Why Does This Woman Describe Herself As ''Special''? 

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She’s special, just like all the rest

"I'm grown, I'm grown," shrieks the woman having a temper tantrum like a three year old. The lack of self awareness is both alarming and highly entertaining.

She needs a millionaire to pay for her cheezburgerz. And oreos, and candybarz, and doritos, and ice cream, and....etc, etc, etc

she's 30+ pounds overweight, she's literally very average a 5 or maybe a 4 at best

As a single guy I see plenty of examples that fill me with JOMO but almost none that inspire FOMO. I can't point to any man I know and honestly say "his girlfriend/wife is what I want" but plenty where I'd rather be tarred and feathered.... The majority of modern women make terrible relationship partners and I see it only getting worse from here.

She is a ten! She eats ten doughnuts at a time.

"Sometimes not getting what you want, can be a marvellous stroke of luck" ----- The Dahli Lama.

Single men out there, please don't. Entitlement is one of the biggest red flags. You are special, your girl is still out there, don't settle for BS.

Her delusion is fed by the modern notion that you are special just by existing. There used to be at least some notion that you had to do something to be special or at least have some admirable qualities. A touch of humility for example.

I don't miss going on dates so much that my last girlfriend broke up with me and I still haven't gone on any dating apps. Why go on one when I know what's on there. There's a lot of freedom being single. However, single for a guy vs. most women is different. A single man isn't talking to anyone. Most single women are still going on dates for their ego and some single women are still getting sex. Never date a woman who looks for sex in such a shallow way.

I’ve been dating a girl for 8/9 months and at the beginning she was super sweet, kind and respectful.. but as we reduced physical distance (we weren’t living in the same city) she started to want more and more of me, without understanding that I needed time and space to keep my body healthy and to develop my business and essentially, doing that for her as well. I moved to her city (her Country to be precise) for our relationship and it wasn’t enough for her, seeing each other 2/3 times a week wasn’t enough. She started to blame me for not giving her what she wanted and started disrespecting me, yelling at me and whenever we had a fight she was ready to call one one her DMs. I got completely pissed off at that point. I’ve been clear since the beginning with her.. It ended up so bad and I broke up with her despite my feelings. I don’t lose hope but It’s frustrating and painful

I thought i was special, but then i grew up.

I'm happy to say that I've been fortunate in having lived in a JOMO state for nearly all of my life.

Women like this are a prize alright: a consolation price for a man that has lost the game of life.

There's an aspect you may miss; I'm a tall guy, used to be in pretty good shape, and didn't have to ask a girl out for my 20s and 30s....I wasn't being validated, and honestly I didn't even really explore why it was happening, I just rode the opportunities. That being said, I turned down at least 2/3 of the women that came onto me, which in many ways seemed to drive even more women asking me out. This was well prior to dating apps and social media as well, but women in the 90s were largely the same as they are today. The hard realization I came to about 10 years ago was I was sexually successful pretty much only because I was tall and in shape.

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

I'm 43 and have a career that puts beautiful women into my world on a daily basis, and in my new hometown, I regularly see women from all over the world who are on holiday I often get attention from women in their 20s as much as I do from older women. But these days, I don't chase. If it doesn't fall into my lap, I ain't interested. I'm happy to spend my days playing videogames when I'm not organizing or performing shows for work. I never expected I would be single at this age, but I don't mind it. I can go for a while without it and find that seeking a new woman each day, though it's possible and available to me, I don't really care for it. The women of today just aren't worth it and I'm just not patient enough to put up with what I would need for the daily novelty

I agree with him. I have been married for 17 years and I am glad I do not have to deal with this BS. I am happy that I have a wife, I have a family and a child. That I do not have to waste my life in the worthless exercise of chasing a woman. I am so blessed and so happy and hope you guys can find a nice conservative woman, with good family values and quit this nightmare.

At Aldi, you can buy a bottle of water for 15 cents. The same bottle of water is $3.00 at the movie theater. Gents, if you aren’t getting the value you deserve in the relationship market, get your passport and go to SE Asia.

Self love, manifesting, im 10/10, deserve a millionaire... They all sit in the same brainwashing machine?.

I love your content. I’ve watched just about all your RU-vid content and am now going to join your patreon. You certainly cover just about everything there is to cover in dating. Well I’m a guy in my 50s now, and I’ve been in a settled relationship for over 20 years now,so I’m not looking to put your great insight into action but it’s great knowledge to have if only for entertainment! But in my experiences in my 20s things were so different from the picture painted today. I felt then the dating market was much more level. Here in the uk, back then they had trains without corridors, which after a night out, used to provide the perfect venue for enjoying the company of a hook up after a night out, certainly didn’t need to be rich. I brought a 6 bed house near a hospital and rented out rooms when houses were cheap, I filled it with 7/8/9 out of 10 nurses, and we all had such a good time. And no I never gave cheap rent, and I never dated one of them, but as for free love I literally got it all out of my system and some, in fact to the point where it became quite an obligation to look after all of them! There was no jealousy, no awkwardness, never conflict, just knocks on my door ‘ would you like to see my new…..!” As they got partners and settled down over the years it all fizzled out, actually to my relief, and I met at work my current partner. I’m certainly not a top 10% guy, but I am a bit of a hybrid between nice guy and bad boy which seem to hit the spot, I presume. Also it amuses me when you talk about men’s realisation of what woman are really like, because the ladies all used to talk about my nighttime skills or not as they case may be, behind my back, and seemingly didn’t do me any harm. May be I was just a toy before they became mainstream, but I was happy with that! 😂. I feel for men in 20s these days, the woman in your clip has an awful attitude, until she spoke I would have said she was a 5, when she mentioned millionaires she went to a one! Keep up the great content!

Guarantees of marriage. 1. No sex 2. He has signed over his future, money, property and balls to her. 3. She constantly emasculate him. 4. He'll be liable to pay for children that might not be biologically his. 5. She gains full possession of his car and house. 6. If there's any domestic disturbance it's her word against him and men are always presumed to be the perpetrators. 7. Even if there's a pre-nup all she has to allege she was coerced. 8. The man will be responsible for her lavish lifestyle while she's living in his house with a new man and the ex is broke and destitute. So there's no reward to getting married and destroying your life.

Women's standards are set by the level of sacrifice the men in her life are willing to do for her.

You're describing new relationships in a way that I just can't relate. I have found no joy at all in dating. When I was younger women were more interested in gaining social clout, "networking", and chasing degrees. They had no interest in "settling down" with one guy. As I aged, it seemed someone had flipped the switch in their minds and they suddenly wanted desperately to "stop playing games." I went from a casual hookup to a sperm bank with a bank account. There was no joy and mutual growth, just women wanting something to benefit them while wanting to benefit me the least.

My ex and I split a few years ago. It was rough at first, but now... *I do whatever I want *I go anywhere at any time *I spend on whatever I want *I don't have to budget for manicures and eyebrows and makeup and shoes *I don't have to worry about who I spend time with Sure I miss a few things like home cooked meals, hugs, and intimacy, but I now get to spend time getting to know and appreciate myself without the often negating filter of a partner. Alone is not the same as lonely 👍

There are few high quality traditional women in Western societies. Money, social media and consumerism has warped their reality!

Uh, maybe there is a false choice? Most men don’t have the option of settling down with a “high quality” woman. You act like every man should have a unicorn, but there are not enough unicorns to go around.

I love the JOMO. I'm going to use that from now on.

3:30 - Would have legitimately given her a 6.5 out of 10. How much you want to bet that if he openly gave her a 6.5 / 10, she would have upgraded his score by at least 1-2 points just purely on the basis that he has standards and she isn’t accustomed to hearing a man rate her so modestly.

It may be hard to believe but there are good women out there, even in the west. Don’t give up. Don’t be a doomer.

I would assess as follows, her looks are a 4, her attitude is a 2 at best, and i agree with you , I dont miss dating. I'm satisfied but keep an eye on things as i have 5 sons and a viceral concern for their options and coming experiences.

I think I’m with Brian at Whatever Podcast: Split the bill to discover whether she thinks her time is more valuable than yours. Only a woman with genuine burning desire will stick around for date #2.

Funny thing is that recognising by her accent she is 100% a jewish Israeli, and what boggles my mind is that in Israel you will 99% of the time NEVER hear woman expecting these amounts. Even her own people are not that delusional. Bruh

JOMO gives me pride inside. I don’t miss those crazy women.

Dating is too much these days. I’m comfortable being single at this point. I’m the prize anyway 😂

I don't miss the princess attitude.

Considering how far most women fall into the average in the bell curve in almost every setting compared to men, that statistically makes women less special than men.

Your gf will make sure that your free time is filled up with stuff that she wants to do but you don't. 😏

Serial Dating: playing level 1 every week, thinking you're such a good gamer.

There's just no way these vids aren't faked for shock value at this point.

Hats off bro! Totally agree with everything you said! The current market is very hard to navigate, especially in the US. So much entitlement out there.

I agree that it's crazy for guys to stay in the dating market. Moreover , I think it is Utter ignorance for a guy to commit to a relationship with a modern female. And it's pure ignorance and insanity for him to ever get married. Especially in the West.

Literally said she's special because men need to buy her things... how about i just add on to myself?

When I was in a long term relationship those thoughts did come across my mind, but to me it was always better to appreciate the woman in my life than someone new.

It's not JOMO, it's JOHI. Joy Of Having It. But "It" in the video, was like a 2.5.

No girl is special when all they want to is use men as a atm

I'm just going to put this out there. Manosphere Daily put this out there recently (08/09/23): Per testing of the DNA (300 at a time), fully 33% of men are not biologically connected to children they are supporting. That's one in three, gents. Did you know that in France, it is ILLEGAL to get a DNA test on your own to check paternity? If you want a DNA test, you have to get a court order. Good luck with that. It's not in this country, were courts ROUTINELY ignore such tests, and force men to support children not their own - even after a breakup. There's a guy in Houston, currently, in a stable relationship, with children, whose ex is going after him for child support 16 YEARS after they broke up. DNA tests PROVE he's not the father. The courts does not care about that. He's still on the hook for 18 years of child support. AND, any guesses as to how that's going to affect his current relationship, even though the kid is not his? I don't like the odds; do you?

Mate, how are you gonna find that "quality woman" if you self exclude yourself from the dating market? How are you supposed to know new people, eventually finding the girl you like if you spend your time (as I do) in my lab, enjoying my hobbies?

In this context, "special" refers to the kind of kids who went to school on the short bus...

Women have hypergamy, they all want the same top men. This means gentlemen, you are the prize. Be present, give your best, be honest, do this for yourself. Because you are worth it

I'd rather deal with the problems in my 18 year marriage than having to play the games of today's dating market. Every woman is a different set of problems. You won't find the perfect one.

Really enjoyed this video. I will admit, sometimes I hesitate to watch your videos because you go to some dark places, and I realize that this is necessary but it's also depressing. This video however was really uplifting. JOMO, I've got it, I know exactly what that is and it feels amazing.

The type of man a woman outwardly says she wants versus what she'll actually date don't need to line up. Sure I want a job that pays 6 figures with no stress, but knowing that it might be out of reach, I accept half that money with moderate stress. It's the same way with these women. Once they realize they're not getting these men, they will lower that bar.

I rephrase: "Thank God I'm single and I don't need to deal with this"

Didn't know you had a kid. Congratulations man. Your channel is very valuable.

They all think they're special. This 4 who thinks she gets a millionaire isn't exactly outlandish.

3:56 had me laughing out loud the way he says fun just kills me 💀💀

"I'm special. That's what my mom and the lady at the school said."

So a person who wiped out the buffet table thinks she deserves a millionaire? Uhm...okay.

If she's special, it's in that not-so-great way of "specialness" like the school bus for "special" kids. I don't believe she believes she's actually special. I suspect she has one or more boyfriends, and I'm damn sure none of them are millionaires. She's just acting up for the camera.

JOMO. That... is brilliant 😂❤. I felt that for a few years now, glad to know how to name it.

LOL "I'm the prize" XD If you're such a prize, why isn't anyone trying to claim you?

Kevin Samuels: she's average at best

your mindset makes you a gem

Great video.

Becoming a millionaire isn't hard. She just has a misunderstanding of what it takes to become one. You don't get there by spending money on frivolous crap lol

No woman is drama-free. The best you can hope for is less drama.

Alexander, i get it why for you (and some others like Rollo) a monogamous relationship or marriage is better (JOMO) than chasing and dating women. But for the 80% of guys that don't have the p!mp mindset (or "game" as Rollo calls it) a girlfriend or wife is exhausting as fsck! This is, why monk mode is popular, many men have given up.

The dating market sucks. Relationships also suck.

I'm glad I'm not dating yet. Modern dating seems like it's way more difficult in most westernized countries than it was when feminism was actually about equality rather than trying to make women superior

Men need to use all the wisdom and caution they can muster. Good Luck!

The least special woman I have ever seen.

Why? Because every woman is unique and special ... just like any other woman.

Me: (logs in on youtube + clicks on alexander grace"s latest vid) Also me: ????? She jumps into a full entitled & fomo mode in just one par sec.... Also also me: 😂that was even faster than han solo"s hyperdriven kessel speed run..... Me: 🙄glad i am livin an honest & modest life Without any of these unecessary pathologics or toxic abusive behaviors i never chose to become. Bein against this patheticness is far better. I am not fomo or jomo. I am not missin out cuz not participatin in the mainstream narcissism etc is worth it Stay healthy & rational & non malignant. Thanks for the great video alex G.

I find it very hard to believe that modern females mentally, or emotionally develop beyond the age of 16. I'd love to see anything that proves otherwise. I don't think it's because they can't, but because they're not required to mentally develop beyond 16 y/o. I believe this is also why females have "sweet 16 parties" and males usually have "right of passage". I believe this is because at 16, females reach their peak point of maturity, where as males in their early teen years, their right of passage, really mark their long journey into manhood and mental development. I believe this is also where the saying comes from that says, "A woman is as intelligent as the oldest male teen around her".

I always thought the "Daily Special" was discounted on the menu?😂😂😂

Women never seem to realise that beautiful women are common whilst high value males are rare

She's a 10 and he's a 4? Uh, a 6 maybe if we go by those standards. The kid wasn't bad looking. Smh. I hate to rate people in such a shallow way, but she's just a regular woman with a slim body. And that arrogance. She's not Megan Fox in the first Transformers movie or Sofia Vergara.

Plenty of divorced men and even single men don't want to get married. Long term relationships get stale, boring and they come with financial liabilities...some people just prefer to be alone and to occasionally play the field.

Only a child screams "I'm grown!"

She forgot “my food”

What about JOMO for being single and seeing what your friends have to put up with in their 10+ years long relationships.

You didn't mention FOJI; fear of joining in. Men undertake a lot of risk, the bulk of the responsibility, and minimal reward in modern relationships. Very few women are actually worth that these days.

“I’m special!” Yes cupcake you sure are special 😅

2:50 -I'm grown, I'm grown. LOL! The entitlement and the temper tantrum proves how grown she is.

We call those "special" girls 49ers. She's a 4 but thinks she's a 9 😂

Mfer keeps preaching the "look for a high quality woman". My brother in Christ, every high quality woman is taken already. It's okay to stop chasing and just enjoying life.

"just me, I'm special "

Where is the "I'm a great housekeeper, I am a great cook, I'm on fire in bed, I give the most awesome massages, I am a top notch lawyer and I make $250K a year".

Special is not a bad or good thing, it’s something or someone different… she things that label brings value to herself

News: as an unmarried man I don't have to deal with it either. 🤣

A special species specimen

There are lots of cute down to earth girls who would want a proper man, it's just these kind of ones get the most attention. Still sad to see people so delusional no matter their gender at this point. The dumber the people the worse the world we live in.

First date, coffee. Second date, golf or shooting range. Third date, probably dinner and/or baseball game. If that doesn’t cut it for you, I ain’t the guy for you. Where the hell do these 4’s and 5’s get the idea that they are “special” or a 10? I’m no visual prize, but I am a prize to someone out there. It’s all about being patient.

@8:36 "I"M GROWN!" Cancer is a growth and she is certainly one.

Should find somebody who matches your needs. I'm sure some people like the thrill of the chase, but it's so much better to get what you want when you want it from somebody willing to cover those needs. If you have some "niche" desires then finding a girl on a random night out willing to do those things for you is basically impossible. Leaves you 2 choices: Monogamy with a rational partner offering ~most of what you need, or open-ended on one end (or both). If she knows what you like/want and is actively covering said likes/wants, I think that's a justifiable basis for complete commitment. Agree on Alex's closing statement: Other resource costs can now be invested into something else.

She's so special the blue bus will be picking her up any minute now.

The wall reveals how special they all are.

Usually, I need to watch a woman’s video to hear so many insults.