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@alexandergrace5350 Год назад

Jealous of your girlfriends sexual history? www.patreon.com/posts/71851685

@SuperToughFish Год назад

More like repulsed

@BlacK40k Год назад

I am quite promiscious myself so I can't complain too much when a girl had a lot of sexual partners herself. Not that I like it but I can't be a hypocrite here. I can't get over the looming feeling that girls like these aren't trustable though.

@lomotil3370 Год назад

@@BlacK40k The sexuality of men and women is different. Recognizing this is not hypocrisy, since we are not the same. Men have evolved to be more inclined towards promiscuity.

@BlacK40k Год назад

@@lomotil3370 I get what you mean from a reproduction standpoint. Humanity has been using protection very well since ancient times though. Let beaches be beaches, don't waste too much energy thinking about it

@jkfd97 Год назад

Both things should not share the same sentence unless her history is comprised entirely of you. Otherwise, you are doing this whole relationship game very wrongly. Only true virgins deserve commitment.

@element9387 Год назад

"The man who does nothing is taking action, but, the man that feels compelled to act is not acting, he's reacting."

@raularmas317 Год назад

If someone tried to prod/provoke me into taking any action before I was ready it always seemed to lead to bad outcomes for me. Now, older and wiser when someone says "jump" I no longer have to run the "fool's errand" and expend potentially useless energy to satisfy their desire for control. The same goes for women who are fond of saying "do something" when frustrated by a situation.

@josephstevens9888 Год назад

I was with a girl years ago played immature games with me in which when we had a disagreements, she would get angry and walk away - expecting me to chase her. I quickly tired of that b.s., and whenever she stated to pout, I would just shut up and let her walk away. It drove her nuts. She wanted to now why I didn't go after her. I told her I don't have have the time, and I have too much self-respect for myself to play these games. She responded that her Dad and Uncle tell her the same thing. I told her that you should learn from them.

@adcppk9884 Год назад

That's great.

@drazi5201 Год назад

@Jetsetbob2 Last girl i dated, started sending me pictures and videos of her and other men via. SC so she could make me jealous, and see what kind of reaksjon i made. I just ignored it in the beginning. I wasn't giving her enough attention(In her opinion), and i also think that she was trying to get me to give her more attention that way. Especially in the beginning, she texted me, and wrote that men came up to her and asked for her number. So i wrote her a message and said we gotta have a talk. So i waited to see if she would respond with a question. And she didn't. So then i knew she knew what she was doing, she got scared i think and didn't text me first for 2 weeks. So i asked her again to have a talk f2f and she ignored it. So i Ghosted her.

@jayunitgraffiti6912 Год назад

Dope...stuff bro

@thenarrator1984 Год назад

@@drazi5201 she ghosted you it sounds like you're coping lol

@adcppk9884 Год назад

@Jetsetbob2 You've stood your ground. Good job.

Год назад

The biggest liberating moment in my life came when I decided it's enough of this torture. I'm not into dating anymore, I like women, but I'm not into dating, I have friends, hobbies, do a lot of sports, and I feel free like never before!

@deltacharlieecho4732 Год назад

When I started building bikes and cars, I found my purpose. Women don’t understand it and I have no tolerance for laziness.

Год назад

@@ricardodelacrvz1400 I don't need these guys to tell me anything. 2 broken marriages, 2 kids, in both cases, west liberal / feminist woman (I wish I knew it earlier). I'm fed up with this shait. Frustration? Speak for yourself. I know better how I feel ;-)

@BatmanBeyondBelief Год назад

@@ricardodelacrvz1400 what is an npc like you doing outside the matrix?

@dudeskidude8376 Год назад

@@BatmanBeyondBelief lol

@victorpessanha2500 Год назад

@@ricardodelacrvz1400 couldn't have said it better, my dude

@jaythenihilist4689 Год назад

One of every womans biggest fears in a relationship is getting the silent treatment. It's so simple and non confrontational, but so effective.

@PinkyPlayBear Год назад

I somewhat agree. Silent treatment can also show your annoyance and the fact a conflict bothers you. I've read this somewhere once in a comment section of Alexander Grace: _"The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference"_ Silent treatment can show your hate for someone. Kinda complicated. If she is upset you shouldn't be bothered by it and maybe be able to joke about it instead. In one of my previous interactions someone was giving me silent treatment, I asked: "everything okay?" (In kinda condescending tone, making direct eye contact with a smile) He reacted more upset and responded why I asked, I said: "I don't know you're acting kinda strange" "if anything is wrong just ask". (This response actually shows indifference to the conflict) Imagine if were to give him the silent treatment back, it would've looked kind of immature and seem like it bothered me.

@techienate Год назад

You're describing manipulation.

@samuraijosh1595 Год назад

@@techienate not all kinds of silent treatment is manipulation. Sometimes silent treatment can be the only natural thing that comes to you cuz you were put in a certain situation.

@robertturner2516 11 месяцев назад

Silent treatment bothers people, and it is a manipulative treatment. It is so strong because there is no argument against it. If you walk away from someone without saying anything, or give someone very little time because you have decided they are not worth that time, these people have nothing to accusé you with. If you argue and shout and throw tantrums, then you run the risk of loosing the moral high ground. But it is also a very big bullying tactic, if I use this tactic, I won't pursuade others to side with me and give this silent treatment. That is the line between standing my ground and using the tactic to bully someone else!

@gertytk5528 Год назад

Women always expect men to come after them after they walk away from a situation. Men need to stop doing that. Do nothing.

@vsmith6109 Год назад

Really it depends. Might want to make a move casually and don't talk about any mishaps...only if the man "likes" her and she seemed to be receptive even with a dorky date. Doing nothing- she knows he is not interested and best to move on. I also had a relationship where the man kept threatening to break up with any stress. I never argued with him, raised my voice or curse. I keep my negative emotions on my lone car rides to work. Three years of that cycle with the complaints being different opinions, gaining weight, smoking, not cleaning after work every day, and being irritable/ self isolating with smoking withdrawal. I did lose weight. Eventually I agreed because I figured I knew he is trying to get away and he hates my family and without him...I can have my family at my house and not be threatened with a break up when he is stressed. For some reason he wanted to apologize 4 months after he left about how he treated my family 🙄. I told him I am sorry for when I was irritable, gaining weight, and sometimes lazy after work. He works with me now to know what sort of physical labor I do through the day, the heat, and the stress of being the problem solver of every department in a warehouse. Really if he stopped threatening to break up and promised to be nicer to my family...I would be with him still only because his complaints were temporary or able to compromise with.

@RJ-ch9zf Год назад

@@vsmith6109 No need of that long ass explanation, no one's gonna read that. The video is straight ON point. And your subjective opinions (that depends on your feelings) isn't gonna change anyone's mind.

@vsmith6109 Год назад

@@RJ-ch9zf why do guys disregard women feelings? It's a stress reaction. I should be allowed to have my family over and my relationship should respect them and treat them with kindness maybe 3 hours- 6 days a year. I will always respect and be kind to his family. Men have their feelings though their emotions are more hostile. He did not like my habits. I compromised as best I could but I agreed to end it when he threatened. I know it was an empty threat to control my behaviors. We did have a great relationship. It was stabile, supportive, 15 concerts, holidays, 4 vacations and he was my highschool best friend. We never argued and I never raise my voice or act in any way hateful. I adored him because I still clung to him as my highschool crush. He lost it all because his feelings/ ego were in the way. He might not get another like me because he is low income and kinda looks like he belongs in duck dynasty and wide. I had another relationship in a matter of months and bought a house.

@hking6232 Год назад

@@vsmith6109 Girl long explanation make it short.

@RJ-ch9zf Год назад

@@hking6232 Insanity is repeating the same things over and over and expecting things will change. Just like she thought that I would read another long-ass subjective feelings based reply of her.

@LordVodka313 Год назад

I almost did not click this video. And as much as I didn't want to, he's right. The sad reality is, women would come out in principle and say a man who can be accountable for his actions is sexy, but in practice? It doesn't work, at least not for women who think this way. Your best bet is to find a woman who can appreciate when you own up. But if you're interacting with a woman who doesn't appreciate that, then DO NOTHING. if she doesn't come back to you, that's your cue to move onto other things. If she does come back, handle it in an understandable but firm way. All in all, know what/who you are dealing with, and adjust

@YS_Production Год назад

On the last sentence: isn't adjusting the same as being reactive instead of proactive? The video was more about staying still instead of fixing situations at any cost, situations where you're clearly not at fault

@luciusnguyen2449 Год назад

What I love the most about your channel is that you always give out the answer at the beginning of the video and then give us a satisfying explanation. Unlike other youtuber who would bait us into watching the video to find the answer and only reveal the answer after half of the video.

@tygon13 Год назад

"Inaction", when it's the proper solution to a problem, is just another form of active masculine problem solving. 👍

@buckaroobonzai2909 Год назад

I applied this to interactions with my new female boss. Letting things go is AWESOME!

@LM-cy5wt Год назад

Soo much truth in this video. It is very important to be able to do nothing both in the dating phase and inside the relationship. That makes a man more attractive and also avoids entering and staying in toxic relationships. The hard part is to stay with the negative emotions and do nothing. But that's a skill that is sooo important, not only in dating but also to manage anxiety disorders. Mindful meditation can help

@richardw3347 Год назад

Being able to sit with things is key. Many rush too distract themselves too often instead of deal with something head on and fully. Not to say u can't take breaks and have fun in between but learn to deal with things. Peace.

@w4447 Год назад

It's white knight syndrome. Dr Laura used to say when you rescue a damsel in distress all you get is a distressed damsel. Stop and take a breath. There is a reason she was put in that tower. She's there because someone decided she needed to be there for her protection or yours. We men have to start teaching our sons about the fact women are people too. They all have their quirks, bad decisions,character flaws, and mental blocks. Teach them to deal with the fact you cannot save her she has to save herself.

@whatfffd Год назад

The older you become the easier this is. Your experience informs you that a reaction requires an action that in turn requires effort. You begin to ask the question...Is it worth it?

@ytkj3051 Год назад

“No response is a response”.

@salutetherank2105 Год назад

Patrice O'neal said the same thing. Women feed off of your reactions. If you give them nothing, they can't function.

@joeconrad3828 Год назад

This approach is very effective when it comes to that goddamn texting. I came of age in the rotary telephone age, so the idea that someone can pepper me with text messages, demanding replies, all day and all night long is grotesque. Most women think this kind of interaction is the most normal thing in the world. I sit on messages for a few hours before responding, if I even bother. The very idea that you could read her question/complaint/screed and then not feel instantly compelled to react to it just frustrates the hell out of them! LOL. And it automatically makes you the center of her attention.

@murrayhorn8817 Год назад

Taking action is taking responsibility. In non romantic situations, people with victim personas will often use your initiative against you. When you meet these people, you don't need to be mean. Just don't volunteer. If they have a flat tire, by all meens help them. But they have to ask for help first. That shifts it from your responsibility, to your kindness.

@AS_210 Год назад

Thank you Murray Horn, thank you for sharing.

@cheezinhoweree Год назад

Triple a is 7 bucks a month added to car insurance.thats the only people anyone should be calling for tire help and I'm not triple a

@mansanoire9989 Год назад

My grandfather always used to say, "Silence is a response".

@emilpetrov5001 Год назад

I used to not know how to fight. But after learning in this video that I should use my opponent’s strength against me, I’ve won all my fights.

@glencmac Год назад

I recently asked this lady out. She told me she didn't date. I gave her my number anyway, because I really think a lot of this lady. She texted hers back to me. But I've never used it and I won't. She said she didn't date, OK, I will accept that. Calling her may have been what she wanted, but it could have made me look needy, creepy, or pervy.

@LTZ_Z71 Год назад

As a man, I do find it 100% impossible for me to do nothing. Very insightful video.

@kayef5724 Год назад

yes, bend the knee to your superior.

@TakeHit0 Год назад

I dont have a problem nt giving a fk 🤣

@zourin8804 Год назад

This is true. Trying to 'fix' or 'take responsibility' in panic almost always comes off as clingy and insecure. Treat it like golf. Accept where it lands, what for her to make her play. If she's still interested, she will still be there. If not, be calm and respectful. If she pulls a power move, get out of that lane!

@danch10 Год назад

Wow this is me.. I get depressed and nervous not doing anything productive, not moving forward or taking action over a standing issue. It was a blessing and curse for me as a athlete as I always felt like I was never doing enough training, which led me to seriously over train and ruin my health

@northernguy8860 Год назад

In running a business, I learned the value of the 3-Step Sales Formula: Problem-Agitate-Solution. People need to deeply feel the consequences of the problem before they will entertain a solution. Putting on the Mr. Fixit Cap and prematurely offering to solve things feels heroic, but is counterproductive. Instead of immediately easing their discomfort, figurately twist in the knife so they really feel it. Only then will they care about a potential solution, and once their hair is lit on fire, they'll be chasing you down for the solution instead of you pushing it upon them. To help me learn this, I envisioned having a Mr. Fixit Cap and refusing to wear it until the person had fully owned the problem. In relationships, being the fixer of problems, the soother of discomfort, is a bluepill beta path. You become Mr. Utility, not the lover she pines for who sparks her pangs of desire.

@gabrielstroup Год назад

Anyone who’s watched Avatar the Last Airbender knows of the concept of neutral jing, which involves knowing when to wait and do nothing until the circumstances are right to finally take action.

@oscaraurelio8869 Год назад

Somehow, animes are not necessarily dumb things for dumb people

@gabrielstroup Год назад

@@oscaraurelio8869 I wouldn’t call ATLA an anime, but it’s certainly anime-inspired. Good life lessons can come from anywhere

@krisdang8620 Год назад

This is exactly what I need right now. Thank you.

@dousuketoby1731 Год назад

Yea i texted this girl at my job and when i saw her after we texted i can tell she was a bit awkward, But i acted like my usual self making jokes making her laugh and yeah was no big deal and i can tell she was much more comfortable

@mgtowbylogic5592 Год назад

I’m an expert at doing nothing. One advantage to doing nothing is it allows you more time and opportunity to gather more information before you decide what to say or do next. This is also true in business negotiations. During the back and forth there is often a climax moment where the whole course of the negotiation can change based on whoever speaks next. This is often accompanied by a moment of silence, where one may begin to second guess themselves. Often, I’ve found, it’s best to just do nothing… give the other person plenty of space to second guess themselves instead, then give you what you want.

@lolipopsandfancypants7257 Год назад

Interesting topic. I can relate. Lately I have been doing this with my ex regarding her incessantly trying to start negativity after every time I see my son. She needs the negativity but it's not good for me or my son to provide it. Getting ignored drives her nuts, but it's no worse than engaging when it's not about problem solving. Our relationship is over and engaging lets the relationship live on at the child's expense.

@WindyJAMiller Год назад

Don’t know how old your child is, if old enough try doing change overs using nursery or school, that way you don’t meet so no opportunity for it occur which might be the best tack for now. Also, if there is anything difficult that she is baiting you on when you meet, tell her something along the lines of ‘this is important to me, unfortunately right now I’m very tired, I want to give it the time it deserves, can I suggest you send it to me on an email or text message so I can read it and focus on it when I have the attention to’. That way she has to do work to actually explain herself or the situation and it will soon show what she cares about vs what she’s saying to wind you up or bait you.

@191. Год назад

Can confirm. Silence is power.

@bigbootyjudy6124 Год назад

I'm definitely most comfortable doing nothing instead of taking action. I used to think it had something to do with anxiety or being fearful of failure; however, in my 30's I've been discovering more and more about myself and how much I actually enjoy doing nothing. Doing nothing surprises people because it's never in the top 3 things a man would do; doing nothing brings me satisfaction in a weird stoic perspective. I have more power by NOT yelling, by NOT getting angry or upset, by NOT being rash or bullheaded.

@robhobsweden Год назад

In advanced pair dancing, for instance Salsa, we also have some versions of this. Lead by abscense of lead. Sometimes you have to release all lead energy. If one don't, adding to the follower's energy, the follower will either overdo the steps, making the follower loose the balance even, or twist the whole body too much. Pushing, ithe steps will be wrong, even making another step with wrong foot take place. This is of course an energy release of a split second, but oh, how important! Making the follower keep their own balance. For instance, in dips and tricks. In a dip, the follower should be able to hold their own balance. The leader suggest a dip, the follower decides if it should be done, and how deep. The leader should really be able to let go of the follower completely, and nothing will happen. The leader is there as an extra safety, and help the follower get back up. This can be applied to leadership as well. Where is the best place to lead? In the back of the group, i.e. following. In that case you will see where the group is heading, and correct the path if you see that the path is wrong. If you can't see what you want to lead, you will probably miss out if something or someone strays off. This is what leading by following means.

@jkfd97 Год назад

Real leaders create other leaders. I see where you're coming from.

@ttayms Год назад

I’m usually this guy, but just got out of a relationship where I wasn’t. I was constantly trying to fix stuff because there were underlying issues I was trying to figure out. I was constantly asking questions and she was begging me to act like this video recommends, but I’m glad I didn’t because my inquisitive mind eventually figured out she was seeing other people. So my point is that you’ll act like a man when she signals that you are her’s.

@dlbattle100 Год назад

A minute and a half in and this is already one of my favorite video from you! Spot on! How does such a young guy have so much insight??

@miguelgonzalez6213 Год назад

I agree with your perspective. About 18 months ago, during the lockdowns, I met a woman online and we went out a few times. We seemed to hit it off well and our conversations were great and we had some great times together, but it seems she misconstrued how I interpreted a message she'd sent me and for some reason she got angry at me. I explained to her that I'd never had an issue with the situation. I did that once. She just seemed to push it further and we stopped talking, after she sent a very angry text. As you said, I didn't feel it would help anything or anyone to continue the situation, so I did nothing. About 9 months later, we crossed paths and it was as if nothing had happened. We agreed to go out, but then, out of nowhere, she got really angry that I asked to reschedule, because I had to help one of my sons move. At that point, I was just done with trying to figure her out and just let it go. Honestly, have not dated since fall of 2020 and am not missing it either. 🤷‍♂

@GeneralProfessor Год назад

'When in doubt, restrain yourself.' - Count of Monte Cristo

@jessejames88 Год назад

Great point, Alex - thank you. I've just learned about this in my own life...the power of staying calm and being non-reactive, and letting things play out without trying to control other people or situations.

@the11382 Год назад

Sounds like a high quality man is a balanced man.

@yumirow7487 Год назад

In other words, stfu. I did experience it quite clearly a while back. I just started arguing with an Internet female friend about some dumb stuff. Anyway I was in charge of that space so I felt like I needed to clear things out, was pushy about it, only made things worse.

@dukeofdenver Год назад

This is the best clarity on frame I've had so far. It all makes sense now

@surreygoldprospector576 Год назад

This is very insightful. Thank you Alexander!

@DavisMultiverse Год назад

"Nothing" 😆

@peterbriedon8058 Год назад

yo alexander you got it wrong, we love doing nothing that we even dream about it, what we hate is to wait

@jkfd97 Год назад

Doing nothing after all your errands have been taken care of is blissful. I agree with you.

@djhardcorehengst6356 Год назад

True

@jimhunt4425 Год назад

Don't just do something! STAND THERE.

@dat868 Год назад

Alexander is right about inaction being the right thing to do in some cases. I messed up in my early days and like Alexander described always had to "make things right" not because I'm weak but because you feel it's the gentlemanly thing to do. But it often works against you and you give away your power to the woman who usually loses respect if you grovel. Dispense with the belief that doing something is better than nothing. Doing nothing is sometimes the best course of action.

@raularmas317 Год назад

Many women came from 'high drama' homes. The commotion becomes the " background track" of their young lives and if it was mostly negative and rarely interrupted by stretches of relative calm or addressed in counseling she is going to try and create similar situations somewhere in her life. The absolute best way to help her realize the waste of emotional energy on her(and potentially your) part is to not "mirror" her emotional outbursts and by remaining unengaged, balanced and calm you can help re-Parent her scared inner child that couldn't stop the Parental fights, the emotional tension of living with two people who really came to resent rather than love and co-operate with each other.

@rymreaper Год назад

Thank you this video was making me feel bad about myself for my strategies. But there's nothing wrong thank you.

@alexleung842 Год назад

This applies to much more than conflicts in relationships. I think it applies to conflict in one's self too. Sometimes our inner life can be crazy, and we can be quick to try and silence the ambiguity of our life with quick fixes and/or escapism rather than taking the time to sit with the discomfort and really think for a while.

@raularmas317 Год назад

I have deduced that most people are masses of internal inconsistencies and/or paradoxes as passed down from family of origin interactions and a person/child's own not-quite mature thinking (as when children start believing they are responsible for their Parent's divorce).

@raularmas317 Год назад

Your "spot on" as the English like to say. I have found most people like/lean towards the idea of quick-fix solutions that usually don't address the longer-term consequences of actions taken.

@raularmas317 Год назад

Learning to comfortable with the ambiguity/discomfort. Now there's something I finally began to accept only a few years ago and have been learning how never to "waste a good crisis" when fighting a larger war.

@edwardo737 Год назад

Solid message, Alexander. Lots of applications.

@Reubenn1 Год назад

YOU’RE 100% CORRECT! 🤯

@ADayintheUK Год назад

This arrived in the Nick of time Alex, life saver 👊🏼

@davidthomspson9771 Год назад

This is pure gold.Thank you

@misterstaple Год назад

He who is prudent and lies in wait for an enemy who is not, will be victorious. Sun Zhu, Art of War

@TheSh_dow Год назад

Me doing nothing and watching youtube videos...

@calholli Год назад

Procrastination Master Race

@mikioni Год назад

hahaha

@Dansyoung Год назад

Good video. I’m a fixer by nature and by trade (automotive mechanic). Your right the best action a lot of the time is inaction. My ex was playing push pull games and I just walked away completely. It was definitely the right decision, don’t chase woman.

@asddas2 Год назад

I mean, since I cannot afford the Patreon fee, let's just elaborate it here. If a woman has a long sexual past and now she's not interested in doing none of that with you, than the answer is pretty obvious: She simply is not interested in you sexually. You are nothing but a beta bucks. A placeholder. A beta bucks. You shouldn't really get annoyed or angry. You should have never even had a relationship with her. But since the question states you are already in a relationship with her, it's time for you to simply walk away and never look back.

@abelsietecuatro9249 Год назад

He is right. A girl text me last night. I did nothing. I did not reply. Although Im a little bit curious of what she is saying doing nothing is the best option.

@MultiGoban Год назад

Wrong lmfao

@kb1248 Год назад

He's right,this girl kissed me the other day,she asked"why aren't u moving ur lips?"I told her,Alexander told me to do nothing

@thenarrator1984 Год назад

@@MultiGoban what are you going on about

@lewieanderson6579 Год назад

Wish I learned this back in the late 80's when I was an insecure teenager. I had to learn this through trial and error and watching other alpha male friends with their girlfriends.

@G31M1 Год назад

More people need to hear about this. It’s so sad that you aren’t even at quarter million subs because of the RU-vid algorithm publishing you for your video topics

@ulroxvladtepes4023 Год назад

Having mental health issues, and one of the side effects being that I love procrastinating and doing nothing. It's not a problem. Sometimes mental illness can be a source of strength also

@jankucera8505 Год назад

I once tried to fix a relationship with a borderline. She absolutely hated me.

@juhel5531 Год назад

Dating sims actually create an almost perfect analogy for this. When you date a gal, it's almost exactly like dating sim, each day there's an energy meter and you have a finite amount of actions and a certain level of RNG or chance. You could play your hand perfectly and have a net loss in that day but as long as you didn't overplay your hand, you still have other days to play more hands so it in the long run you can express your skill and only in the short term is their any non skill based results. Dating is also about spinning plates. You aren't just dating one gal, you are dating the world. The more you go to the gym, go to work functions, participate in hobbies, the more you interact with the world and therefore the more chances of you finding out about more women that can be dated and the better you're value therefore the easier it is to get more dates and cinch those dates into a relationship/ONS depending on what you want. Dating is stacked against you in certain ways but is also stacked in your favor in other ways. Either step up your game to win the game, sacrifice yourself(within reason) to start a cultural movement to upend the game and make it better or opt out. The blackpill is about LEARNING horrible brutal truths but the inaction, wallowing and whining is something you should never listen to when you take the blackpill.

@kirdref9431 7 месяцев назад

sim ??

@emperadorzar2023 Год назад

amazing content. Your video is what I needed. Generally, I am a very tense or reactive man, going fast to solve the problems. That's why I feel uncomfortable doing nothing, but you have 100% reason. If a woman is into you, you do nothing. She'll think in losing you. Thanks a lot

@croquemitaine5923 Год назад

Doing nothing kills me in workplace (video editor & app developer here) I always take action when a problem occurs… BUT ! And this is something some people don’t like about me is that when it comes to solve problems regarding people… I often (all the time) do nothing. I consider if someone has a problem He/she is more than welcome to come and we will fix it… otherwise I’m really comfortable in doing nothing. Anyway great video

@jkfd97 Год назад

I'm the same. If it's my mistake, I will do my all to atone for it. If it's by another person, that responsibility is there's.

@crazywiener11 Год назад

@Croque Mitaine Put yourself out for others and you'll open up a different part of your life.

@shaunbell369 Год назад

Active listening = listening to your female complain then do nothing about it, you listened. Its not our obligation to fix everything

@elizabethb3436 Год назад

True but sometimes its nice to have feedback other times I need a sounding board just need to listen to myself think out loud. My husband has mastered the do nothing but so have a reason we are still married for 25 years

@kirdref9431 7 месяцев назад

That's passive listening...😂😂

@jayunitgraffiti6912 Год назад

Thank u Mr.Grace now I know what to do...Salute kind Sir

@xSkyWeix Год назад

There is an argument to be made that this reactiveness that you describe is closely related to the "need for control". Men that are comfortable with not having control over situations also are more likely to be comfortable seeing how things play out. And vice versa. Men that are controlling and obsessing over circumstances are compelled to always act to reestablish feeling of control.

@ThereIsNoOtherHandleLikeMine Год назад

The last time my wife yelled at me, I didn't react. She yelled for essentially no reason, even accusing me of stuff I didn't do. We didn't talk for over a week. I just went about my business the way I normally do. She hid in the bedroom. For over a week. Eventually, she apologized.

@ElliottNest39 Год назад

I agree. This approach seems compatible with stoicism which men would be well advised to learn and practice.

@markbryski Год назад

Yep, I have been hooked into meeting dysfunctional challenges when the best response was "do nothing"

@ParedonesAmarillosNO Год назад

On the spot!

@govinda102000 Год назад

Married over 20 years dealing with a wife with untreated mental issues triggered by "occasional hormone issues" Found recently better to wait it out a day or so verses trying to convince her to seek help.

@Drakkart 4 месяца назад

Literally the most powerful move in any argument is to lean back, observe the other, keep your mouth shut, put up a pokerface AND FEEL, actively sorting your emotions, while observing or even holding eyecontact. I mean also enjoy what you see if it becomes funny don't hold back a smile. But stay with yourself, calm your mind, become aware of all your emotions and think. she might freak out a little but then noticing what you are doing it should also calm her down shortly after, if not or something drastic happens you probably don't need her in your life anyway - act accordingly. Else after a while offer to talk - or just grab her and do the thing also works. Actually standing up for yourself grabing her will drastically reduce unwanted drama in the future for she'll remember that making a scene over nothing will probably get her laid just make sure in these situations it is about your pleasure not hers otherwise that might backfire. She'll learn to deeply respect your calmness. So whenever you go silent she will be all ears of what you say next and that is how it should be.

@mobilemcsmarty1466 Год назад

yes! this is a best vid ever AG. knowing what not to do is huge. I might add that knowing what didn't happen is also super important (a related but different story though). so to answer the question about the adventurous woman- you can expect her to continue to be adventurous with you and others as well. you made those beds. expect her to be in them 😎

@salehmalaeb4715 Год назад

I know a guy who i am friends with and he loves this girl...actually they're engaged...but he is such a slave to her it is embarrassing....he apologizes to her for the slightest mistakes but surprisingly she does seem to love him....he lives in a different country and he's attempting to get her to move to where he lives and as they were saying goodbye she teared up as well....could she be the perhaps 1-5% of women who don't mind this behavior from a man or does she have a sinister motive? If so y would she tear up saying goodbye to him? Only for a few months

@ZytechZero Год назад

I've been surfing the kali yuga for a few years now. Feels great.

@sonnylistenimaliwithnofigh2451 Год назад

Just gonna say THANK YOU SO MUCH 🙏

@brucesmith6942 Год назад

This is true. Turn the weakness into a strength and the results are amazing for men and not for women.

@thenarrator1984 Год назад

Not for women? Lol what

@mdarifulislamhridoy9147 Год назад

perfect information...

@faithfulpeak425 11 месяцев назад

Dude this is so funny. I did this without even knowing it and it works thank you speaking to me like my whole situation is flashback to my eyes 😂😂

@Little.R Год назад

Despite my most recent relationship ending, the most important thing that I could do during the relationship was doing nothing during times of conflict. There were several times when she was acting ridiculous by throwing a tantrum about something and I simply left the house. She would call me the next day explaining how she was sorry for her actions and such. But after repeats of similar behavior in times of conflict I understood this person mostly wasn't going to help me create a lasting happy relationship.

@JamesEvans-ow1wc Год назад

Never tolerate a rude woman All rudeness is a form of lying, because it has no objective purpose.

@dedeborya9015 Год назад

Ditch the Star Fish widget - easy, peasy

@amorosogombe9650 Год назад

Followed closely by trusting yourself. We don't listen to that inner voice often enough. Trusting yourself is powerful.

@-haclong2366 Год назад

11:45 Most of the women I've dated, those women also tend to either cheat or have trouble actually developing long-term emotions. Not all of them are good in bed either so "experience" doesn't always translate to skills.

@thenarrator1984 Год назад

Your post was a big pointless rambling on

@garygregg1378 9 месяцев назад

I have always thought the Amazon leadership principle "bias for action" to be the absurd antithesis of this message. Fortunately my bias has been to never work for Amazon. 😏

@frontierfabricators6703 11 месяцев назад

I have buckets of patience and tolerance... no issue with doing nothing 👍

@oldkayakdude Год назад

With age and wisdom comes the patience to understand silence or a break from action is actually healthy. Most men don't know have the tools to resolve emotional issues.

@riesenblut7 Год назад

Preach!

@marekm9647 Год назад

Great words relative to every part of life.

@El-Sye Год назад

doing gods work

@25lxghters11 Год назад

Best video yet

@Alex-jv4hd Год назад

As a ceo of doing nth all day i can confirm this

@rymreaper Год назад

Are you comfortable with doing nothing Me a very very lazy person : ye

@thenarrator1984 Год назад

I don't think you understood the message

@richardw3347 Год назад

Just like uncomfortable pauses or silence on a date learn to be okay with it. It can be part of the conversation process. Plus when you don't look all flustered and James Bond cool the female may be like wow he kept his composure when things might of felt awkward and usually the girl will fill in the silence or maybe silence is needed for you to kind of chill or think of something to say next. Be okay with silence you only look more self assured and like getting good at anything, practice, in all situations when that comes up. I heard a teacher once say when they ask a question and the class is silent they will usually pause for a time and usually a student will feel compelled to raise their hand and say something. Don't use it as a manipulative tactic but I mention this too show the power and tension it can create for the positive if u have the right intent behind it.

@SoutheastTx Год назад

Do nothing don't apologize for her behavior. Just let her go if she's stubborn that it's your fault or wants an apology.

@JeffJarret Год назад

Just got dumped, because of doing nothing, when I felt the issue is not that severe. Thank you, no thank you.

@RachelRichards Год назад

Women should stop running away during fights. If a woman is upset, she should discuss her feelings and try to help him understand why she's so upset. If the fight gets heated, it's okay to take a break, but not to punish him by withholding.