feel like no one will ever want me,MY ENTIRE LIFE . Just put yourself out there. I start online dating couple months a go, and only get good feedback and meet nice people.

The JESSIE D Techniques my insecurity is I am overweight too. I agree loose weight because you want to. I’m loosing weight mainly for my health. When I was young I was thin and pretty. It’s not all that it’s cracked up to be. Someone will always criticise you know matter what you look like.

Own it! Stop justifying yourself!

You go girl!

I'm happy you've come to that realization. I truly hope you keep that momentum going and continue to believe in your value. I"ve been telling myself that for 5 years now. While I have a personal trainer now, and my goal once to be realized until next May, I'm finding success. It comes from making that conscious decision that I am worth the investment whatever that might be. I feel good about me, not for losing weight, but for committing to a lifestyle that is going to let me live longer, and has shown me that this determination and integrity carry into my other personal and professional aspirations. Fuck yea man!!

Well jameson does xD

Haha thought the same!

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same

Kit Kitren did you even listen to the actual words he's saying or are you just trolling because of the tittle of the video and some need for attention. I really do invite you to listen to it because what he is saying is exactly what you are trying to comunicate but with less violent questioning. He says you know what? Just fucking be you and accept who you are today and own it and fuck the rest of the world and the need to finger point. He invites of all as to stop justifying who we are and what we do and just be present and let it all out there. The critics, the pointing, the questioning is negative energy we should learn to stop from making us insecure and self destructive. So there, that's your answer and is exactly why this video is ok.

Well make up you mind then. As long as I can see you where the one "traveling the Internet looking for women to fuss at". If you don't want answers don't ask questions.

Lilibutter lol same tho

omg yes! so wish this was on a cd or iTunes.

+TheUniverseKiss that's so wonderful

congratulations!

You are on the leading edge of creating a new paradigm for people everywhere.

+bijou bijoux I could say the same about you mate. Look in the mirror, you'll prove me right. c:

bijou bijoux, i have pity for you

I am alone and have a dreams that are unrealistic to obtain with out a partnership of like minded I have 0 support from family members or significant other who had a life he no longer shares or supports anything I say or believe he has completely lost his interest in me . I am 59 years old and looking at homelessness in my near future with no options for I have the desire to own my own laundromat but unable to afford the cost of start up location has been available for a successful future but I just couldn't move forward since the pandemic and all the events following up to date 8 deaths in my inner circle noncovid

yeah but youre still an awesome human and plus size is also attractive (as fuck). people in that age group more so expect people to have kids anyway. I am 28 and it I already have younger friends who either have a kid or date a person with a kid or kids. andddddd it just means you have a sexy curfew to abide by;) I think the fact that you feel your happiest ever is not only super attractive but also means you have soooo much potential in so many different meanings of the word! and, eevn when I get out of a 1-2 year serious relationship, I too feel self-conscious about putting myself out there. I am alays afraid I'll end up with some douche who doesn't compare to my ex, but those douchebags are just the practice rounds to help me figure out my dating strategies. try lunch time dates and coffee dates for starters!!!! or walks and picnics in public/touristy areas because quarantine.

Well you have all that but for sure I see a beautiful face on your profile pic. I'm sure you will find your good guy

Why do you want to date again? Enjoy your solitude. Learn to love yourself, love is within you

You DONT How many things working against you go for take the first step with you and God it’s a partnership your part to put yourself out there you don’t have to know all the answers just do it it

@@ThePrivet18 because she wants to? I’m 44 and starting to date again. Lol, you can love and validate yourself and still want romantic partnerships.... Why would you ask her ‘ why she wants to date ‘ when you are here watching a dating video yourself. Why do you want to date? I imagine she wants to date for the same reasons you do. Sounds like you’ve watched a lot of these videos and now you’re in the comments section trying to spew out what you’ve been listening to 😂🙄

Alex Do ME TOOOOO

maybe. Own that imaginary friend!!

He's real! I've heard him and have seen parts of him like an arm..

Alex Do lol wouldnt it be creepy if whenever to go to show Jamison, it just pans over to a body length mirror.

Chris Hanline no it can't be Jameson is his second personality lol

Chris Hanline 😂😂😂😂

Lmaoo

xD

Jameson is real. www.jamesonwhiskey.com

But, you know what, Bruna? He's attractive because he's unassuming. He's not a snob and he doesn't think he's "all that." That's what makes him attractive.

Bruna Mendes loooooollll yes!!!! plz hahah

I interpreted this as "How to get Matthew Hussey to be into you”

LOL, is there a waiting list we can get on?

lol

Me :(

Me!!!

me too!

me :-)

Me too. 💜❤️💜❤️

+Hannah V the One you see in the video😊

well, he is white. that helps

+Lorem Ipsum what does it have to be with being white? whites are not my type, yet he still has got game soooo... why bring race into this?

That accent makes him even more charming.

the one that shows up after a few glasses of whiskey

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Or a sweetheart/partner ... and he doesn't want to break hundreds of female hearts ... out here ... His confidence, here, truly did make him more attreactive!

Don't work so hard at it. Instead of trying so much just show up as yourself. Less is more. Believe it will happen and eventually you will meet the one. Don't focus on the fact you haven't got second dates or a long-term relationship. Focus on the fact you're about to have them. There's someone out there for everyone. Good luck ♡

I definately agree with Lola:) Just be your beautiful self. Next time think are they impressing you. Change your mindset you have to impress them. It has to be both ways, meaning to connect and enjoy each others company :)

Katrina Hobart he was trying to punish you for rejecting him. What a jerk. He definitely does not deserve one more minute of thought.

But you are chubby, I can see that in the picture. Own it

I would’ve replied with: Many men love chubby women, good to know you’re not one of them. Good luck to you out there :)

@@DianaThermopolis Well, he obviously DID want to see her again, so the chubby comment was just a sour grapes phenomenon.

Gina McDonald Imperfections make us unique and totally perfect in the way we live our lives...we are greater and more precious than what we think we are !!! I am 54, I have wrinkles. I also have imperfect vision so I don't see my wrinkles and I don't worry about them because then I would only get more of them !!! LOL

+FluffyPinkGlam EXACTLY!

+FluffyPinkGlam WHO ARE YOU PERSON?!

Or voice even

Jameson is a crappy Irish whiskey. You should drink the real stuff Matthew, Scotch Whisky, without the added E.

hahaha i can't wait to see him too

I can relate to this so much.

I understand you and it makes total sense. What I have learned is that being scared and doing it anyway is what works best...And how do you do this in real life? Leaders, people with great communication skills, great attitude and amazing capacity to take over in any circumstances, they don't know it all either, but they know that nobody knows it all, so they use what they have, exactly where they are, right away. They make this a habit, so they never allow themselves to overthink things. And the interesting thing you come to realize is that the fear and discomfort soon become fuel for passionately being more of who you really are. You can lead even when you are really bad at something. Let me give you an example, a very physical one, one that doesn't just talk about the fear caused by overthinking, but also about the true danger it can cause: I am scared of water, don't get me wrong, I love water, I am a piscean astrologically speaking, but there was a time when I was sooo scared of possibly drowning that my brain would get completely numb. However, I went to swimming classes several times in my life, and once I almost drowned. Yup! Not because of my physical condition(i am a fitness trainer), or because I didn't know how to swim, but because I was overthinking constantly, I couldn't be 100% present, I would constantly think of the possibility of losing my cool in the water and not knowing what to do...But those were also some of the most beautiful days in my life, cause I could feel everybody's support to the point where I became the strongest there, my fear never really left, but I got to learn how to stay focused in the moment and swim like a pro even if I was actually scared. Everybody else thought I was so great, I became the example, they all wanted to know how I could conquer my mind, nobody could see beyond my courage and skill...but I knew at the end of the day that it was both: courage and fear working together. So...it makes no sense to think of things that make no sense...Just do the things you love and always remember that you must do those things that scare you in particular, cause those are the ones that take down your inner "China walls", your biggest boundaries, the fixed ideas you have built within, knowingly or unknowingly. I believe life is not about learning/adding to, but more about constantly undressing ourselves to the point of absolute vulnerability....and about being comfortable with all of it. Freedom is not about knowing it all, but about accepting that we never get to know it all in this universe where everything is constantly expanding in utter interdependence. Freedom is a deep understanding and acceptance of the fact that control is just an illusion, a mind game...this mind game, of course, mirrors itself in many ugly ways in our surrounding environment. Therefore... one cannot gain, nor lose control, one can only change perception, abort a game all together(any mind game) and focus on a more constructive layer of life or at least on more positive possible outcomes. As Wayne Dyer used to say: "when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change". I should stop ranting...they say we always speak what we need to hear anyway, not what others want and need... so maybe i'm only talking for myself 😷😋...However, hope you're having a great time these days, sending good vibes your way!🙂🤗

No one truly boring and stupid would consider themselves boring and stupid. Just like no one truly insane would agree they are crazy. I belive you are not boring or stupid.

sandy/I/see Never be ashamed of having wonderful parents and living with them and enjoying them! Many people aren't that fortunate. They have parents that they couldn't wait to get away from when they became 18! Enjoy that relationship!

You are so blessed to have great parents! I have a wonderful mom but not a good step dad, he gave my twin sister and I a bad time and told us we were out of the house when we turn 18 and was always yelling at us! We were good kids too. I was shy and quiet and never went out a lot! I had to move home again and I love being with my mom because I am getting lots of memories that I would not ever have! God bless

sandy/I/see I live with my mum, cuz I'm 22.

That’s cool! You are a happy one))

I love my parents to death but I want to live on my own.. just to grow more independent and all

GinaG the first paragraph was powerful

GinaG u might have an overly sensitive personality as i do, we feel the good and the bad too strongly, we might think we are depressesd, but we are not, we just feel more strongly than others do, our inner worlds are a bit deeper than other's, and we tend to get lost in it at times. But i tend to enjoy those deep gloomy feelings specially after i knew i was a highly sensitive person. U can look this up and if u feel its true for u as well it can help u alot because it did for me 🤷🏼‍♀️ best wishes.

GinaG 👏👏👍

GinaG that is strong, you go girl ❤️

I'm a dude and I'm sorta like that too

I'm so happy for you. But make sure you're doing it for yourself and not for anyone else❤️❤️

Awe thank you for ur kind words!!😊😘yes absolutely!!!😁

I'm overweight :(

darkfawn A guy I was dating recently had also just had a very stressful time and had psoriasis all over his face and his body. He goes to hospital three times a week for treatment and has a light thingy he puts his face in for twenty minutes three times a week at home. He had it when I met him and he was and still is super hot! I wouldn't change it on him even if he would. There is something deeper that draws me too him despite him being self conscious about it. I don't even notice it and I don't care about it either. Good luck with your guy :)

darkfawn That's really beautiful. Also, eczema is often actually an allergic reaction to wheat/gluten. When I take out gluten, my eczema goes away. So, I keep gluten out, as you can imagine. But when I do eat it, the next day I get eczema under my eyes. So, there a trick. You can be free! (And still own yourself) Love.

Confidence is SEXY.

You, your pretty proboscis, and your poem all made me smile. :)

MissAshleyPants Thank you ! quite loving my Romanesque nose ! Happy It made you smile ....keep saying the poem,.. it works ! :)

¡Qué bonta soy! ¡Qué bonita soy! ¡Cómo me quiero! Me moriría sin mi (o: "sin mi, muero"), ¡Qué bonita soy! Please use proper grammar.

Did you use google translate? :)

laura v No.. that is how it is supposed to be said... how it was written ... it was not written grammatically correct on purpose, to make it a bit funnier.

ThirdWorld Style I decide that once I see him naked.. lolll

+ThirdWorld Style hotter than TRUMP?! how is that possible?

ThirdWorld Style agreed!!!

yes... kinda makes you wonder why he got a spray tan? :D

ThirdWorld Style truuuuuu

Same

me too

Debra Kelly, HAHA! I do, also, but I don't bother!!

same. especially from my face

Omg my skin is the same! I rarely get pimples on my face the rest of my skin is hypersensitive. I'm so glad that I'm not the only one.

Krystal Smart i'm glad i'm not the only one either! I have no idea what is causing it, but I cant let it control me anymore. Like wearing something sleeveless or strapless, or even a bathing suit!

I've been there. I have eczema and I'm also allergic to indoor allergens. I have to be very careful with what I expose my skin to.

heather leshay howard Eczema may be due to eating gluten. I need no gluten/dairy/soy/sugar/GMO...vitamins/good oil/minerals/detoxing, LDN which helps to block hidden gluten. Any food with a label may have hidden gluten and nuts not in the shell/meat basting/some spices etc. Gluten can cause leaky gut and allergies and lower nutrients absorbed. Fish oil, Mg, zinc, Vit C, probiotic, Vit B12 methylcobalamin under the tongue kind, Vit D3 5000IU, HCl and enyzmes with meals and more help me. Best wishes.

I thought I had eczema too. I developed this terrible rash all over the top of me feet that I had for months and I finally found out that I was allergic to my damn shoes!

I I'm really related of everything that you say, I mean it's like all the things that I wanted to post you did, hope you're doing great until now ✨

Wow! Your mum must be a VERY insecure person ... Wear a pony tail and no make up whenever you feel like it. She'll get used to and over it.You are beautiful anyways!

Oh! And become a trainer or whatever you like! Let no one hold you back. NO ONE

Aw thank you so much!! That is so true! This was very comforting💚❤️💚

DianeCrystal You are WELCOME! :-) Go, girl!

DianeCrystal shoot a girl with a pony tail in pjs and no make up or lipstick what so ever i never seen any girl in a photo like that that sounds attractive and romantic me being a guy that is

Richa Jain I feel the exact same way.. knowing that someone with the same insecurity as me is owning it makes me feel way better, glad i'm not alone in this! lol

I always use to worry what people thought of me. I came to learn that people are so focused on themselves that they don't see other people and who cares what people think about us?

Me too!

Richa Jain Me too, oh my god! But im also going to own it from now on! Thanks

AISHALVSMJ re reading my comment, and I do not apologise that it sounds overly poetic! :') ;) Thanks again.

+AISHAMJLUV I think you have a great smile :)

Being attractive does mean to be good looking. You can't wear a smile and be confident ALL THE TIME. It's just not possible.

The first half of that statement was great.

I think scars on faces are actually really attractive! There's just something about the imperfection that makes a person stand out and in a good way ;-)

Flic Coghlan My dear dear friend I am going to tell you, I find scars absolutely beautiful (I have quite a few myself, on my leg and on my hip) and my boyfriends have ALL loved my scars, and told me how beautiful they find them, because they are a part of my life story, and they come with a badass story of survival. You ARE BEAUTIFUL, not despite the scar, and not because of the scar, but because you are you. You should not be ashamed of your scar because it is something that is a part of your story, of what you went through. And I reiterate- YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE YOU ARE YOU, IMPERFECTLY PERFECT, ALIVE, HUMAN!

What gorgeous people you are! Thank you so much, reading these replies has filled me with more happiness than you would realise - much love xx

I have permanent dark circles too, I think it's hereditary, and I constantly got coments on them and my health, I was so self conscious about them I even though of getting surgery. Makeup helps a bit but you can still see them so now I've learn to love them and even think they are cute. Let's embrace the dark circles! :)

I agree! I love my dark circles!

***** Hey, Hajin! Yeah, I follow him because I like his philosophy about life.

I get this too, and people saying "you look tired" all the time. I'm not tired, THIS IS JUST MY FACE. Why does anyone even say that?! May as well say "you look like shit" and think it's sympathetic!

For me, some kids thought I was on drugs because of the circles. I used to get called names like raccoon and black-eyed (peas), and then they would say stuff like, "Shut up before I make your eyes even blacker!" God, kids can be so cruel.

Yuna Tang Sad that you didn’t feel beautiful before you had a husband to validate you.

@@amyjacquelineg.9541 what a negative way of looking at things. No one feels perfect all the time, but it's nice to meet someone who boosts how you feel about yourself. Hopefully you feel alright day to day and meet someone who makes life even better.

+Viviane Bossina you are completely right. and by the way, you look amazing and magnetic)

Anna Bernatska Thank you so much! :*

+Viviane Bossina I have the same issue. I was 19 when an ex pointed out I had stretch marks on my breasts. I had never weighed more than 104 lbs before that point and they weren't that big, so I didn't know how I got them. Other than that one person just pointing it out, I've never had any complaints. I don't think men care. They're just happy they get to see and touch them. :)

carrotsails And the ones who do, don't deserve to do either one of those things ;)

I love that outlook - "my body works hard taking care of my family". Lovely

Amina jay I'm too :(

Me too!

Me too! It is Holding me back so much.

I have the same problem. I look back at my old photos and see myself smile soo big but now I can't get myself to do it because I am embarrassed and insecure about it. It's not as bad as some but to me it's something that holds me back also. So I know how you feel, you're not the only one ♡

Coming from someone who cleans teeth for a living... I love a beautiful smile just like the next person but I have to tell you, I see straight teeth all the time and my favorites are the ones with characteristic imperfections. Don't hide your smile it's an amazingly unique attribute.

jessica thomas if a man finds you attractive and truly cares for you Instead of just having his way with you, then he will love your flaws. I've been with women that I care for and I've never had any problem with any part of their body. If I don't have feelings for a woman those flaws can't hide. Bottom line is that if your man has a problem with your stomach then he is either shallow or doesn't have feelings for you, either way move on and be happy and confident😉

Exactly what spray tan Matt had a spray tan!?

ObscureUniverse I didn't either!

ObscureUniverse Same here....lol. I also didn't notice that he looked skinnier until he just pointed it out. Sometimes others don't really notice the things that we are insecure about. As they say we are the worst critics of ourselves.

Thank you for this video. I really needed to hear this. I am very self conscious about being a bit overweight, I have scars throughout my body and face as well as dealing with thinning hair. It's been difficult to be okay with myself especially having been conditioned to think that as a woman I have to be thin to be sexy and beautiful, soft with radiant beautiful clear skin, beautiful thick and sexy long hair and basically look like a goddess. I know it's crazy but that's how I was conditioned since I was a very small child. 😕

Adrie Visser I love you

I have a disability too but it IS stopping me