What was the narcissist like as a child? 

borderline here with some narc covert, and this is so accurate. me too

Damn!!😢😢

I feel you

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Open? If this guy is truly a narc, nothing he's said is true. It's just a lie to get attention and sympathy...

@@ShaftShackDotCom I think someone needs to be blocked 😁 You have no idea how hard it is for a narcissist to be vulnerable and share their past which some might judge because of its content. What Jacob does here is strength. Sure he did say he opened this channel for some narc juice, but being vulnerable with his past in particular, is actually him risking people to judge him harshly because of its content. And you know narcissists do not take that..

Dude, don’t respond out of your hurt. This is a human being capable of feeling pain just like you and me. This guy is doing the work. Please show mercy and compassion

amen

Urgh my teacher was bitch. Who bullies a 4year old??

teachers in so called ' christien' school can be evil

My ex husband did this too. He still does. He has a nickname for everyone, makes fun of everyone and still fantasizes to this day.

Thank you for your service

@@lovelight2577 Ha ha you're welcome.

"gave her a dressing down in front of the whole class" - I'm not fluent in English and don't understand what dress down means. Would you explain.

I wish she would just explain exactly what she said or did also.

@@valiasa-di6hr A dressing down means to put someone in her place. I told her I heard about the way she was mistreating the children and that if she mistreats them again she'll find herself out of a job.

I hear you💗I was average looking in middle school not the worst not the best. Sometimes the popular boys would dare each other to ask out average looking awkward unpopular girls like me at lunch just to see if we were dumb enough to say yes then run back to their table and kiss what apparently were their actual girlfriends on the cheek or lips then stare daggers at me like, "We can't believe you fell for that you loser, like I would ever want you when I have a dime sitting right next to me." Horrific. Then I would go home to being ostracized and mocked at home by my parents and siblings. Just endless bullsh*t like that for years.

Holy shit you're talking about jayfeather? FUCK THAT WAS THE OTHER CAT I RELATED TO WHAT THE HELL HAHAHA His calloused character was like, everything to me at the time

@@Thenamelessnarcissist Yesss jayfeather. Embarrassing but at the time I even carved up a stick from the yard to keep in my bed like when he had to touch the stick to see shit in the future. Every so often my family will be like remember that stick you carved with runes and slept with? God. What a trip

omg. npd warrior cats book club when

Whilst devaluing those who perhaps couldn't change an aspect about themselves. Based on my issues, watching these occasionally pricks me with dread knowing that there are people out there who hate me based on the things I csnt change

I have ADHD as well it's a pain in the ass 😅

I have a video on my homelife, but it's really ashamed of my emotionality in it so for right now it's down. But I may put it back up eventually

@@Thenamelessnarcissist it seems like you’ve come a long way and I’m looking forward to seeing you continue to progress in your life journey. You’re so fascinating and I’m sure you’ll tackle those subjects when you feel the time is right. Keep up the good work!

@@Thenamelessnarcissistit’s ok to be emotional….🩵💯

Sam Vaknin speculates Narcissism is a trauma response.

​@@Pleebian94 Sam Vankin is a grifter and doesn't speculate anything. That narcissism is born out of trauma is heavily discussed in the literature (to which he contributed nothing).

It's a shame too cause if someone has a PD then the implication is there is abuse involved, so nobody wants to go there. But early intervention is one of the best indicators of a good prognosis there is. It's a hard situation to adress

@@Thenamelessnarcissist I hope you've considered an academic career

If nobody speaks up for a kid, they don’t get help. I wish someone spoke up for me when I was younger.

That makes no sense. Isn’t the whole point to help them before they get too far? Bc then the life they continue to lead just causes more traumas….

​@@Thenamelessnarcissistnobody really helps you when you're younger... Kids are kind of considered property of their parents. They're constantly objectified too, but later, you somehow should magically know your identity, values, subjective stance on things, like how?

Same I wanna know too

I understand you i have 33, is like so. I speak with low voice. Is in my nature. I'm very calm, I can literally be without talking all day, people tire me with their empty talk and bad selfish energy. I literally no longer need to communicate with people, because most of what they say is either lying or pretending to be better than you, if you don't allow them to put themselves above you, they won't want to do business with you. At every new job, I'm always the first target of psychopaths, and they always go for me, because I'm calm, I can literally see the sparkle in their eyes as they think they're going to do mobbing. If you're calm it doesn't mean you're stupid, they literally start spinning when I shuffle the cards, they run away from me two meters later 🤣 as they say, 3 devils peek out from the calm. Just like you, I literally have to pounce on people and knock them down so that they at least run away from me, even though it's not in my nature. Otherwise, as an empath, I loved people until I saw that the better you are, the more people step on you, and when you're shit, they respect you and at least don't screw you over. Now I literally hate people and I don't trust anyone anymore, literally people from my close family tried to take advantage of me. I don't know what to expect more from other people. I think I'm becoming a narcissist, literally when I see a man I think he's stupid, or that he's going to cheat on me, so I almost avoid talking to people. And the situation that made me see that two brothers are both good and stupid, I once worked in an old people's home, two reali old man came and wanted to buy water, but they didn't take the coupon with which they would get a discount price because they asked me for that, to which I replied, ok, you don't have to go to the room now, I'll give you water, bring me that coupon tomorrow, I'll be there on shift. At which they laughed disgustingly and said, when you are so good, you should be used for other things, so that you can come to my house as a servant. and not only that, even one rude man told me bring me a beer, and you can take my dirty panties. to which I replied, you will get a beer and give the dirty panties to your wife. I literally realized through that job that everyone is actually looking at themselves, and that they are narcissistic. and that the fact that I was naive and thought that everyone was as good as me, and that no one wished me harm cost me many times in my life, I learned a lesson.

@@DD-D007 so does that mean I am not narc? Just that people invalidated my feelings long long time ago. I feel like shit nowadays.

@@sach746 that the problem is that we trust people, and we give of ourselves, and in return they see it as weakness, as if we are stupid. that means I don't have any mask on my face, and a man should go out into today's world with a mask, literally freeze his face so that they don't see a single emotion on your face, because if they see that you are smiling from the heart, you are stupid. my sister is a narcissist, sometimes when we talk on the phone I smile as if I'm happy to hear her, she answers a disgusting short hello, and only business. I literally feel like an idiot, I need to joke with someone and talk about something honestly, but I have no one to talk to. people just watch how they will make fun of others and that is the laugh of making fun literally when you make fun of someone. I think you are like me, do you find yourself in this story?

… you are asking the wrong person … he is not a mental health expert … he’s dealing with his own injuries and not doing a very good job of it … he’s in a lot of pain and confusion … I would question whether his clinical evaluation of being a narcissist was accurate … these mistakes happen quite often because of similarities in disorders …

Thank you! and I think the mask itself changed, not so much slipped off if that makes sense

This is as real as I can get

@@Thenamelessnarcissist you appeared genuinely hurt when you said your so called friends didn't like you... made me feel bad for you for a sec...

About this guy???

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I think this plays into how the victim mentality begins. A lot of adults with NPD still feel like the world is out to get them.

NPD is a defense mechanism against others, to protect themselves, emotionally and mentally.

The guy doing this video has been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and he’s sharing his experience so we can try to understand narcissism better.

The way they bully each other is all you need to know, most teachers never got out of the middle school mindset sadly.