This Dating Show Is Embarrassing (Love Is Blind) 

how r u gna clean that up

Is it safe for wildlife in the area? Are they biodegradable?

@@sambastien6083 my thoughts exactly!!!

​@@ifyizzy if these are the same things as orbeez, they just shrink down to their original form as the water evaporates

​@@sambastien6083 if these are orbeez, they originally were used for farms for water retention. That at least means they are safe around food. Not sure wild life safety but I assume there's a website out there that discusses water beads

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It's the effort that counts!

nah this cracked me up lmao

Hahaha

I feel u man🥺 it's really hard to be old fashioned nowadays 😢

🙅‍♀ premarital eye contact is a sin 🙅‍♀

​@@brooke-qk7fg 😂

@@brooke-qk7fg you got that right. Don’t you dare lay an eye on me.

That is how it was in the olden days. Even in different parts of the world, arranged marriages without seeing the person is very much so still a thing.

sounds like something someone from the OUTSIDE would say tbh🫢

XD

He was probably closer to being correct about the sci fi thing waking up in dystopian society than any of the actual guesses lmfao 😭😭😭 but same

heartwarming and inspiring tbh

Explain how Kwame got on there then lmao

explain micah and irina

​@@Lia-gt9eqwow😮....but you're right 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Explain ZACK

so the body types are conventionally attractive, not the faces necessarily. At least for the most part.

RIGHT AND IM EATIN IT ALL UP

Right 💀 it's hilarious

Oh you sweet summer child 😅

who? jarvis? which man?

He’s so wrong about everything and it’s so interesting

Only the premium viewers can understand this

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOLD

Semi unrelated I restarted watching community today and episode one a character says we’re a community so this being the preview comment RU-vid showed me gave me chills

One big cringey family 😁

@@kanavtripathy8653 it is free for us

oh absolutely im so glad someone’s finally said this

I’m with you entirely and hearing it frustrates me to such a degree, I’m a cognitive neuroscientist and I’m telling you IT DOESNT EXIST, it’s not a thing from a scientific perspective

In my experience, these "empaths" are just very good at projecting their own emotions onto other people - they're not actually that in touch with someone else's emotions enough to be affected by them themselves. On the contrary, they are so focused on their own emotions and lack of regulating them that they push that onto those around them

can i get yall help and therapy cause I'm concerned wat empaths do yall kno

I don't know If I'm an 'empath' but I do really deeply feel other's emotions to the point where it severely impacts my mental wellbeing and I get taken advantage of as a 'therapist friend' because I'm a people pleaser and easy to manipulate and I feel obliged to help everyone

Right? If he really misunderstands that as disrespect, he needs to go into the bin.

idk man, if someone i liked fell asleep in the middle of a confession I'd be a bit sad too :/

@@Kawamagi Oh, sad is a perfectly understandable reaction. Heck, even frustration is. But considering it disrespect kind of tends to come with a lot of considering stuff an attack on you personally and specifically. Which tends to be a bad sign in people. A kind and compassionate person might be sad, but won't act as if someone being a bit inconsiderate is the same thing as a personal slight, you know?

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Does the dude actually take it personally?

@@mimisezlol he’s upset at first but after she apologizes and he thinks about it more he forgives her and tells her they can see it as a funny story to remember

While he was pouring his heart out and about to propose 😂😂

Yeah and later her friends confirm that she normally sleeps really easily like that

I would think based on how she was talking and the way they'd been sharing and stuff, he'd recognize it for what it is: she feels very comfortable with him, so much so that she's completely relaxed enough to just fall asleep with him. I thought it was cute, then they come back and he's super angry. No!!!

noo what... :(

​@@janeschwab1682 whhhaaatt?? 👀👀☕

@@janeschwab1682 he flirts with one of the mean girls at a pool party and then also again later and just generally gives off bad vibes once you know him more.

@@wynngwynn .-. It’s funny how y’all totally judge and condemn these people you literally know absolutely nothing about lol. As if TV is any actual real perspective of anyone XD Lmao. “I can feel his bad vibes”- what, through the tv? … nah. Just stop Lmao

I am not defending nor condemning anyone, I just want to second the assertion that these "reality" shows have nothing to do reality and we shouldn't assume that the way the contestants are depicted are accurate reflections of who they are. These shows are predatory and are only popular because the networks save money on writers.

I was just thinking about how I'd love to just go be a chaotic gremlin on a show like this

It would be interesting if they had everyone who is dating "blind" also go on in person dates stuff a different group and see who they are more into

OK but this is something I'll watch...

I feel like you can’t really have a control group for this sort of thing because there are so many variables. You’d have to include a LOT of people in the experiment to iron out the outliers.

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@What Is Life So true

Yep, absolutely 😂

(The following comments I have are to the season as a whole. Although, I've only seen all the episodes up to the 9th) Yeah, Micah is really manipulative and a pure narcissist. And she is very mentally abusive. Her comment that she hoped that Paul would "comply" in the bedroom was really rape-y. If a man said that, he'd be fucking canceled. Irina was very toxic and gross as well, but she was more like a disney villain. If Zach had ended up with her and seen(when watching the show when it's over) how evil and what a sadist she is, he'd probably hate himself. It's horrifying that she was so manipulative that he didn't see how abusive and toxic she was. With Micah, she is such a narcissist and manipulative, that she'd get away with everything. It's in her nature. And then the relationship with Marshall and Jackie. She was disgusting to him, in complete denial about her mental problems, and he was fucking suffering. She did what so many abusers do: guilt trip them into staying. His situation with her is like it is for so many people who just feel stuck in abusive relationships. I can't even count how many times I've been in his position. You could see the pain and how trapped he felt, all over his face and in his eyes. Jackie needs help, and because she just won't admit it, she's so fucking horrible to Marshall, and like any abusive relationship, he's trapped and feels like he can't leave her.

Questioning his judgement after rooting for Irina. He’s got whatever blinkers Zack had on.

@@jakestroll6518 i don’t think they showed any of irinas bad side in ep 1 to be fair

As long as he roasts tf outta Irina, Micah, and Kwame by the season's end, I can forgive him lol

Him going off the beats of the show is really funny given that this season was edited so differently from the previous ones 😂

@@jeremym4551 I’m pretty sure they did but Jarvis skipped over it for some reason. He showed Amber with the Mardi Gras garlands then jumped to Micah & Paul in the pods. Remember Micah & Irena were bitching about Amber & calling her a loser for planning a Mardi Gras party for Paul? If I recall correctly that happened in episode 1, before Micah went back into the pods with Paul & told him she was going to choose him & he should ditch Amber. She was clearly stringing him & Kwame along, but it felt like she was more into Kwame until Amber showed an interest in Paul & she suddenly got jealous & decided she wanted him. Of course that could be down to the edit though.

It’s as if they can’t bring themselves to overlook aesthetics in order to focus on personality and character. That’s how we should engage the world by default.

Yeah 😅 usually it’s the other way around for me. You can look nice but it’s kind of like the fuck bois. What that mouth do? If we talk and don’t vibe or you’re lame you’re not cute or if we vibe you’re cute 🥰. I like cool, fun people! Whatever they look like can become fun. I’m an artist that’s kind of my hobby for years to love the many unique features I see in people!

exactly, cinematic masterpiece

“Oh gosh! Oh jeez” is probably the first time an ad break made me laugh lmao

Really wasn’t expecting him to pull out a gun but shit, caught my attention.

i thought it was a joke. its such an absurd sponsor like what jarvis johnson viewer wants that?

​@@NoaWatchVideo I want this and I'm 38 years old 😂

Sleep and food deprived???

​@@zoeb3573They also stock the entire place with alcohol but don't really give them any other drinks so that's why they're always drinking or seem hungover

Thats amazing

i love how your first thought of how to take away their sense of smell is the rona

Clothespins or Cheetos work well

@@vedoahgaming5549 im concerned about how cheetos could take away your sense of smell

I didn't lose smell during the rona. But it's dangerous. You have to be very careful with left out food and dates on foods

Right lol

Yesss thank you for saying it!!

Like can we please get some average looking folks that aren't insta model status 😅

and why is the perfect couple hosts not a BLIND COUPLE it's so obvious

if all advertisements were for goofy toys my mental health would improve exponentially

Right?! It was so cool

Bro what

I've seen several tubers sponsored by sex toys

​@@brookejon3695 i do not think water guns are a sex toy

"I need to surround myself with genuine people"

Don't get me wrong micah is BAD, But the worst? NOT EVEN CLOSE. This season has sooooo many "gems"😂😂

@@SomethingOddInMyTea For sure. Honestly Micah and Paul deserve each other so I'm glad they seem to be locking each other down. Leopard print guy might be a sleaze but devil you know > devil you don't, yfm? I remember almost laughing out loud when Micah, happily leading Kwame on, was upset Paul was seeing two people at once. Paul not being interested in Micah at all until he noticed Kwame had his heart set on her is also a major red flag. Scum, scum, scum!

"Dropped that red-flag 'empath' line." I have mixed feelings about this. I believe myself to be an empath, and I have since I first began researching-about a decade ago-what could be the reason behind these periods of extreme anxiety/emotional distress that I've experienced all throughout my life. Now, it's abundantly clear to me that Micah is more than likely not an empathic person lol. But, it really sucks to think that, in trying to explain the level of heightened empathy I experience to someone-which, I would never just start speaking about for no reason...it would have to come up in conversation, naturally-that person could potentially see me as a "red flag"...I'm guessing because of some internet/meme joke like Jarvis explained? Lol. I guess I'm just confused on where this suspicion originated from.

​@@mellamobrittney As an empathetic person, I understand where you're coming from. There's nothing wrong with having empathy or being guided by your empathetic self. Where the red flag comes in is the pushing of it. Like hi this is my name, I am an empath. It's just shallow really, and tends to be used as a catch all to get on people's good side. Genuine empathy is a wonderdul trait and tends to be paired with a little more critical thi king and space for the other person. It may seem like a minute differencw but it's an important one. Actions speak louder than words :)

I’ve never related to someone so much on this show though lol

Credit to her, she was exhausted. Glad that she and Brett are doing good though

Well... if he didn't pretend to SHOOT someone... guess only in the US shooting is considered "wholesome".... 🙄🙄🙄

He's been giving off dad energy recently

I feel like he WAS, but has lost a lot of the "jarvis is trying his best" stuff and is just now another RU-vidr Chad.

@@KatinkaMaika boring troll

@@ThisisCitrus watcha mean?

RIGHT? I don't trust self proclaimed "empaths"

People NPD and ASPD take a hardcore advantage of empathetic people. People with ASPD and NPD are generally evil fuckikg human beings with no empathy.

Oh man, bigtime agreed!! Like... Only the people who you interact w/ can judge if you're empathetic or not. You can't just have LOUD FEELINGS, project them onto others, & presume you're having an actual connection... The more I recovered from my PDs? The more I started to see in others how empathetically bankrupt others are... People who weren't demonized the way I was.

How is asking if you’re close with your family or not shallow???

​@@JasminMiettunen you can use it to judge people who come from abusive homes even though is not their fault ☹️

​@@JasminMiettunenikr these people just sound crazy

@@cayannecrassus1657 that’s mean and judgemental but I don’t think that’s necessarily shallow? Things like how much money you make, how much you exercise, what ethnicity you are, etc. those are shallow questions. Asking about your family is a pretty normal question.

The point of the show is to get married to someone you just met it’s gonna be shallow regardless of whether u see them or not😭also they could make their judgment based on how good they think the persons voice sounds

"What happened to... *checks notes* Zack and... *squints* Irina?"

What's wild is that they are all ridiculously attractive, and yet somehow people will not be attracted to their partner and want to date someone else? Truly mind boggling.

@@mars_girl I certainly wouldn't call irena or zack ridiculously attractive lol

Because attractive people actually get to choose, while the other one's get what they can. The contestants are at most average according to European standards, sorry. Plus noone would tune in to watch a bunch of uglies...

@@Another30 I guess I was thinking about season three and Bartise being like "Raven is so hot" and how he wasn't physically attracted to Nancy, and then Cole doing the same thing with the Colleen/Zanab situation. Like in both cases, their partner was conventionally beautiful. It always feels like a case of trying to find an excuse to explain why they don't want to be with their partner.

maybe you're just really down bad? Micah is extremely average, and so are like half of these people whom i haven't bothered memorizing the name

Apparently he got over it when he realized she was asleep and hadn’t walked out on him. I have narcolepsy too, so I’m in a similar boat of needing someone who would understand me sleeping a lot

@@Warmishcookies narcoleptics rise up o7

Omg I have narcolepsy as well!!

I have narcolepsy and I need someone to be understanding about the sleeping thing, especially since it’s something I’m very insecure about.

I thought he thought that she left the room

This comment gonna blow up

This comment sent me lmfaoo

They towed my car!

​@@jsunksnat they tooooowed my caaaaar

Is it him yelling it? Always thought it was the clip from Austin Powers: Goldmember

He is the worst and poor Jarvis should not have to be associated with him 😢

They may look vaguely similar but from what I've seen( not knowing either of them personally) Jarvis is on a higher level

or several chickens

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go to a sleep dr lol, im the same way and it turns out im narcoleptic

You can always get yourself a less expensive fountain pen, $20 will get you a Pilot Metropolitan. 😎

It’s pretty much like being on the phone late at night and falling asleep. Almost everyone has done that and I’ve come to the point now where I just don’t have too serious of convos when I know I’m tired / the person on the other end is!

That's so cute aw😭

That’s cute! Ya Tiffany was completely at ease with him that was a huge compliment. If he can’t see that it’s his loss because he’s too immature

I also met my husband on a dating app. And so did my brother and his wife. 😄

Aww ❤

@@Mama_Bear524 She fell asleep talking to him? That implies she doesn't care about what hes saying.

Code for "you are not allowed to be angry, sad, or stressed ever"

A friend I am no longer friends with for this exact reason just announced on social media she is an empath so I’m feeling this deeply right now.

Thats not even what being an empath means. You notice OTHER peoples emotions and feel them.. so someone else could overreact to everything or be highly emotional and empaths will take on that energy. They never say its not allowed to feel things, because they UNDERSTAND and are EMPATHETIC. Meaning they allow it. They are constantly putting themselves in other peoples shoes. You’re simply getting confused thinking its the opposite.

@@sleepfuelgaming yes that’s the textbook definition, but the people who call themselves an empath are 9/10 the worst person to walk earth 😭

@@isabel-oz4fy if you know them personally and know about their whole life and experiences and can confirm they arent actually empathetic at all then sure.

it brings me so much joy

i immediately sent those to my partner we are gonna have a ball with them things

@@voids3050 i remember playing with them back in high school, genuinely the most fun thing ever. hope you and your partner have the best time with them :)

as a fellow midwesterner, i can confirm

Yep I had it on a karaoke cd of big hits at the time when I was in second grade, sang it with my mom all the time

I HOPE YOU DANNNNNCEEEEEEEE…. I hope youuu… dannnnceee

@@bumblebeebrass164 ahahahaha sorry I just had to reply - for some reason Google suggested an English translation for your comment, totally made my day 😂😂😂

Hahaha yes I thought the same thing! Zack was being so dramatic as if this was such a wild coincidence …. It’s a super popular song 😂

Very black mirror

try ascension by victor dixen! basically they do a dating show on the way to space then they have to live on a planet and do a reality show when they get there. absolutely incredible book, pretty similar to this idea

hunger games peeta and katniss wedding vibes!

The Selection was kinda like that if I remember, but not very silly nor dystopian… never mind

Literally said the same thing as soon as I saw this

It’s about time! Haha

That or a therapy session.

@@erinfournumbers Therapy sessions are more pleasant at least with my therapist

Right!? I was sitting there watching Micah (I believe that was her name. It was one of the blonde girls) getting jealous and over what? She has no right to claim that they’re exclusively dating when it’s a dating show and you’re supposed to be dating other people. It doesn’t help that the guy didn’t seem like he was super into her either

Yes!!!! Every season of the Bachelor has someone with this exact "I am livid that you're dating other people" storyline and I can't help but think the formula needs to be shaken up a little bit 😂

good news he has a lot more videos on love is blind!!

YES I would love to see him and Jordan react

Yaaaaaay yes please!

Yeah, I've been through that too but I made more than my fair share of mistakes on there. The last round that ended in my current and hopefully last partner had one big difference though: I pulled an r/choosingbeggar in that I basically just made two photos of my profile into lists. One was the "these are the deal breakers for me" and "this is what you need to bring into the relationship". Nothing outrageous like "you need to have this height, must be fit, have this hair and eye colour" or something like that: On the 1st list was stuff like "I don't want kids, so you should be okay with that down the road", "I do want to marry one day", "I have pets and I am responsible for those and you can't have a problem with them and shouldn't have any allergies towards them" and even the politic talk "right wing people can fuck right off, if you're a misogynistic butthole you can fuck off too". Basically stuff that wouldn't necessarily come up within the first 3 dates but is super important to actually know. The 2nd list was stuff like "I currently still have problems holding up boundaries, so you need to respect those" or "I can't date another guy that isn't in tune with his feelings" or "you ideally shouldn't have any phobias of snakes or insects, you don't need to touch them if you don't want but having a fear of those would be not optimal" or "I will show interest in your hobbies, but I expect the same in return". Some of these are of course super basic but some of them are not and it helped me so much sussing out some people. I got way less messages and the ones that did write either made for good conversation or were just trolling (only had two of those tho). And in the end, I have a boyfriend that I can really count on and vice versa and we've been together for 1 year and 5 months so far. I couldn't imagine anyone more fitting for me.

I think she must have just meant you can get A boyfriend, doesn’t mean they’re a good boyfriend…and I’d agree with that I GUESS. Yes as a woman finding any single man willing to date me is not impossible, that doesn’t make them the right choice lmao

​@@niyah_uwu Good for you for sticking to your guns, honestly. Being choosy about who I talked to really helped me as well!! Anybody who matched with me and immediately hit me up with flirting or a pickup line BEFORE getting to know me was immediately was off the table (I'm demiromantic and that kind of behavior is a turnoff for me fjdksdjk); same went for generally dry conversation or any tipoffs that guy hadn't looked at the pics I uploaded (WHICH HAPPENED A LOT!!!). My now-boyfriend opened with some really respectful conversation starters and thoughtful, emotionally mature responses, and we ended up migrating over to Discord to chat! We talked for a month before our first date, met up, hit it off really well, and we've been dating ever since! We're really happy and I'm optimistic about the future :)

@@heyyitsjude EXTREMELY good point, and admittedly not something I immediately thought about 😅 definitely an important differentiation there jadslffsgharjfsdk!!

Disagreed. I think more channels should be critical of stupid shit and supposedly harmless pseudoscientific beliefs.

SAME. Love is Blind is the only reality show I actually watch and follow every episode. It’s such garbage, and I’m here for the real and fake drama.

Right I need to see his reactions to being so wrong and the whole Zack/Irina/Bliss thing. Idk why, but I love Love is Blind. It’s so messy and I’m here for it. 😅

Certified Trash Fire!!!!

Why did you not exchange pics first?

Right ? I really want the other episodes with his commentary lmao

^^^

VRChat couples are a thing?.... Waos

Blind people:

Wait what why is this so funny

Wine mas Stand By Me

*Mine was

I need more sleep

Hmm, that’s really interesting. Especially with the way they talk about “the outside”

@@danzinno yea exactly this was my first and literally only thought.. Thisnis just segregation in county jail

Except with alcohol and fancy clothes, but yeah. One participant actually sued them on inhumane working conditions

I wanna read it so bad 😩

THISSS!!!!!! I knew something was messed up about the show! Whenever they say “I would have never dated this person in the real world” HUH I WONDER WHY

Never thought of it this way!!!! That is so so true!😢😮

This comment deserves more upvotes!

OMG UR RIGHT

hahahahaha so true!

The men don’t see the women at the beginning. They’re kept apart 100%. I’m confused on how you misinterpreted that?

>Micah voice< Well, I'm wearing gray too. I think I've just had a stronger connection with Jarvis...

It's not such a weird and rare concept as they make it seem on the show

@@caffeinatedkatie4696 definitely, it happened to one of my best friends as well! For me and the people I know, it's a byproduct of being a social outcast or someone with niche interests. We tend to find people online in communities that communicate with text and voice chat. MMO's, Forums, Discord, Facebook groups, etc.

@@jazzpear8877 This is how I've usually met people as well. I think it forms a stronger bond initially. This show is f'd up because they go right into marriage vs dating.

It's over.

I had seen like two pics of my gf before we became a couple and apparently she even had a crush on me way back when she didn't even know what I looked like at all... We've been together for over three years now, living together for two, still going strong. I have a feeling it's the "not getting married within a month" 🤔🤔🤔

Really? Minnesota?

That was my thought too! My bf always ends up sleepy when we hang out because he's comfortable with me. I felt like it ate into our time at first but it's so nice having a super comfy nap together. She needs a comfy sleep guy 😢

Tiffany is listed in her friends phone as Sleeping Beauty”. In a pre recorded interview she indicated that she can fall asleep any where.

Spoiler She did feel bad but they got engaged regardless :D They are the Power couple of this season

@@Alina-fo9kr I don't know if I like that for her considering how pissed off he got about it. I know I be sleepy af most of my life

@@eliza_km_hanson They had a good talk about it and even discussed it with her friends. He seemed to understand better after that. I’d assume he was so pissed because he initially didn’t know if she straight up left. And he was pouring his heart out when she fell asleep so I guess it’s somewhat understandable he was pissed about it? But honestly, these two seem like the healthiest and most mature couple out of the bunch. They didn’t have any major arguments so far as they’ve established good communication. I wouldn’t even be surprised if they consensually decided to not get married so they can pursue their relationship more naturally.