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In this video I will share with you why your partners past may be all you ever think about and the best way to overcome this once and for all!
Why do we think about our partner's past all the time welcome back to another video my name is matt in this video i'm going to talk to you about why we cannot stop thinking about our partner's past when we're suffering from retroactive jealousy why is it all the time we're getting these thoughts one after another after another after another after another and how can we start slowly putting an end to these thoughts so maybe we can actually think thoughts that we want to think about instead right so i'll go through what helped me in overcoming retract the jealousy and these intrusive thoughts that I just couldn't stop thinking about um i'll give you the exact steps that i took and I think they will help you too but before we get started if you can take a quick moment and smash the like button on this video so we can get out to more people that need to see it i'd greatly greatly appreciate it also if you want some extra help in overcoming retroactive jealousy if you're having intrusive thoughts on your partner's past your significant other's past that you can't seem to get over please check the links in the description below i've got three awesome courses to help you overcome that get your life back get your relationship that back so uh please check that out before you go today all right so why do we keep thinking these thoughts all the time well plain and simple it's become our habit of thought okay we've thought about these thoughts these thoughts that bother us so much and they've carried on so much anxiety along with them that we've thought about them enough that we've strengthened certain thought routes and and what neurologists call them neural pathways in our brain we've strengthened them so much that our thoughts will automatically go down those routes because they're so strengthened they're so big they're so large it's very easy it's like the path of least resistance for the thought to go down is to go down these routes of our partner's past that bother us so much and that simply has happened because you know we got these thoughts or we started having these thoughts they carried a lot of anxiety around with them that anxious feeling that anxious response we felt the need that we need to analyze these thoughts rationalize these thoughts come to terms with these thoughts so we don't feel that anxious response anymore okay whether you did this consciously or or unconsciously we've done that we wanted to be okay and rationalize these thoughts but because we could never come to terms and because we could never rationalize them we would try again and again and again to continue to think about it continue to think about it continue to think about it over and over and over again and when we've done that we've strengthened that neural pathway and those thought routes have literally become the path of least resistance for these thoughts to travel on it's become a habit in order to break these habits these habits of thinking these habits of thought and start thinking about other things is basically we need to cut off this connection we need to cut off this neural pathway and we just need to cut it off as quickly as it comes into our head so when we get a thought about our partner's past and it comes in and we feel the need to go down that rabbit hole go down that thought route we almost need to visualize visualize these strengthened neural pathways in our brain visualize these thoughts going down and have it be so easy because these these routes are so strengthened they're they're basically have a magnetic pull and want to pull your thoughts in this way this way this way through these neural pathways and we have to almost imagine ourselves with a big like ax and just boom chopping boom chopping these thought routes we cannot let these thoughts go down further down these routes of thought we have to basically in a sense stop thinking about them recognize let me go in depth instead of just stop thinking about but recognize when the thought comes up exploring this thought or going any deeper into it is not going to benefit me what so ever and so literally this would happen to me when i when I understood this when I thought exploring this thought thinking about it is not going to help me.....
15 ноя 2022